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How to make a relationship with a man
10 Things Men Want in a Relationship
It is no secret to anyone that men and women
think differently, especially when we put
questions such as relationships and love on the
agenda. The woman, detailing and emotional,
tends to recognize certain traits of a man's
personality in a few minutes of conversation,
either by his posture or manner of speaking. In
addition, she usually fantasizes about future
probabilities within that possible relationship,
questioning herself about her desires and whether
that man meets her expectations. However, within
so many certainties about what we want, there
will always be caveats to a huge question mark -
man. The figure of man usually to be absorbed,
collectively, as a practical and rational being,
who can control his emotions, avoid
sentimentality and allow himself to act on
impulse only for the encounter of casual
sex. Sometimes we even have the impression that
unmasking the mind of a man, always so reserved
and with few open dialogues, becomes almost
impossible to accomplish, and the conclusion of
all this always leads us to the following
statement Men do not know what they want. To
deconstruct this stigma created by the opposite
sex, I decided to
  • direct the following question to the men
    themselves, who were astonishing in their
    responses - as well as very similar to the women
    themselves who seek a solid relationship.
  • After all, what do men want?
  • Gender
  • Of all the items that will follow, this is
    probably the most obvious of the whole list, so
    it comes first.
  • For structural reasons involving hormones, man's
    desire for sex is higher than that of woman, but
    to say that men only think about it when they
    find a mate, would be lying in a generalized way.
  • The truth is that sex is important to any
    romantic relationship, but not the main reason
    for liking someone and being willing to be with
    the other person.
  • Men want sex, but more than that, they want a
    relationship that brings all forms of physical
    contact that show affection, such as hugs, kisses
    and fingers intertwined.
  • Communication
  • Men rarely can read between the lines of a
    woman's speech, so they
  • are looking for someone with whom they can have
    an open and fairly direct dialogue.

  • Just like us men also want to know your opinion,
    what bothers you and what makes you happy. To
    frown and say "Nothing!" When he asks you what
    happened will only make the weather tense and
    prone to unnecessary arguments.
  • Communication that is essential for a
    relationship to work, avoids discomfort and
  • Space
  • It is important that a couple be united and seek
    to grow together within
  • a relationship, but for a man, it is also
    necessary that both have their individuality.
  • We all need a time dedicated to our mind, our
    unique needs and wants, whether to spend time
    alone with a book on our lap or an afternoon of
    chatting with friends.
  • Acceptance
  • Men want to be accepted the way they are. For
    them, there is nothing worse than a partner who
    tries to exert changes in their personality and
    behavior, whether it involves garbage collectors'
    garments or persistent criticisms that end up
    becoming tiresome.
  • We all want to be fully accepted by others, and
    with them it is no different.
  • Authenticity

  • Do not pretend to be who you are not. Some people
    have a tendency to pretend, albeit unconsciously,
    to be what they are not at the beginning of a
  • Like women, men want a true partner, their own
    personality and tastes, who do not pretend to
    feel comfortable in such a situation and place
    just to please him.
  • Sooner or later, the pretense tends to fall
    apart, which leads to arguments and phrases such
    as "you're not who I thought I was."
  • Be you, always.
  • Honesty
  • This item comes accompanied by authenticity,
    being one of the main pillars of sustaining a
    healthy relationship.
  • Without honesty, some relationship survives by
    much. Be honest with your partner just as you
    expect him to be with you. Lies and secrets are
    extremely harmful to any relationship.
  • Fellowship
  • In addition to a partner, men want a best friend
    for all hours, and it is the marriage of both
    parties that generates companionship.
  • In good times, bad, easy or difficult, men want
    to be able to count on their partners. The same
    goes for the contrary, when they seek to be

