Title: How to Create the Next Generation of Chinese Heroes Bill Bodri
1How to Create the Next Generation of Chinese
Heroes Bill Bodri
2All Parents Want Their Children to be Rich,
Successful, Healthy, Smart, Happy, Virtuous - A
Better Life
- Have the tools for success and happiness in life
- Smart, know how to learn, cultured, adaptive and
open-minded - Wont be destroyed by the fast pace of a
money-oriented society - Think critically and independently, can accept
the best of the East and West, Versatile and
ready/willing to experiment and accept things
(risk takers) - Honest, virtuous, Get along with, deal with
people (can manage others) - Are self-aware, know how to police themselves,
can change their own habits and behavior,
practice self-improvement - Can convince and argue persuasively (can
market/sell/promote) - Know how to set priorities and get things done
(can set and achieve personal goals) - Can create a personal life purpose - spiritually
mature - self-actualized
3Outline of Topics
- Western Brain Research, Neurons, Synapse Growth
and Aging - How to Change Habits and Behavior
- The Learning Environment and Learning Cycles
- Musical Skills - Mathematical Learning
- Linguistic Learning - The Recitation Program
- Structure of Western Education (the Trivium)
- Special Movements that Speed Learning
- Exercises that Teach Virtue and Character
- Views on Modern Schooling vs. The Recitation
program
4Western Brain Research, Neuron Pathways and the
Implications for Learning
5The Brain, Neurons and Synapses
- Brain cells - called neurons - are hard-wired to
other cells before birth. Other connections
develop because of stimulation and the repetition
of experience. The brain triples in size from
baby to adulthood. - One neuron can connect with 15,000 other cells
(synapses). These synapses form the brains
physical maps that allow learning to take
place. During critical brain growth periods these
long thin fibers grow inside the brain, creating
pathways that carry electrical impulses from cell
to cell. All studies find that Age 0-10 is the
time when there occurs peak production of
synapses. - At age 3, the brain is twice as active as that of
a college student. Thats when the brain is most
flexible and prepared to learn by building new
connections and casting off others that arent
used.
6Ages 3-10
- Researchers universally agree that personality,
attitudes, concepts of self, language, coping
skills and learning patterns are in place by age
3. - By age 3 there are up to15,000 connections per
neuron. This is too many. The child needs to make
sense of it all. So during the next 10 years the
brain refines and focuses those connections. The
stronger ones become stronger with use and the
weaker ones become weaker. - By the time the child is a teenager, the number
of connections has decreased in half. Roads with
the most traffic get widened while those with
little traffic fall into disrepair. If the child
has a rich emotional life, those neuron highways
are large. If taught to get angry easily, those
highways get large. (At age 21 the nerves in
frontal lobe have a growth spurt and we realize
our parents are smarter than we thought.) - The carving of these pathways is the individuals
character. The mental (neuron) pathways are the
individuals filter. They produce the recurring
pattern of behavior that makes them unique. They
tell them what stimuli to ignore and which ones
to respond to. They define where the child will
excel and where they will struggle. Beyond the
mid-teenage years, there is a limit as to how
much the character will easily change.
7Which Brain Connections Does Your Brain Keep or
Discard?
- In the early years, the brain forms twice as many
synapses as it will need. Which connections does
your brain keep? - In learning, new brain synapses form or old ones
are strengthened by repetition. If they are not
used often enough or used repeatedly, the brain
connections are eliminated. - Through REPETITION the connections become
permanent. When they are not used and not
reinforced, the neural connections fade away. So
you keep the brain highways that you keep
using. - This tells us to form good habits early through
reinforcement, because later its hard to form
new neural pathways. - This tells us that learning should use the
principle of repetition.
8A Mini Lesson for Adults on Change
- CHANGING people and OURSELVES is difficult. You
go to the same story every week, order the same
food in a restaurant, drink the same liquids,
talk to people in the same way, etc. You want to
change but its hard. Why? - Because your brain is wired through all your
previous behavior (past repetition) to do EXACTLY
what it has done in the past. The wiring doesnt
change except by lack of use. - New highways come about through the repetition of
new thoughts, new behaviors. It takes 5 days to
create a new habit 400 repetitions for
competency 1000 hours for mastery of some skill.
