5 Valuable Tips For Divorcing A Narcissist

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5 Valuable Tips For Divorcing A Narcissist
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Divorce can be a painful and unpleasant
experience under any circumstances. However,
divorcing a narcissist can be even more repulsive
and distressing. Narcissistic Personality
Disorder (NPD) is a mental condition in which
people have a distorted self-image. They have an
inflated sense of their importance and the crave
for constant and excessive attention and
admiration. These people do not have empathy for
others and it is difficult for them to maintain
healthy relationships. When a spouse files for
divorce from a narcissist, the persons fragile
self- esteem which is the root cause of his/her
condition, cannot accept the fact. For instance,
a lady engages a divorce attorney in Port Saint
Lucie to initiate separation from her narcissist
husband. The man refuses to accept his
shortcomings as a husband and will no stone
unturned to win the case. It, therefore, becomes
important to know about some vital tips in order
to separate from a person suffering from NPD.
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1. Hire A Strong And Experienced Attorney
Getting legally separated from a partner with
such a disorder can be messy and complicated.
Moreover, the problems can be compounded if you
hire a lawyer with no understanding of narcissist
behavior. It will be pertinent to hire a strong
attorney who has prior experience of handling
cases which involved people with such tendencies.
An intelligent professional who knows exactly
when to be aggressive and when to back down will
be ideal for such kinds of cases. Narcissists
love to get into a fight and are not averse to
creating dramatic situations. You must never look
to fight fire with fire and select a reasonable
counsel with a realistic outlook.
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2. Collect Documentary Evidence Against The Spouse
There is no guarantee that a person with NPD will
speak the truth. Even when standing in a court of
law and under oath to speak the truth, they can
lie comfortably. It is, therefore, necessary to
collect as much documentary evidence as possible
against such spouses. Phone call records,
e-mails, and text messages from them must be
saved. Bills and bank statements obtained in a
lawful manner can also be used to nail their
lies. Remember, narcissists can be very charming
if they want to and can mislead judges. Having
concrete documentary evidence of their wrongdoing
will be helpful in building a strong case against
them.
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3. Assemble A Strong Support Team
Ask the top divorce attorneys in Florida or any
other state and they will suggest that people
assemble a strong support team before pursuing
the case. Divorcing a narcissist can be a much
more mentally and emotionally traumatic
experience than separating from a normal person.
People going through such separations must get
their families and friends to support them. As
mentioned earlier, anyone with NPD can be very
charming and can easily spread lies about their
partners. Having a support system in place will
help you overcome the stress and trauma brought
about by the narcissistic spouses actions.
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4. Limit Direct Communication With A Narcissistic
Spouse
It is essential to limit direct communication
with a spouse suffering from NPD, during the
divorce. For instance, if you hired a divorce
attorney and moved to Fort Pierce and your
narcissist husband urges you to come back to your
former home in Stuart, never go back. Record your
phone conversations and use texts and e-mails to
communicate. This will be helpful in gathering
evidence if he mentions anything unobjectionable.
It will also be sensible to limit your electronic
conversations only to necessary purposes. This
will help you avoid a situation where your
husband incites you to make an angry or hateful
comment which he can use against you.
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5. Be Prepared For A Long Fight
Narcissists hate to lose and will make all
efforts to project them as victims. They will lie
and use charm to spread canards about you. All
this can be emotionally distressing but you must
prepare yourself for a long and ugly fight. Find
an experienced lawyer, gather some dependable
friends, and keep persevering. Sooner or later
the spouses lies will be exposed and you will
get justice.
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