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HOW TO OVERCOME ANGER- Solutions
In the previous post, we discussed about the
anger issue and what could be the drawbacks or
short comings of anger particularly if you are a
businessman. Now what can we do something for
overcoming anger? Yes of course we can. Lets
begin the solutions now. 10. Sit down and have a
talk. Ask him why is he late? There could be many
reasons but you just have to listen and not
react. You may have sent him. B. Some genuine
reason C. Some accident D. Some guest arrived at
his home. E. Vehicle out of order. F. We gave
work and forgot. 9. Listen to his problems first.
We should be a good listener. God gave us two
ears one mouth. So speak less, hear more. ????
?? ????? ????? ??? ?????????? ??????? ?? ??
???, ???? ????????? ????? !!! No matter how good
you have been with others, you lose your temper
once, all your good deeds go in vein. 8. Place
yourself in his body soul. Imagine yourself
having the same X Y chromosomes, same genes,
same upbringing, same schooling, same
neighbourhood, same parents, same society as
society moulds a man, same structure as the
person who made you angry. What would you have
done? Wouldnt your reaction be the same as that
person? Most likely, it would have been. Put
yourself in other persons shoes, you would
understand the situation better and be less
angry. 7. Interpersonal Skills. Whenever we talk
about inter-personal skills, You is the most
important word and I is the least important
word. Whereas in public speaking, when you come
on the stage, when your legs are shaking, you
have butterflies in your stomach, you are short
of words. then its exactly the opposite I is
the most important word and you is the least
important word. Just think that the people
sitting in front of you have taken loan from you
and they are here for the extension of that loan
and you are not going to give them any extension
because you are the most important person. 6.
Understand peoples behaviour. After food,
clothing, shelter sexual gratification
Feeling of importance!! Every person needs name,
fame and identity which would give him
importance. When you criticise a person, his
pride is hurt. He does not feel important and so
you must never criticise others. Not only this,
your criticism may make them your enemies. 5. Say
thanks when criticised. Unjust criticism is often
a disguised compliment. When people criticise
you, its out of jealousy because he thinks you
are more knowledgeable, more successful, more
famous etc. Say thanks to that person.
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Secondly, they criticise you because you need
improvement. Say Thanks anyways because these
person can really help you improve by their
criticism. Click here to watch full video (in
Hindi). 4. Stay quiet when criticised. ??? ?? ???
??? ?? ??????? ???? ?? ?????? ???? (If you are
right then there is no need to get angry) ?? ???
?? ???? ??? ?? ??????? ?????? ??? ??? ? ??? (and
if you are wrong then you have no right to get
angry). Hence, Say thank you or keep quiet. 3.
Never Lose temper, Use temper. On whom do you
lose your temper? You generally lose temper on
younger ones, weaker ones, family members or your
employees. But you should never lose temper,
rather you should use temper. Keeping temper is
important because otherwise your children wont
study, employees wont work. But you just have
to pretend to lose temper. You lose control on
your body when lose temper. Your hands legs
tremble, your throat is choked, you have no
control on facial expressions, you humiliate the
other person in person or publicly. So showing
temper is important. This is how others work
efficiently but use limited words and
expressions. Just act angry. 2. Pinch yourself .
Pinch till you are hurt. This is a punishment you
would give to yourself when you get angry. 1.
Think like a detective and find the reason for
your anger. Analyse your anger. Why you lost
temper? Introspect, retrospect about your anger.
Why, where, on whom, what reason do you lose
temper? Click here to watch full video (in
Hindi). If you the above said things even to some
extent to start with, there would surely be a
great positive change in you as far as anger is
concerned. To join business training or public
speaking course by Mr Anurag Aggarwal in Delhi
NCR, contact us at 7834999292 or visit
www.anuragaggarwal.com
Published by Anurag Aggarwal Institute of
Entrepreneurship Public Speaking Anurag
Aggarwal Institute of Public Speaking (M/s
Navchetna) was set up by the renowned public
speaking trainer, Mr. Anurag Aggarwal, on 21st
May 2000. On this day, he took his first session
(N1) at YMCA, Connaught Place, New Delhi. The
public speaking and personality
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development institute was started keeping in mind
the ever growing demand for communication
skills, presentation skills, English
communication, public speaking and personality
development. The institute started with only one
training center and now it has ten training
centers covering all parts of Delhi and NCR.
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