- A new habit does NOT erase an old habit, so you
always have to use your willpower to choose
between actions. This requires awareness
(meditation) and individual energy to go against
habit (fate). Luckily there are some mind
technologies to help you create life changes.
9Mini Lesson on Change ...
- People easily shift back to old behaviors because
those neural pathways have been traveled a lot in
the past. So its hard to quit smoking, start
eating better, or change any behavior regardless
of the technique you use to motivate yourself
(NLP, hypnosis, motivational speech) unless it is
consciously and intentionally repeated time after
time, day after day for months until that
circuitry in the brain becomes the pathway more
likely for the brain to follow. - Thats why the status quo stays the same. People
follow the path of least resistance. The brain
reacts strongly with NO! except for familiar
requests or behaviors. - It takes enormous initial effort to change
because you must literally forge new highways in
the brain. Once formed the highways must be
strengthened through usage and maintained through
further usage.
10- Therefore You Should Form Good Habits from the
Start (and use Scientific Methods to Help Change
Your Behavior) - ARISTOTLE said that Virtue is the control of the
appetites by reason. Virtue is a habit, so here
are the keys to life success and happiness - Learn what is good for you
- Develop good habits to practice it (like athletes
practicing their sport) - Learn to like what is good for you
- What behaviors do you need to be in better
control of your destiny?
11Create an Environment Conducive to Learning and
Neuron Pathways by Encouraging the Healthy Growth
and Usage of the Brain
- Provide lots of rich experiences
- Emotional love and warmth
- Nutrition
- Make use of special learning cycles
12How To Increase the Number of Brain Neurons in
Children to Increase Learning and Intelligence ...
- You should expose young children to many
experiences so that neurons form because in
adulthood the brain isnt plastic enough to be
easily rewired for new experiences. Experiences,
rather than what you are born with (genes),
determine the wiring of the brain. - At age 10, the same experience will NOT have the
same impact as for a 2-year old child, so early
experiences are crucial. Expose children to lots
of sensory stimuli (colors, music, language,
touch, smell, taste) so that they will have the
most flexible brain power for learning. Provide
an ENRICHED environment without undue academic
stress. The number of brain connections increases
when a child grows up in an enriched environment,
especially a rich language environment with a
wide vocabulary.
13Your Environment (Training) is More Important
than Genes or Nutrition
- Studies on malnourished rats show that a rich,
stimulating environment can make up for poor
nutrition. Children suffering from malnutrition
catch up when placed in a stimulating environment
as well. - John Cairnes - On the Origin of Mutants 1988 -
genes change according to the environment
(experiment with lactose eating bacteria) - Harris - Recombination in Adaptive Mutation
1994 - bacteria contain genetic engineering genes
(organisms can create new proteins whose
functions allow them to survive better in new
environments) - David Thaler - The Evolution of Genetic
Intelligence 1994 - biological expression is
defined by the individuals perception of their
life experiences - Forget Darwin Primacy of DNA --gt Primacy of the
Environment - Therefore, What you teach children can overcome
the influences of genetics, poor nutrition and so
forth. Spiritual cultivation says the very same
thing!
14GENES and BEHAVIOR
- A signal from the environment activates gene
expression. In other words, a gene cannot turn
itself ON or OFF but is dependent upon a signal
from its environment to control its expression.
So genes do not determine our character. - The ENVIRONMENT shapes biological expression -
genes are not the source of control for
regulating cell behavior (HUMAN BEHAVIOR).
Expression (behavior) is not under the control of
genes. - In response to life experiences, an organism may
actively alter innate gene programs as a means
to adapt to the perceived environment - so the
educated brain may alter the innate
programming by selecting inappropriate gene
programs that cause disease, or good programs
that propel you forward. - There are two types of gene programs GROWTH and
PROTECTION programs.Our survival is dependent on
both these program types. - GROWTH programs attraction, love - move toward
life sustaining environment - PROTECTION programs repulsion, fear - move away
from life threatening things - Whether you activate GROWTH or PROTECTION
programs is based on how you perceive the
environment. Therefore create a learning
environment with love (emotional support) and
without fear to encourage risk taking and growth.