  • able to help them face obstacles and build new
  • Self-confidence
  • Be confident. For a man, there is nothing sexier
    and more beautiful than a self-confident woman
    with no silly uncertainties and jealousy out of
  • Dedicate yourself and enjoy yourself in the first
    place, do not underestimate your ability and
    never let the insecurity put you down stairs
    where you really belong. Men admire strong, safe
  • Humor
  • Men like humorous women, who can laugh at him,
    and still be able to
  • make him laugh. This can be a determining factor
    in the first encounters, when both are still
    getting to know each other.
  • People who only bring problems, are pessimistic,
    do not know how to laugh and carry more frowns
    than smiles, are not legal for either side.
  • Reciprocity
  • Of all the items on the list, I believe this is
    the most important, for both men and women in

Understanding Men Who Want a Serious Relationship
If you've finally found a man who wants a serious
relationship, you'll want to do your best to make
that relationship last. Even so, it is
  • sometimes difficult to understand what they want.
    You will inevitably make some mistakes during the
    relationship, but with a bit of commitment and an
    open mind, you will be able to understand it. You
    will give yourself a chance to enjoy a lasting
    love when you understand your man's mind.
  • Make him feel masculine
  • Talk to him to make decisions. No matter how much
    you do not need his endorsement to do something
    or make a decision, it's always good to at least
    talk to him. Men like to feel like they do things
    to make their partners happy. If words are not
    working, try to persuade them in a non-verbal
    way doing little pussies and asking dog face is
    a good tip.
  • Make him feel big and strong. Men love to feel
    heroes. Even if you feel strong and independent,
    allowing him to protect you and take care of you
    will make him happy. Appreciate acts of chivalry,
    such as when he opens the door or lets you enter
  • Let him take the initiative. It will be easier to
    see him doing something if you convince him it
    was his idea. Use subtle clues to help you make
    the right decisions.
  • If you want him to fix the car, but are tired of
    asking directly to him. Say something like
    "Today I saw a car on the nail in the middle of
    the BR, that makes me paranoid."

  • You can also say, "I think I need a new car. How
    long would it take us to save enough to make an
    entrance? " He will probably be more willing to
    fix your car for being or motivated to protect
    you, or worried about spending a lot of money.
  • Respect his independence. Do not tell your
    friends (especially if it's around) that you have
    it on your hands. Do not talk as if you could
    manipulate him to do anything for you. The last
    thing he wants is to look like a puppy in front
    of his friends and family.
  • Avoid comments about past relationships. Do not
    constantly talk about your ex, nor compare your
    current partner with him. Also, do not date
    another man if you have not really outgrown your
    ex. No one deserves to be blamed for something
    that another person did, let alone be forced to
    be equal to another. Comparing it with your ex
    will make you feel neglected so do not do this.

Simple and direct communication 1.Interpret male
emotions. Male emotions are much less complex
than female emotions. Men know what they want and
do not want. They usually do not talk about
feelings and are not open emotionally, unless
they feel extremely comfortable with you. In many
societies, men shy away from revealing their
feelings so
  • they can feel as if they are in control of the
  • Learn the meaning behind words. If you want him
    to do
  • something, he can say "yes" even when he does not
    feel like it. You should know him well enough to
    find out if he's saying "yes" just to please you
    or if it's something he wants to do. He will not
    get angry if you do not find out, but he can get
    resentful and feel like he's being controlled.
  • Ask simple questions. For example Suppose you
    are bringing
  • your purchases into the house while he watches a
    game on TV. If you want help, say something like
    "Do you want me to wait until the commercial to
    finish bringing things?" Or "Can you take the
    time and help me bring these bags?" Do not start
    a long discussion about how being not aware that
    you need help makes you feel ignored, or about
    how he never pays attention to your needs, etc.,
    because he will immediately shut down. Be direct
    and simple, so you have more chances to get what
    you want.
  • Avoid being critical or manipulative. Both
    constant criticism and manipulation are
    guarantees that it can go away.
  • Listen to his ideas with respect, even if they
    differ from yours.
  • When you understand it and where it comes from,
    then you can decide if you want to stay with it
    or look for another relationship.
  • If he has to change something extremely important
    before you
  • want to spend the rest of his life with him, let
    him know how you feel, and be prepared. At first,
    he may want to change things like employment,
    city, religion or something else to make you
    happy. However, the change may not be lasting and
    can become a

