How To Get The Girl You Want 6 Most Effective Ways

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How To Get The Girl You Want 6 Most Effective
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• There are currently 4 billion single women in
  the world who are wanting to meet a man, so if
  you think there are no fish in the pond, then you
  are wrong. But what I want to do, is teach you
  how to attract the fish that YOU want and make
  this year the year you can confidently approach
  dating and women.
• So lets learn how to fish!

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6) Choose quality over quantity to avoid dating
burnout

• The first thing you need to do is not turn
  this into a number games, but instead a quality
  quest. The more dates you go on, doesnt mean the
  closer you are to finding the one. You can sift
  through hundreds of women, but if none of them
  are what you want then you will just get dating
  burnout and choice fatigue.

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• My advice is to limit your options to finding
  women through two ways 1) through sparking
  conversations with women in real life and two by
  joining only one online dating site or app.
• And heres why.
• Talking to women in real life forces you to
  start identifying and creating opportunities
  around you, instead of feeling that there are no
  good girls out there. Stick with me because I
  will tell you how to do this in number 2!

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• Secondly, when it comes to online dating sites
  or apps, going on more than one just means you
  are giving yourself too many women to choose
  from. Truth is if you cant find enough dates on
  just one site, then you are doing it wrong!
• Too many choices blur the lines of what you want
  and makes it harder to commit to who or what is
  in front of you because you are distracted by the
  fear of missing out of someone greater.
• You arent going to know the full potential of a
  girl if you are too busy comparing her to another
  stranger.

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5) Focus on your strengths not your weaknesses

• Just as you are attracted to a confident
  woman, women attracted to confidence within a
  man. If that is something you have been
  struggling with then its time to start building
  more of it into your life daily.
• We often lack confidence because we focus too
  strongly on our faults or what we dont have
  compared to what other men out there do have.

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• Stop thinking that you need to be an alpha male
  in order to get the girl and start harnessing
  what strengths in your characteristics you have
  that make you stand out.
• I want you to write a list of all the things you
  are good at and also what great qualities you
  bring to a relationship. If you are unsure then
  ask your mates or mum! Put that list somewhere
  where you can see it every day.

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• The next thing I want you to do is make an
  accomplishment board of all the things you have
  achieved that are worth noting. If you become too
  focused on what you want to gain instead of what
  you already have accomplished you can forget your
  current value.
• Thirdly If you know that you have one physical
  feature or characteristic that really charms
  people then enhance that when you go on a date
  with a girl.

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• For example if you have great smile then
  smile more
• Beautiful eyes? Then wear a color that brings
  them out.
• Leadership skills? Organise a date where you can
  lead her through a crowded space and come across
  as someone in control.

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4)Let go of the ones who rejected you

• Alright this is something we have to deal
  with. You cant keep going into a new year
  carrying the same crap, as it warps your
  perspective and blocks the right women from
  wanting to invest into you.
• Rejection happens to the best of us, and some of
  those Hollywood stars you see out there get
  rejected just as much as the rest of us normal
  folk.

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• The best thing to do is to see rejection as a
  redirection. What I like to do, is every time
  someone rejects me, I see it as confirmation that
  they arent meant to be in my life and therefore
  it means I am not entertaining who I shouldnt
• Delete photos of exs and old messages of dates
  that didnt work out and start clearing your mind
  of women who dont deserve a place in your life!

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3) Put some effort into your dating profile

• Ok, you have to realise that you have one third
  of a second to impress a woman online. So, if you
  havent already checked out my other video on
  Tinder profile tips, then make sure you do so
  straight after this video!
• Guys just because there is an abundant of women,
  doesnt mean they are all worth your time. You
  have to use the right bait to catch the right
  fish. And I will tell you right now that if you
  put more effort into your profile, then you are
  likely to get more quality options to choose from.

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• So, heres what I want you to do I want you to
  set aside 20 mins to actually sit down and update
  your profile so it doesnt look like every other
  geezer on there. Select a few photos and send
  them to some trusted female friends and ask them
  which ones they think work best.
• Put some effort into your bio by talking about
  who you are and what you are looking for and make
  it sound interesting and fun!

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• If 20 mins can up your chances of finding the
  right woman, then my question is why havent you
  already done it?
• If you get stuck, then look at successful
  profiles and simply base yours off theres
  without copying word for word! You dont have to
  reinvent the wheel, just know the basics and how
  to enhance who you already are.

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2) Approach more women in real life

• This brings me back to point number 1. Talk to
  women in real life but without an agenda.
• What I mean by this is, often we are scared to
  talk to a random girl because we think she will
  flat out refuse us. But if you make the
  conversation the goal rather than the rejection
  or acceptance of you, then technically you cant
  really fail.

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• Having a casual conversation as opposed to
  straight asking her out, means you have less
  chance of rejection and also makes things seem
  more natural.
• Truth is women love being approached in real
  life, as long as it is done under the right
  circumstances. You can literally accelerate the
  process of meeting someone and set yourself apart
  from the others if you simply take the initiative
  to open a conversation with a girl.

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• If you struggle with conversation, then I
  suggest downloading our conversation cheat sheet,
  because it will tell you what to say, when and
  how to say it so that you can approach a girl
  confidently. The link for that is in our bio or
  click the image on the screen right now .
• The second thing to do is watch my other video
  Heres How She Wants You To Approach Her there
  is a link down in the description.

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1) Learn more about women

• Its pretty crazy how many of the comments I
  read on this channel that say women expect too
  much. You guys have standards, right? Well so do
  we, and instead of getting angry at women because
  you havent met them , try to understand how we
  function .

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• The more you take the time to understand women,
  instead of assuming they all want too much or are
  too complicated , the more you have an advantage
  over other men!
• I would start with actively listen to women and
  asking them what they want instead of guessing
  your way. I would also watch several of our other
  videos like 7 Signs a Girl Likes You , How To
  Flirt With Girls or 5 Things Women Instantly Look
  For.

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• You see if you know how to fulfil her desires
  then she is going to want you even more , so its
  a win win situation.
• Give up the guessing game , that is so 2018 and
  instead start working smart in love so that you
  can accelerate the girl of your dreams into your
  life .