15Emotional Bonds - Tender Loving Care
- Early emotional and social experiences are the
seeds of human intelligence. Children with a
nurturing environment have a higher IQ and adjust
better to school. - The brain is wired to forge close emotional ties.
If children dont get TLC they lack the proper
wiring to form close relationships. - Emotions cause a release of chemicals that help
the brain remember feelings and events related to
those feelings children form a memory easier if
the event has an emotional component to it. - Your relationship with your child affects their
brain in many ways. The way you interact with
children will have a big impact on their
emotional development, learning abilities and
ability to function in later life. - Therefore provide a RICH environment without
academic stress.
16Nutritional Rules for Children
- Story of Asanga and Vasubandhu - their mother
wanted to create heroes, so she sacrificed to
feed them brain nutrient foods - DHA to make the brain grow, cod liver oil, deep
water fish - Daily multivitamin/multimineral supplement
- Low sugar intake (avoid sweets, soda, candy, )
- Avoid milk, hormones, pesticides
- Clean water
- Avoid air conditioning
- Low intake of grains (high glycemic foods)
- Good fats (olive oil, coconut, butter) and bad
fats (corn oil, soybean oil, margarine) - Fresh vegetables and fruit (use the many colors
rule)
17Brain Development Research
- Conception-15 months Reptilian brain
- Basic survival needs, then hearing, touch,
smell, taste, seeing, motor development - 15 months - 4.5 years Limbic system /
Relationship - Understanding of self and others, emotions,
language. Language exploration/communication,
imagination, memory development - 4.5-7 years Gestalt hemisphere Elaboration
- Whole picture processing/cognition, image,
movement, rhythm, intuition, outer speech,
integrative thought - 7-9 years Logic Hemisphere Elaboration
- Detail and linear processing/cognition,
refinement of language elements, reading and
writing skills, technique development (music,
art, sports, dance,manual training), linear math
processing - 8 years Frontal Lobe development
- Fine motor skills, inner speech, control of
social behavior, eye tracking - 9-12 years Increased Corpus Callosum Elaboration
(a bundle of fibers connecting the 2 hemispheres)
and Mylenation - Whole Brain Processing
18Research Has Discovered Optimal Windows of
Opportunity for Teaching
19Research Has Also Discovered Mind and Body Cycles
for Maximum Learning
- Short Term memory - best in morning (15 more
efficient) - Long term memory - best in afternoon
- Slow Time - 200 - 400 pm (schedule active
activities) - Intellectual Performance - Best in late
afternoon/early evening - Use 500-700 to enhance relationships (dinner)
- Comprehension - Increases as day progresses
- Reading Speed - Decreases as day progresses
20Research Suggests the Following about Repetition
and Long Term Memory
- You need to take a 5-10 minute break after each
40-60 minute study period, or your memory
retention goes down a lot - After 24 hours you tend to forget 80 of what you
learned - To remember forever, overlearn by rehearsing
regularly. Repeat learning after 5-10 minutes,
the next day, 2 days later, 1 week later, 1
month, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year later
21There are Many Ways to be Smart - There are
Multiple Intelligences Besides Linguistics
- Howard Gardner (Frames of Mind, 1983) says
intelligence is the ability to see patterns and
draw relationships - Linguistic (word smart) - left temporal frontal
brain lobe - Logical mathematical (logic smart)
- Spatial (picture smart) - posterior right
hemisphere - Bodily kinesthetic (body smart)
- Musical (music smart) - right brain hemisphere
- Interpersonal (people smart)
- Intrapersonal (self smart)
- Naturalist (nature smart)
22Music Skills
23Music
- Before a child can process language, they can
process music - Exposure to music affects spatial-temporal
reasoning (the ability to see a disassembled
picture and mentally piece it back together). - This reasoning is good for strengthening the
brain circuits used for mathematics, engineering,
complex reasoning. - Music optimizes brain development, enhances
multiple intelligences, and facilitates bonding
between adult and child. It integrates different
skills simultaneously, therefore developing
multiple brain connections. Musical experiences
are vital to speech, motor development and
sensory integration. - The earlier children are introduced to music, the
more potential they have for learning and
enjoying music when they get older. - The more adults sing or play music to children,
the more their brain generates neural circuits
and patterns.