  • major problem along the way.
  • 7.Be ready to leave the relationship instead of
    asking him to be
  • someone he is not. At the same time, be who you
    are and do not change your values just so that he
    can accept it.
  • Expect physical contact
  • Leave the boundaries clear. Men want to be warned
    by their partners about what they should or
    should not do, as they are not always able to
    find out for themselves. This will not hurt his
    feelings or ruin the moment. This may be even
    good, for he will know the limits. Skip the
    subtle signals and tell him exactly what is
    allowed or not.
  • Accept their fetishes. Men may have fetishes on
    their partner's
  • eyes, hair, hands or other body parts. If he
    likes it when you do something with your hair, do
    it a lot. If he loves your hands and gives you a
    ring, use it whenever you are with him. If he
    likes a more intimate part of your body, enjoy.
    Many women would kill for the attention he's
    giving to his body.
  • Be affectionate. Hold his hand with both hands or
    wrap his arm
  • with his. Place your hand on his face, run his
    fingers through his arm or hold his hand against
    his face or chest. It's good to be affectionate
    as long as you're not sticky. Affection has to do
    with devotion and love being sticky has to do
    with possession. Follow his non-verbal cues to
    learn what he likes or dislikes.
  • Use your touch to calm it down. If your partner
    had a bad day at work, give him a shoulder
    massage while he tells you about it.

  • Say something nice and also that you love him.
  • 5.Enjoy your sexuality. Stereotypes say that all
    men want is sex,
  • but the truth is they want to give you as much
    pleasure as you want to feel. When he knows you
    like what he's doing, his ego increases. So, say
    what you like and what you do not like. When he
    does what you love, give him back.
  • Keep love alive
  • Thank the things he does. A man likes to know
    that his partner feels grateful to be with him.
    He will return the favor 100 times more. If you
    make him feel like he's not good enough, he may
    be unsure about your involvement with other men,
    leaving you. Men do not like to feel inferior,
    just as women do not.
  • Take good care of him. Of course he wants to take
    care of you, but you have to reciprocate. Learn
    the things that make him feel valued and loved.
    For example, if he likes home made food and you
    like to cook, cook his favorite dishes to show
    that he loves you.
  • Show that you admire him. Remember how it was in
  • beginning, when you would do anything for each
    other. Keep this always in mind and treat him as
    someone you can not miss.
  • Make sure it makes you feel as valued as you make
    it feel.
  • Let him know that you will stay with him no
    matter what. Tell him
  • that you will always be with him. Never make him
    feel pressured to get what he wants. Do not
    threaten to end the relationship to achieve
    something insignificant. However, analyze the

  • when you have a good reason to end. Do not
    continue a relationship that does not meet your
  • Give him your trust. When he says he will not
    leave you for any reason and act accordingly,
    trust him. Do not ask constantly whether he loves
    you or not. This can drive you crazy, and you can
    make him move away.
  • Be prepared for a somewhat territorialistic
    behavior. Men tend to be territorialist and
    jealous, particularly if their partners show
    attraction to other men.
  • Respect his feelings and avoid being overly
    attached to other men, either emotionally or
    physically. The last thing you want is a man who
    does not feel secure about his love.
  • A little mystery is always good. Do not wear very
    indecent clothing when you are in public. No
    matter how much he likes his curves, he hates it
    when you show it to others. Dress well and look
    beautiful, but do not look vulgar. Save your best
    for private moments.
  • Get ready for a little jealousy if you travel
    constantly. Men have seen many movies in which
    the girl meets someone new when traveling, and
    ends with her boyfriend. Try to include it in
    every possible trip. Also, when you return home,
    make sure that they know how happy you are to be
  • 7.Enjoy the things you have in common. Your
    boyfriend likes to be
  • included in the things you do. At the same time,
    respect what he likes to do, even if his beach is
    not much.
  • If he likes some sport, learn something about it
    or try to play

  • games with him. If you do not like it, you do not
    have to keep going but often you may be
    surprised and amused more than you expected.
  • Give him gifts based on his interests, not yours.
    Doing this shows that you know what he likes.
  • 8.Know when to make room for it. Men are afraid
    of losing their independence, they want to be
    able to go out with friends while they are
    dating. Even having less to do with friends than
    when he was single, he still needs a chance to
    get out once in a while.
  • You should also keep friendships out of the
    relationship. Thus, you preserve your own

