What You Need to Know Before Getting a Divorce

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What You Need to Know Before Getting a Divorce

• Brought to you by Eidelman Associates

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Synopsis

1. Signs of a Cheating Partner Is it time to talk
   to a Divorce Attorney?
2. Divorce Do You Really Need A Lawyer?
3. How To Get The Most Out of Your Divorce Attorney
4. Confused Whether You Need a Family Lawyer or Not?
   Check Your Circumstances Again!
5. Importance of DNA Paternity Testing In
   Child-Support and Custody Claims
6. Getting Ready for a Child Support Hearing? Know
   What to Do!

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Signs of a Cheating Partner Is it time to talk
to a Divorce Attorney?

• They Spend More Time Away from Home
• When you feel that your spouse likes spending
  time out and come home late, it could be a
  warning sign. You should not take it lightly
  especially if they have always been very punctual
  and spend more time with you after work. If your
  husband was used to help you with baths, dinner,
  and bedtime, and has certainly changed, it may be
  something you need to worry about. A change in
  the schedule without any explanation about why it
  has happened deserves your attention.
• They have Found a New Guys-Only Club
• Imagine this You and your husband have always
  been spending time together. Your date nights
  were amazing. Now, suddenly, you notice your
  husband staying out and become a more active
  party of a newly found Guys-Only club. Is it
  normal? Of course not, and it certainly deserves
  your immediate attention. You need to understand
  that date night is important to keep your married
  life working, and the moment it disappears, you
  start experiencing problems in your relationship
  that are only going to get worse with time.

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Signs of a Cheating Partner Is it time to talk
to a Divorce Attorney?

• They have a Secret Credit Card
• If you ask a divorce attorney, they will confirm
  that one of the most common reasons to get
  divorced is that couples lie about their
  finances. If you have found a secret credit card
  in your husband's name, the chances are that they
  have been helping others shop some nice stuff.
  When you know that your husband is spending money
  on something he has not already told you about,
  it is time to take it seriously and be open about
  what you feel. It is an extremely important
  matter, especially if your husband has recently
  started talking more about financial problems and
  reasons why he finds it difficult to meet your
  needs.
• They are Too Cool or Too Touchy about Their Phone
• It is natural for women to check the cell phones
  of their partner when they think they are
  cheating. Well, your spouse knows it too, and
  that may as well be the reason why they do not
  mind you checking their phone. If your partner
  is a bit too cool about the cell phone, take it
  as a red signal. There is a possibility that
  they have a second phone and use it for their
  'other' activities. Similarly, if your spouse
  does not want anyone to touch their cell phone
  and they have it locked all the time, it may also
  indicate that they have an affair going.

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Divorce Do You Really Need A Lawyer?

• Instead of seeking the help of a lawyer, you may
  want to try a third person who will act as a
  mediator. As a couple, you both should have
  someone you trust and listen to. This person is
  expected to offer good advice to keep the family
  together. You should expect questions such as
  will you like your children to be raised by
  another person?, what will happen to your
  home?, do you want your property divided? The
  mediator will ensure that you, as a couple,
  resolve your issue as one. Not only will this
  save you time and money, it will prevent the
  occurrence of a looming catastrophe.
  Furthermore, your children (if you have any) will
  not have to witness dirty parental fights and
  abuses.
• If the mediator fails to change your minds, all
  you need to do is to go to court and obtain a
  written divorce judgment. This piece of paper
  consolidates that your marriage has been
  dissolved and both parties are single.

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How To Get The Most Out of Your Divorce Attorney

• Be Honest
• Being honest with your attorney will benefit you
  greatly. You do not need to hide any information
  from your attorney otherwise he/she will be
  unable to fully represent your interest. Your
  attorney will make both tactical and strategic
  decisions based on the information you provide.
  Providing inaccurate information will limit the
  attorneys ability to deliver a great job.
• Maintain Realistic Expectations
• Divorce can be stressful. Parties involved are
  usually not in good state psychologically. To
  this end, a divorce attorney will guide you
  through the process and advise you on what to
  expect. If your main priority is to seek revenge
  against the other party, this may not only
  prolong the case but also result in more money.
  The court is very good at dividing properties but
  lack what it takes to divide children. Working
  with a divorce attorney will keep you abreast of
  what to expect.

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How To Get The Most Out of Your Divorce Attorney

• Stay Organized
• During the divorce process, you do not have full
  right to your financial information. At this
  stage, your spouse has a right to get full
  information about your finances until after the
  divorce case is closed. Remember to have all the
  paperwork and documents ready so your attorney
  can represent your best interest. Give your
  attorney easy access to vital information.
• Provide Information in a Timely Manner
• During the divorce process, you need to work
  hand-in-hand with your attorney. He/ she will
  make various requests of you. Make sure you are
  always available and provide whatever information
  your attorney need to pursue the case in a timely
  many. Delay in producing the information will
  not only jeopardize your chances of winning but
  also increases attorney fees.
• Consult a Therapist
• We all know divorce can be frustrating and
  challenging. You go through a lot of pain
  emotionally, psychologically and physically.
  During this trying time, you need to find a way
  to relieve yourself of the accumulated stress and
  pressure. Consulting a professional therapist
  will go a long way.

