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Self image includes
What you think you look like physically. How
your personality comes across. What kind of
person you think you are. What you think others
think of you. How much you like yourself or you
think others like you.
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A Biblical Self-Image
A Biblical Self-Image isnt based on the
subjectivity of our own perceptions or the
perceptions of others, but is based on the
absolute truth of Gods word.
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The rub
Only 4 of Christian students believe the Bible
is the infallible word of God and only 9 of
those students believe in absolute truth.
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Stats say
It is obvious that when students are left to
determine their self-worth free of any absolute
standard, they are then subject to all standards
and their self perceptions will unavoidably
fall short in multiple categories of comparisons.
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Appearance
The average American woman wears a size 10 or
larger (not a 2 or 3, like your average model).
Twenty years ago, the average model weighed 8
less than the average woman today, models weigh
23 less. 400-600 advertisements bombard us
everyday in magazines, on billboards, on TV, and
in newspapers. One in eleven has a direct message
about beauty...and that's not even counting the
indirect messages.
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Appearance
60 of high school girls with eating disorders or
related symptoms do not believe they need
counseling. Eighty percent of 10-year-old
American girls diet. Between 1996 and 1998,
teenage cosmetic surgeries nearly doubled, from
13,699 to 24,623. (Source American Society of
Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeons) One million
teenage boys have eating disorders, and as many
as 400,000 are steroid users.
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Components
Four central ingredients in our self-image A
sense of worth Love Confidence Security
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Psalm 139
Four central ingredients in our self-image A
sense of worth (vss. 1-6)
LORD, You have searched me and known me. You
know when I sit down and when I stand up You
understand my thoughts from far away. You
observe my travels and my rest You are aware of
all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue, You
know all about it, LORD. You have encircled me
You have placed Your hand on me. This
extraordinary knowledge is beyond me. It is
lofty I am unable to reach it. (HCSB)
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Psalm 139
Four central ingredients in our self-image Love
(vss. 7-12, 23)
Where can I go to escape Your Spirit? Where can
I flee from Your presence? If I go up to heaven,
You are there if I make my bed in Sheol, You are
there. If I live at the eastern horizon or
settle at the western limits, even there Your
hand will lead me Your right hand will hold on
to me. If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide
me, and the light around me will become night
even the darkness is not dark to You. The night
shines like the day darkness and light are alike
to You. (HCSB)
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Psalm 139
Four central ingredients in our self-image Love
(vss. 7-12, 23)
Search me, God, and know my heart test me and
know my concerns. See if there is any offensive
way in me lead me in the everlasting way. (HCSB)
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Psalm 139
Four central ingredients in our
self-image Confidence (vss. 13-14)
For it was You who created my inward parts You
knit me together in my mother's womb. I will
praise You, because I have been remarkably and
wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and
I know this very well. (HCSB)
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Psalm 139
Four central ingredients in our
self-image Security (vss. 15-16)
My bones were not hidden from You when I was made
in secret, when I was formed in the depths of the
earth. Your eyes saw me when I was formless all
my days were written in Your book and planned
before a single one of them began. (HCSB)
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The Process
Practical steps to building a Biblical Self-Image
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Recognize your level of influence
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the human child is talked into
talking and loved into loving related into
believing.
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Out of 14 influences listed by teens as having a
lot of influence on how they think and act, only
one was listed by more than 50 of teens
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78 of teens acknowledge that parents have a
major impact on their thoughts and deeds
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In terms of faith, parents were named 3 times as
often (47) as the next most prolific source of
faith influence (16 - the church)
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We must produce in our homes and community
living models of the very biblical truth we
want to see incorporated in our kids or they will
eventually reject that truth and walk away. Josh
McDowell
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The Process
Practical steps to building a Biblical Self-Image
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Recognize your level of influence
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Teach them what the Bible says
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Childrens conceptions of God stem from
day-to-day experiences with their parents.
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The Process
Practical steps to building a Biblical Self-Image
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Recognize your level of influence
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Teach them what the Bible says
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Practice encouragement, guidance, and support
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The Process
Practice encouragement, guidance, and support by
Appreciating your teenager Telling your teen that
you love him Spending time with your teen
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The average born-again church kid spends an
average of only 4½ minutes a day in meaningful
conversation with their father.
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The average born-again church kid spends an
average of only 8½ minutes a day in meaningful
conversation with their mother.
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The Process
Practice encouragement, guidance, and support by
Appreciating your teenager Telling your teen that
you love him Spending time with your teen
Encouraging your teen to make choices Fostering
independence in your child Giving genuine
importance to your teens opinion and
listening Taking the time to explain
reasons Feeding your teen with positive
encouragement
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The Process
Practice encouragement, guidance, and support by
Encouraging your child to try new and
challenging activities Promoting healthy
friendships
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The Process
Practical steps to building a Biblical Self-Image
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Recognize your level of influence
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Teach them what the Bible says
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Practice encouragement, guidance, and support
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Avoid damaging negativity
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The Process
Avoid damaging negativity by
Curtailing criticism
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The Process
Avoid damaging negativity by
Curtailing criticism
Refraining from using guilt motivation Resisting
over-protection Refusing to impose unrealistic
regulations
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Discipline
A proper teaching on sin should include
It should teach Gods standards of holy living.
(Gal. 519-26) It should show a child how we all
fall short of these standards (Rom. 323) It
should show a child how valuable he is to God an
distinguish between ones being a sinner and
being a worthless person. (1 Cor. 11-9) It
should lead the child to Christ, the answer to
his sin. (Jn. 316 112) It should encourage the
child to be obedient out of the motivation of
love, not of guilt. (Eph. 51-2 1 Jn. 411-18)
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