24Music and the Brain
- All sounds - music, words, rhymes - help shape
the brain - Many studies show listening to music can boost
memory, attention, motivation and learning - Jean Houston - music raises the molecular
structure of the body - it resonates with our
body rhythms and has a powerful influence on our
alertness and ability to learn - Scarletti - music is a mood enhancer - songs
boost endorphins (hormones) and endorphins boost
attention and memory - Clynes - the bodys pulse responds to classical
music, not rock - Graziano - piano lessons help spatial temporal
reasoning (4 year olds who took 6 months of piano
lessons scored 30 higher than their peers who
received singing or computer lessons) - Mozart effect - brain activity had similarities
to the written score of Mozart pieces the
patterns in Mozarts music parallel the patterns
the brain uses as it connect synapses
25The Mozart Effect
- 1996 Study College Entrance Exam - if students
sing or play an instrument they score 51 points
higher on Verbal and 39 points higher in Math - University of CA study - if you listen to Mozart
for 10 minutes before the SAT exam you get a
higher SAT score - Shell, IBM, Dupont, universities use music to cut
learning time in half - University of WA study - listening to light
classical music for 90 minutes, students catch
21 more copywriting errors - Baltimore hospital study - heart patients get as
much benefit from 30 minutes of classical music
and 10 mg of Valium - CA State University study - migraine sufferers
were trained to use imagery, music and relaxation
techniques to reduce the frequency, intensity and
duration of their headaches
26Music and Learning
- Lozanov and Novakov - listening to Baroque music
lets you learn as quickly as sleep learners -
phrase in a foreign language are fed to people in
4 second intervals against the background of a
60-beats per minute Baroque music - Iowa State University Memory retention ?26 and
speed of learning ? 24 using 60-beats per
minute Baroque music - Dr. Alfred Tomatis (French Academy of Sciences) -
when the electrical potential of brain cells
starts to fade we experience dullness and
fatigue. If you listen to high frequency sounds
(5,000-8,000 hertz) the vibration of Corti cells
in the ears acts as a brain generator. Mozart has
the highest number of high frequency sounds, rock
music has little (and kills plants) and Baroque
music and Gregorian chant also recharge the
brain. In short, high frequency sounds energize
the brain. Sonic Bloom for plants, too.
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28Linguistic Skills and the Recitation Program
29The Importance of Reading and Talking to Children
- The plasticity of the brain and its ability to
rewrite itself makes it easy to learn language. - Reading to children will help grow their brain
and help them associate books with what they love
most -- your voice and closeness. - Reading and talking to them increases the number
of words theyll recognize (sing to them). - Reading books to them stimulates their
imagination, expands their understanding of the
world, helps them develop language and listening
skills, prepares them to understand written word. - People deprived of language as children rarely
master it as adults, not matter how smart or how
intensively trained. Children learn language by
hearing words over and over.
30- An adults vocabulary is largely determined by
speech heard in the first 3 years. At 20 months,
children of talkative mothers have 131 words more
than others and at 2 years, they have 259 words
more than non-talkers. - The size of a childs vocabulary is directly
related to how much a parent or caregiver talks
to the child. Talking to a child is the best way
to develop their language skills. The more words
a child hears, the more connections their brain
makes and the faster they learn a language. The
sound of words creates the neural circuitry
required to develop language skills. - When they hear the sounds of a language, neural
links are formed that help them build a
vocabulary. Children learn language by hearing
words over and over, so the earlier you start
talking to them the better.