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Confused Whether You Need a Family Lawyer or Not?
Check Your Circumstances Again!

• Are you getting divorced? Yes, you will benefit a
  lot by working with an experienced lawyer when
  you are dealing with a divorce case or are filing
  for legal separation. In this case, your family
  law attorney and lawyer can work closely with you
  to devise a plan first. They will tell you how
  to proceed even before the divorce occurs. They
  can share their knowledge and help you understand
  issues related to child support, dividing up the
  joint property, organizing custody, and alimony
  payments. You may have to appear in a family
  court in case there is a disagreement between you
  and your partner. Again, a family lawyer will
  stand by your side and prepare your case to get
  the verdict in your favor.
• Are you worried about child support or custody?
  Hiring a family lawyer makes great sense when you
  are having a disagreement on child custody and
  support. Your lawyer can counsel you on legal
  elements linked with custody law. At the same
  time, they can also work with your spouse's
  attorney and lawyer to devise a suitable child
  support and custody plan. If you still have a
  disagreement, you may have to go to the family
  court where again a lawyer can represent in you
  in a professional way.

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Confused Whether You Need a Family Lawyer or Not?
Check Your Circumstances Again!

• Are you interested in adopting a child? Yes,
  family lawyers do not just help you win a divorce
  case, but they can also help you understand
  legalities linked to the idea of adopting a
  child. Most people do not realize that the legal
  system of adaptations can be quite complicated
  and hard-to-understand for an average Joe.
  Therefore, you will benefit a lot by using
  experienced legal counsel.
• Are you a victim of domestic violence? If yes, a
  family lawyer can help you find justice.
  Understand that not taking a step to fight
  domestic violence can alter your life forever.
  Family lawyers are trained to deal with civil
  domestic violence cases and they can directly
  work with you to help you deal with this
  dangerous situation.
• Are you a single mother in need of child support
  payments? If you have been living with your child
  for quite some time and the father of the child
  has stopped offering any child support, you may
  want to talk to a family lawyer for assistance.
  Understand that these matters can be quite
  complex and it is better to let a professional
  take care of everything.

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Importance of DNA Paternity Testing In
Child-Support and Custody Claims

• A simple DNA home test is capable of exposing
  fraudulent claims and preventing you from
  spending fortunes on another mans child. More
  than that, you will be at ease that you are not
  guilty of holding someone elses child in custody
  against their will. You cannot imagine how this
  will aid your financial, mental, and social
  balance.
• The reasons for DNA testing, include
• Protection of parental rights
• Addition of fathers name to the childs birth
  certificate
• Fostering father and child relationship
• Improving access to medical information of the
  family

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Getting Ready for a Child Support Hearing? Know
What to Do!

• Be sure to work with an experienced child support
  attorney and lawyer, and always pay attention to
  what they say you should or should not do. They
  will help you get ready for the hearing and tell
  you how you can increase the chances of getting
  good results.
• Never forget to check every piece of document you
  receive in the mail from your lawyer or from your
  ex-husband's lawyer. With so many things going
  in your mind, it is natural to forget about
  checking those pieces that may contain valuable
  information. Be sure to read it once, wait for
  half an hour and then give it another read. By
  doing this, you will lower your chances of
  misinterpreting anything. Keep in mind that
  giving documentation due importance is vital to
  your success, and always ensure that you do not
  put off replying to any request.

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Getting Ready for a Child Support Hearing? Know
What to Do!

• Never try to furnish the court with false
  information. Lying in the court is a criminal
  offense and it is going to lead to serious
  consequences. If you try to manipulate
  information, you will have its impact on your
  case. Therefore, you should work with your
  attorney and ensure that you fill out every form
  with accurate data.
• Never arrive late. When you arrive late to a
  hearing, it reflects poorly on your case and
  tells the judge that you are not a responsible
  parent. Failing to show up at all is an even
  bigger mistake. Ideally, you should arrive early
  leaving your home early is the best way to deal
  with unexpected traffic jams and other similar
  issues. It is important to leave a good
  impression on the judge.
• Avoid having unrealistic expectations. While a
  good child support attorney and lawyer can always
  help you get a higher compensation, you should
  not have unrealistic expectations. Keep in mind
  that the court will consider the information
  offered by you and your ex, and they will also
  consider the state's child support guidelines to
  make a decision. If you think your ex has not
  supplied the court with correct information, be
  vocal about it. Just ensure that you do it in a
  professional way and let your lawyer guide you
  through the process.

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