Tips Find out whether or not he wants children.
If you want kids and he does not, this can ruin
the relationship along the way. Also talk about
your creation and creation, to see if you share
the same opinion about parenting.
Notices Always be honest. If you want to have a
healthy relationship, tell the truth to your
partner. Of course you may have some secrets, but
do not hide from him what is happening to you
mentally or emotionally. Do not date without
really liking. If you have the habit of having
many relationships in a short time, people who
are looking for a long lasting relationship will
avoid you. If you're not ready to date seriously,
do not
waste the time of a man keeping that in mind. He
deserves the chance to move on and find a better
relationship. Never try to make you jealous. He
will trust you less and be very angry at the
other guy.
Find out more from
How To Be The Woman Every Man Wants
In the course of our lives, we often wonder why
men seem so difficult to please. Fortunately,
they are not that difficult. Here's how to be
the woman every man wants. Men are not the super
complicated creatures we imagine. Generally
speaking, each one has a particular taste when it
comes to features that they look for in a
woman. There are six traits, however, that every
man finds extremely attractive in a woman. And
you will discover these six traits here in this
article. While some of these traits mentioned
will seem like common sense, the rest will look
like it came out of an Anitta song. One thing
you, dear reader, will notice is that there is a
lot of truth in each of these traits. Here's How
To Be The Woman Every Man Wants!
Appearances Are Important, But The Secret Is
Yes, it sounds like an enigma. Men are known to
be visual creatures, who need to like what they
are seeing first only to later enjoy other traits
of the woman. Keep in mind that this has nothing
to do with weight or biotype, since many men like
different sizes of women. "Appearance is
important" means that the woman needs to be
presentable. Although many women prefer to wear
comfortable clothes and are lazy to make up to
get out, this is actually a missed opportunity
because you can meet a good party anywhere. Now,
this does not mean that you have to wear formal
attire to go to the market. But leave the sweater
at home. The man admires the woman who is proud
of her appearance. For him, leaving the house
with a sweatshirt gives the impression that you
are not proud of yourself and that you are not
interested in finding
your soul mate. Alternatively, the man also
admires the woman who dresses according to his
body type. This includes women of all shapes and
sizes. Men are not interested in perfection. If
you are overweight, there are dresses today that
embellish your curves instead of showing your
curves the wrong way. You do not need to hide
behind t-shirts and pants that are larger than
your mannequin to look presentable. You do not
have to be skinny enough to look pretty. There
are blouses, skirts and jeans of all kinds that
make a woman look great. Also, when you feel
great about a suit, you're squandering self-
confidence. Men love the woman whose main
characteristic is to be self-confident. They
appreciate the girl who takes control of the
situation, whatever it is. Nor does
self-confidence come from your appearance alone.
Self-confidence shows up in what you do ... it
shows up in what you have passion for. Do not be
afraid to show your passion for what you do. The
truth is, the woman can do anything the man does
... from working the car to being president of a
multinational. Follow your heart and let your
self-confidence exhale! The Boss Is The
Independent Woman. Another trait that men find
absolutely irresistible is the independence of a
woman. For a long time they had to pay the
dinner bill and give expensive gifts. We are in
the 21st century, a time of equal
opportunity. There is nothing wrong with being
an independent woman. The independent woman is
powerful and attractive. The man likes the woman
who pays her own bills and who dominates her own
finances. The time has passed since the woman
was a kind of object that the man possessed.
Women today are proud to be able to pay for
things they could not have before. Men lose
interest in a woman if she always expects him to
pay for everything. Men want to buy things for
him, too. Man does not have to sacrifice savings
to buy a house he wants or a new toy just to
impress a potential bride. It's time for women
to celebrate as a whole the fact that they can
make enough money to buy their own expensive
items. Women can buy their own jewelry. Women
can buy their own car. They can even buy or rent
a house or apartment. When the man sees that the
woman has control over his life, he sees a future
wife who can make him a better man. At the same
time, women should occasionally let the man pay
the bill. If you pay for everything, he will