31The 3-Part Classical Western Education uses the
Recitation Technique
32The Classical Western Education
- TRIVIUM (Verbal arts)
- Grammar
- Logic
- Rhetoric
- QUADRIVIUM (Math arts)
- Arithmetic
- Music
- Geometry
- Astronomy
33The Classical Western Education
- All educational systems in the West used this
approach from Medieval times until the early
1900s - This approach teaches people HOW TO LEARN
- The TRIVIUM teaches the proper use of the TOOLS
OF LEARNING before applying it to subjects of
knowledge - 1st - learn LANGUAGE (grammar)
- 2nd - learn how to use a language to make
statements and arguments (logic) - 3rd - how to express oneself in language
(rhetoric)
34The Grammar Stage
- Children can memorize quickly and easily (math,
poems, shapes, dates, appearances, rhymes, names,
properties, anything) - Children can learn a foreign language without
effort - Reasoning is difficult and not liked
- As long as it is FUN and they have INTERACTION,
they will learn and PARROT BACK to you whatever
you give them - Pleasure leads to repetition repetition leads to
mastery - OBSERVATION and MEMORY are the master (most
lively) faculties - YOUR JOB cultivate their passion for learning,
make it fun, DO NOT rush them to the next stage
of logic and explanations - gt This is the RECITATION PROGRAM
35Your Job as Teachers - Grammar Stage
- At this stage, anything and everything that can
be memorized should be memorized even if the
children dont understand it - Start learning a foreign language now before the
facial and mental muscles rebel, memory fades,
and neurons die off - Learn the math tables now, otherwise they will
never be learned with pleasure (dont do
complicated math processes) - You can have them memorize Dates
- This is the time for teaching THEOLOGY and VIRTUE
and ETHICS (Tao, Bible, Ten Commandments, myths,
legends, etc.). Put this into their mind now.
Virtue and character Destiny - Dont think of these activities as school
subjects but as the gathering together of
material for use in the next part of the TRIVIUM
- you are laying the groundwork for higher
learning
36The Logic (Dialectic) Stage
- Students want more than facts, they want to
UNDERSTAND - Students ask lots of QUESTIONS, CHALLENGE YOU,
ANSWER BACK this is not disrespectful but
natural they just want to go DEEPER - They want to learn who, how, what, why, what
supports an issue and what is relevant to making
a correct decision - They need to learn How to Learn and that their
present ideas and experience are not enough, but
need more education - The master faculty is DISCURSIVE REASON (LOGIC
and DISPUTATION) - As Teachers, introduce LOGIC to them - how to
separate TRUTH from FICTION and FACT from THEORY - Start teaching risk-taking and consequences
37The Rhetoric Stage
- This is the most exciting stage when we can see a
glimpse of our educational efforts - Students can express themselves in polished, well
thought out, grammatically correct verse they
show creative thinking and problem solving
capabilities - Students start specializing in subject matters of
their own interest (medicine, engineering/inventin
g, business/leadership, hobbies ) - This is the POET Stage or difficult age where
the student is self-centered, wants to express
himself, is misunderstood, is restless, wants
independence - A good teacher at this stage helps challenge
their activeness and helps them synthesize what
they know - Do not prolong intellectual childhood at this
stage or postpone acceptance of responsibility -
mentors, trades, apprenticeship
38Physical Movements that Will Speed Learning
39Body Movements and Learning
- Doing arm and leg movements that cross from one
side of the body to the other has a dramatic
effect on learning. The left side of the brain
controls the right side and visa versa, so the
movements forces the two sides of the brain to
communicate with one another. - Every 90 minutes the normal hormone levels of our
body peak. This peak causes the brain to get
stuck on the left or right side. The use of the
cross lateral movement is an easy way to
unstick the brain. You need to engage both
sides of the brain to learn effectively.
40Movement Research and Development - ADD
- Paul and Gail Dennison - Lateral Repatterning,
remedial education - Dr. Samuel T. Orton - neurology (perceptual motor
training) - Dr. Constance Amsden - Malabar Reading project
- Dr. Doman and Delacato - speech and reading
problems - Dr. Louis Jacques. O.D. - vision training pioneer
- D. Samuel Herr, O.D. - vision training
- Dr. G.N. Getman - optometrist
- Richard Tyler - chiropractor
- Bud Gibbs - sports kinesiologist
- Touch for Health
41Brain Gym - Educational Kinesiology (Edu K)
- Specific Body movements help people to learn (26
movements). - These movements produce rapid and dramatic
improvements in concentration, memory, reading,
writing, organizing, listening, physical
coordination, This is enhanced learning through
movement. - These movements lead to increased self esteem,
the ability to harness motivation, skills to
identify and avoid stress, increased awareness of
oneself, tools for team building and cooperation.
