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• They figure if they can get you to agree to "wait
  and see" then you will no longer demand answers
  or ask for information on his mind set or
  feelings. None of this means that he doesn't love
  you or that he doesn't think that you will
  reconcile.So, if you think this is a bit selfish
  of him and you don't agree, does this mean that
  you need to take a wait and see attitude when you
  really don't want that? No, but I would suggest
  adjusting what you are doing.My thinking on this
  evolved out of necessity. The thing is, if your
  husband is suggesting that you not hold on so
  tightly, he's giving you very important
  information and he is potentially giving you a
  somewhat immediate request. I have seen wives
  ignore this request and then find themselves
  faced with a husband who is avoiding them.So, it
  makes sense to pay attention and adjust
  accordingly. This might mean that you watch how
  many questions you ask. This might mean that you
  present yourself as a little more laid back, at
  least when you are with him.

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• Frankly, if this is what it takes for him to feel
  more comfortable when you're together, then OK,
  you can do that. And he doesn't have to know what
  you are thinking or hoping or feeling when you
  are alone. He doesn't have to know that you are
  actively working on yourself and examining what
  might be going on with your marriage when you're
  alone. If that is the price to pay for his
  cooperation, then so be it.So while I don't think
  that you have to agree to "wait and see" in your
  own heart, I don't think there's any harm in
  toning it down a little for his benefit. I would
  never tell you that "wait and see" means that you
  stop hoping, stop working, and stop growing. It
  just means that you're applying less pressure so
  that you can still have access as you can
  continue making progress.Many wives who have been
  forced into a martial separation that they did
  not want make it their goal to get a
  reconciliation as soon as possible. And often the
  biggest question that you constantly have on your
  mind is When?

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• You don't want to be separated for one minute,
  for one hour, or for one day longer than you have
  to. Because of this, it is normal to press your
  husband for a time-frame or a time-line. You want
  to know when this is going to end. You want to
  have a date to put on your calendar so that you
  can count down the days. You tell yourself that
  if you only knew how long the separation was
  going to last, then you could handle it much
  better because you would at least know what to
  expect.This is understandable and I think that
  the majority of wives feel this way.
  Unfortunately though, our husband doesn't always
  play along. He will sometimes resist being forced
  to give a time-line and will often tell you that
  he just doesn't know how long the separation is
  going to last. He will indicate to you that he
  just wants to see how it goes.It could be
  explained this way "when my husband moved out,
  he assured me that this should only be temporary.
  He said that he felt that we needed some time
  apart in order to make our marriage fresh and
  new.

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• He said that the time away would renew our
  commitment to each other. Mend The Marriage
  Review I guess I bought this because I wanted
  to. I truly wanted to believe that this was going
  to be a short change. But it has now been six
  weeks. My husband hasn't had any conversation
  with me about a reconciliation and I am getting
  tired of waiting. Last night, I asked him to
  share a time-line with me, but he resisted. He
  said he can't offer me any time-frame. Because he
  just wants to see how things go and how we feel
  and he can't guess about that. I already know how
  I feel. I am tired of being separated and I want
  to reconcile. But he acts as if I am trying to
  force him to do something that he doesn't want to
  do. So I tried another tactic. I asked him if he
  could guarantee me that the separation wouldn't
  last for any longer than three more months. He
  said that he hoped that it wouldn't, but he could
  not make that type of guarantee. I honestly don't
  know how I will wait that long. And I am
  suspicious about why he will not commit to a
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