think you are a loser. That is the secret to the
perfect balance in a relationship.
Follow The Flow.
Life tends to follow its own flow. There are
things beyond our control. Should we be stressed
and worried when things do not work out? Of
course not! For a man, nothing is more annoying
than a woman who can not adjust and
adapt. Remember, men are problem solvers. If you
have a problem, they are programmed to appear
with a solution. This goes hand in hand with
independence. A woman who is able to follow the
flow and adapt to the changes around her is
highly attractive in the eyes of men. Do not Be
Afraid To Mess With Hands. Men love to fish,
hunt and camp. Most of them enjoy nature and any
outdoor activity, and it does not matter if it's
raining or snowing.
So, what man would love most is to have a
girlfriend or wife with the same mindset and do
these activities with him. All three of these
activities involve soiling and sweating. There's
no problem with that. The woman was not meant to
be a doll all the time. Men like to be on the
side of women who are willing to get dirty. You
are getting to know each other and he calls you
to a Rally on foot. What would you do? At the
Rally on foot you will cross rivers and dive your
beautiful shoes into the mud. Would you do it?
Other activities can be paintball, trail and
rappelling. Men do not like expensive,
demanding, fresh women who are disgusted with
even a little dirt on their shoes ... or women
who change their mood completely just because
they broke a nail. Handwashing involves other
activities as well, such as cooking. Instead of
getting annoyed because he spilled some ketchup
on his clothes, make fun of the lambanza. Life is
too short to worry about clothes. When the man
spends time together with a woman who is not
to get dirty, he sees a woman who is putting 110
effort into the activity they are doing. So cook
without an apron and enjoy the moment, even if
you had no intention of getting dirty. Believe
me, he will feel the sense of freedom to be who
he is on your side.
Take Control Once In a While. Many people see
relationships as a competition for
control. Although some men love to control the
pace of the relationship, most men like it when
women take the reins from time to time. It could
be as simple as planning a date or something as
seductive as mastering it in bed. For most men,
a woman who knows how to take control from time
to time is irresistible. This shows him that you
are not submissive, which can be annoying if it
is something your partner is constantly having to
deal with. Men also prefer women to have some
plans at times. It's getting hard
for him to find a romantic place for you to get
out. Men are not programmed to be romantic all
the time. That is why they would love a woman's
initiative from time to time. As a woman, you
are programmed to stay in tune with romantic
things, so it is easier for you to plan the
meeting of your dreams. The same thing goes for
different things in bed. Men are accustomed to
being dominant in bed and this becomes routine
for them. Take control of the fuck once in a
while and let him be submissive for a change. He
will get very excited to feel that you are
dominating. This is an easy way to spice things
up. Is it worth doing with it? Read Also The 6
Step Guide To Leaving A Boy Caught By
You Communication Is Important.
Above all, the man appreciates the woman who
knows what she wants and is not afraid to tell
him that. Men were not born to read women's
minds. They do not know what you're thinking
about most of the time and they get confused when
you get angry about something that could be
easily resolved through good communication. Men
need a sense of direction when it comes to wives
and girlfriends. If you do not tell him that you
want him to do something or that you do not like
something, he will not know. Indirect does not
work for men. Clear language is necessary for
them to understand. Do not have the hope that
they will know everything you like and do not
like if you do not talk. As well as
self-confidence and independence, a woman with
excellent communication skills is highly
attractive to men. This shows them that you will
not throw any bombs at him further into the
relationship and will help him feel more secure.
Men are insecure creatures and need women to give
direction. If he does not have to worry about
knowing what you want, they will be
happier. What woman who does not want a happy
man? In short, it is not a difficult task to be
the woman every man wants. Conclusion If you
follow these six strokes to the letter, you will
have more interesting suitors on your way. So
increase your self-confidence with nicer clothes,
let your independent side shine, do not be a neat
doll all the time, show who's boss and let the
communication flow. The less you realize, the
more you'll love the man you love!
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