42Movement Brain Buttons
- Place one hand over the navel and the other hand
stimulates points between the ribs (rub the
indentations between the 1st and 2nd ribs under
the collar bone to the left and right of the
sternum) - This will really wake you up and get you ready to
learn - Navel Hand - brings attention to center of
gravity, body balance, alerts the RAS to wake up
the brain for sensory input - Rubbing Hand - stimulates blood flow to the brain
from carotid arteries (first arteries out of the
heart with oxygen)
43Movement Cross Crawl
- Cross lateral walking in place
- Touch the right elbow to the left knee and left
elbow to the right knee - Perform the movements
very slowly - Both hemispheres of the brain will be activated
simultaneously over time more nerve networks
form and communication between the two halves of
the brain become faster and more integrated for
higher reasoning - This activates full brain functioning
- Good for writers block, improves mental
performance in 50-60 year old people and inactive
people, great to do before physical activities
like sports or dance
44Movement Hook-Ups
- Stand, (1) First cross one ankle over the other.
(2) Cross the hands, clasp and invert them.
(Stretch your arms out in front of you, back of
hands together and thumbs down. Lift one hand
over the other, palms facing and interlock the
fingers. Roll the locked hands straight down and
in toward the body so they rest with the elbows
down.) (3) Rest your tongue on the roof of your
mouth behind the teeth. - Result is like the cross crawl exercise. Tongue
position brings attention to mid brain. This
posture connects emotions in limbic system with
frontal lobes of the cerebrum, giving an
integrative perspective from which to learn and
respond more effectively. - If students are disruptive in the class, or after
a fight, make them do Hook-ups for 2 minutes
before talking. This decreases adrenalin
production and allows them to see others points
of view more clearly. - People should use this when their STRESS levels
rise, and students to control their behavior so
they dont get into trouble. If you are stressed,
do this for 2-5 minutes.
45EFT - Emotional Freedom Technique
- For Disciplinary problems
- For Fear and Phobias
- For Procrastination
- For Eating Problems
- For Changing Behavior
- etc.
46Movement The Thinking Cap
- How to do Just unroll the outer ears from top to
bottom - This wakes up the whole hearing mechanism and
assists memory - theres a link between hearing
in the temporal lobe and memory in the limbic
system - there are 148 acupuncture points in the
ear - Example Close your eyes and listen for a few
minutes. Are you hearing things equally on both
sides? Does one ear work better? Now unroll your
ears 3 times on each side and close your eyes.
Notice the difference? - University of Hawaii found this exercise useful
when trying to recall some technical information
for an essay or exam - This is great for trying to remember a name
47Movement The Energy Yawn
- Massage the muscles around the TMJ
(temporal-mandibular joint). 5 major cranial
nerves run across this joint (eyes, tongue,
face,) - When children have difficulty reading, sometimes
the eyes arent working well together. They may
not be hearing well due to stress. - Why this works? The jaw tightens when we are
stressed and so nerve function across this area
decreases. The Energy Yawn releases the area so
sensory intake happens again. It facilitates
better verbalization and communication. By
relaxing the muscles, you facilitate full nerve
function across the joint for the eyes, facial
muscles and mouth.
48Movement The Energizer
- Place your hands on the desk in front of you.
Lower your chin to your chest,feeling the stretch
in the back of your neck and the relaxed
shoulders. Take a deep breath, scoop forward
bringing the head up and back, allow the back to
arch slightly and open the rib cage. Exhale,
curve the back and bring the chin back to rest on
the chest. - Take the Energizer break after a short learning
session to reactivate focus. This is great when
you sit at the computer. - Why it works? The body moves in a way that
activates the vestibular system, wakes up the
brain, relaxes the shoulders which improves
hearing, and brings in more oxygen to assist in
nervous system functioning.
