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Title: DARE 2 Win


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DARE 2 Win
  • Jean Hedges

2
Goals
  • Have you ever had a goal where you knew what you
    needed to do, but you found yourself sabotaging
    your success?
  • Health
  • Relationships
  • Finances
  • Spirituality

3
Emotions
  • Emotions are the engine that run our actions.
  • The programming weve had throughout our life
    ties into emotions and some of the wiring gets
    mixed and knotted over time.
  • So when you know you need to eat healthy, but end
    up at Wendys eating a cheeseburger and fries and
    sabotaging your health goal. Theres an
    emotional knot thats not resolved.

4
In Stride
  • When we are in these emotional knots, we say we
    are Out of Stride
  • When we are in our productive energized state we
    say we are in the ZONE

5
The Zone
  • The DARE System keeps you on top of when you are
    in the ZONE vs out of stride.
  • Out of stride includes Depression and all of
    its ugly heads boredom, gloom, frustration, as
    well as
  • Anxiety or Stress includes anger, rage,
    nervousness, fear, paranoia

6
Reactions
  • The DARE system gives you a simple method to
    monitor where you are.
  • The biggest reason we encounter setbacks is we
    have no idea most of the time where are
    emotionally because we are so caught up in our
    reactions. We just know we arent getting the
    outcomes we want.
  • We are reacting and letting events and people
    pull our strings as if we were puppets!

7
In Your Zone
  • When you are in your Zone, you are acting not
    reacting
  • You are in full control of your actions and as a
    result, the desired outcomes follow
  • Part of being in the zone is understanding luck
    and fate will play into things, but to develop
    the ability to stay the course regardless of the
    headwinds or tailwinds life throws your way.

8
Monitor
  • We use gauges to monitor many things We have a
    gas gauge on the car, a speedometer, a
    thermostat, a scale, even a mirror to gauge our
    outward appearance. We use tools to gauge and
    measure just about every aspect of our life. Yet
    we dont ever think to get a gauge on our
    emotional state!
  • DARE is a tool to gauge your emotions. Once you
    have a handle on exactly where you are, its
    amazing how productive you can become at getting
    back to your zone or holding it! The more you do
    it the more it becomes a habit!

9
Habits
  • Ultimately we are all products of our habits.
    Using the system creates new habits.
  • Attending a single workshop, reading a book, or
    dieting for two weeks isnt going to produce
    meaningful, lasting change, but by constantly
    evaluating where we are and prioritizing where we
    want to be, we learn to recondition and
    re-pattern ourselves (re habit) into the person
    we want to be!

10
Program yourself for success
  • You have a program running your life. It is
    invisible but its there.
  • It started the day you were born when your
    parents smiled and rewarded you for good
    behavior and punished you overtly or covertly
    for bad behavior.

11
Conditioning
  • It continued when you were with peers. They
    accepted you for good behavior or ostracized
    you (or worse for bad behavior.
  • Then of course theres the media hard at work
    24/7 trying to get you to do what they want.
    After all you deserve a break today! If you
    break your heel, break out your Visa Card.

12
Whose Life is it Anyway?
  • Then you went to work and a whole new set of
    behaviors started being rewarded or punished, new
    friends ditto, managers ditto. So at the end of
    the day, or more accurately, from the time you
    wake up, some one or something is trying to
    control your behavior for their benefit.

13
Hes Ours!
  • I actually heard a manager at the company where
    my husband work gloating over a new hire that
    just took on a lot of debtexpensive house and a
    boat. He said, Thats what we love to see.
    Hes ours now!

14
Easy as A, B, C
  • The DARE System has two parts.
  • The first is gaining an understanding of what
    really puts you into your stride or Zone. Weve
    been so conditioned our entire life to think in a
    certain way, we often have completely convoluted
    our true priorities. This is where depression,
    anxiety, aggression stem.

15
You Have the Power
  • The second phase which is done simultaneously is
    reprogramming ourselves with goal setting,
    affirmations, and flexible prioritizing to fully
    understand what we want. When we arent
    succeeding at a specific goal its because it is
    in conflict with another goal or program running
    in our subconscious. First we need to be clear
    whether we are responding to programmed
    conditioning or our own priority, then we need to
    prioritize what we really want and gear our
    actions accordinglyawareness makes this a
    natural processwe arent using willpower or
    fighting ourselves.
  • We are able to BE our true selves!

16
Balance
  • Its about balance. True balance takes awareness
    and focus. This system gives you a simple tool
    to achieve both!
  • Think about how much the pharmaceutical companies
    and medical communities and self help industry
    has to lose if people learn how simple it is to
    get clear, and stay happy and healthy without all
    of their expensive advice and products. DARE
    empowers you to take control and walk away from
    all of that junk and live a full and joyous life!

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For More Information
  • www.darejournal.com
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