49Exercises for Teaching Virtue, Character, and
Good Behavior
50Lesson I Want My Character to Be as Pure as
Clear Water
- TEACHES HONESTY
- MATERIALS 3 glasses, water, chlorine bleach,
food coloring - Fill 2 glasses with water (and secretly) 1 glass
with bleach - Say There are 2 friends, one obeys his parents,
goes to school and never gets into trouble the
other gets into trouble, talks back, tells lies.
Every time you say person 2 does something
wrong, put one drop of food coloring into the
glass so the water becomes darker. The glass
becomes darker and cloudier -- stain fills his
whole body and mind. Now no one wants to be with
him. He decided to become good. Pour some bleach
into the glass. He decided to stop telling lies
pour some more bleach.
51Lesson All Tied Up by Lies
- TEACHES HONESTY
- MATERIALS ball of yarn or string, chair
- Have someone sit in a chair (who you secretly
told to lie). Start talking about honesty. Ask
the children if they can think of a time when
they made the decision to be honest even when
lying was easier. Ask the person in the chair a
question they lie and wrap them once with the
string ask another question they lie and wrap
them again - Ask the children if they can see what telling
lies does to someone. - Ask them what happens to someone who always tells
the truth. - Ask them to tell a time when someone was caught
in a lie. - Ask why its important to always tell the truth.
52Lesson Repeating Gossip is Like Letting Go a
Bag of Feathers
- TEACHES GOSSIP
- MATERIALS paper bag, feathers (or rice),
chopsticks, a bedsheet - Go outside and sit in an open area. Talk about
the importance of good manners and respecting
others. Put the feathers in a bag and hand it to
a child. Tell them to toss the feathers
everywhere. As they do it, instruct the
feathers not to fly away but to stay where they
are. Discuss how the feathers are like GOSSIP or
talking behind someones back -- the feathers
will blow from place to place even if you tell
them not to its easy to says things about other
people and spread rumors. Now tell them to
collect the feathers gossip is easy to do but
hard to take back. (You can use rice and ask them
to use chopsticks to pick it up).
53Lesson Please Pass the Toothpick
- TEACHES TABLE MANNERS
- MATERIALS Toothpicks
- Sit down to dinner. Place 10 toothpicks at each
persons place. Tell people youre going to see
if they have table manners. Every time someone
notices another person NOT using table manners,
they can ask that person for one of their
toothpicks. He must give it up CHEERFULLY. When
you finish eating,t he person with the most
toothpicks is the winner and gets a treat. - Example No elbows on the table, wipe your mouth
with your napkin and not hands, chew food with
your mouth closed, say please, dont talk with
your mouth full, etc.
54Lesson See the Other Side (Golden Rule)
- TEACHES RESPECT - SEE THE OTHER SIDE
- MATERIALS 2 pictures of the same type of object
cut from a magazine, poster board, tape or glue - Cut 2 pictures of the same type of object from a
magazine (a baby, house, car, fish, boat, etc.)
shown two different ways. For example, one
picture might be of a Christmas tree, and another
picture of a tree branch covered with insects.
Tape the pictures on 2 sides of the poster board.
Put the board between two people, tell them you
have a picture of the same item on each side of
the board. Ask each person to take turns
describing one feature of the object without
telling what it is (it has bricks, it has brown
eyes, its circular, ). When they realize the
picture is different, ask them how to resolve the
disagreement (1) tell the other they are wrong
(2) argue and insist your description is correct
(3) go around to the other side and try to see
the picture from the other persons point of
view.
55See the Other Side ...
- Why is it important to see things from the other
persons point of view? - Why do people often argue about something without
trying to see the other side? - Who benefits from seeing the other persons side?
- What is the Golden Rule and what does it teach us
to do? - Does obeying the Golden rule help us avoid
arguments? - What does it mean to walk in someone elses
shoes? - Can you think of a time when you were right about
something and someone disagreed with you? How did
you solve it?
56Lesson Is the Pot Full? What thing do I do
First?
- TEACHES Do the IMPORTANT things first, Theres
always room for more - MATERIALS Pot, rocks, gravel, sand, water
- Have the students fill a pot with large rocks.
Ask, Is it full? When they say yes, fill in the
spaces with gravel. Ask, Is it full? When they
say yes, fill in the spaces with sand so there is
no more space. Ask, Is it full? When they say
yes this time, fill it with water. - This teaches to put the BIG rocks in first. Do
the important things first, otherwise you will
never be able to fit them in.
57The Birth of Reason
- 6 years olds - all the pieces of individual
cognition come together - Test for 4-8 year olds. Fill 2 short, squat
glasses with equal amounts of water and ask, Do
the two glasses contain the same amount of water,
or does one have more?Pour all the water from
one glass into a tall, narrow glass and ask the
child the same question. - 4-year olds the tall glass has more water in it
(the difference in the water level is too great
for them to believe its the same amount even if
you pour it back into the small cup) - 8-year olds they know the amount hasnt changed
and can tell you why - The difference between the two is the birth of
reason. This is the emergence of operational
thinking when they start applying logic to solve
problems. Most 4- and 5- year olds cant make the
conceptual connections, so RECITATION PROGRAM -
TRIVIUM - MEMORIZE during early years - 3- and 4-year olds Ask them if they want one
marshmallow now or 2 after a 20-minute delay and
they rarely resist the immediate treat whereas 5-
and 6-years olds can resist for the double
reward. So children have more discipline and
mental control by age 6.
58Lesson Is My Life in Balance?
- TEACHES How to balance life
- MATERIALS 2 small Ziploc bags, wire hanger,
30-50 pennies, masking tape, pen, hook or nail - Label 2 ziploc wags with tape lifes pleasures
and lifes stresses. Put them on opposite sides
of a hangar. Suspend the hanger on a hook or nail
so that it hangs freely.Put a small piece of tape
on each penny. Write an abbreviation on one penny
for each child activity (swimming, video games,
watching TV, soccer,..), commitment (visiting
family, service activities, scouts) and daily
responsibility (school, chores, homework). As the
child picks up a penny, ask them whether it
brings PLEASURE or PRESSURE. Place it in the bag.
After all the weights have been placed, itll
be obvious whether life is in balance or not. - Ask what they should do to restore equilibrium?
59Lesson One at a Time Goals
- TEACHES GOALS, do things one at a time
- MATERIALS a handful of pennies (coins)
- Tell the child youll play a game. Show her a
handful of pennies and tell her these are special
pennies called goalies (little goals). Stand a
few feet away and ask them to see if they can
catch the goalies when you toss them. Then toss
7 or 8 or a whole handful at once. The child will
probably catch only 1 or 2. - Now do it just 1 at a time. After you have done
all the coins, count how many they caught. - Explain the reason the pennies are called
goalies is they are like goals. When we try to
do too many goals at the same time, it is
difficult and most wont be done. When we do 1 at
a time with planning, well have more success. So
a BIG GOAL needs to be made into several little
goals taken 1 at a time.
60Lesson Domino Goals
- TEACHES GOALS
- MATERIALS a set of dominos (mahjong tiles)
- Line up 30 dominos in 3 rows of 10 each so that
knocking down the 1st one will cause the whole
row to fall. - The first row should have a small gap so that the
whole row wont fall down. - The second row should have one domino off center
so the chain reaction cannot be completed. - The third row should be straight so they all fall
successfully
61- Explain how goals can help you in life (getting
good grades, learning how to play the piano,
doing chores,). Explain in order to achieve a
long range goal we need several well placed
smaller goals that stay on course. Have them
knock down the 1st row with the gap and explain
that if we skip a vital step in our progression,
we wont succeed. (ex. You want to buy a bike, so
you do chores for money all summer and then spend
it on candy) - Have them knock down the 2nd row. Again the
reaction will stop in the middle. Discuss that if
we dont stay on course with our goals we wont
achieve the desired result. Example we join the
band to learn to play the flute, but then play
with a friends guitar and forget the flute,
being sidetracked we never learn either. - Have them knock down the 3rd row. Talk about how
small, well planned goals lead to success. - Illustrate this with a real goal the child is
working on. Tell them to write down their goals.
If we dont succeed at the goal, should we keep
trying? Is learning from mistakes helpful? Would
life be more fun if we never tried to get better
at anything?
62MODERN SCHOOLING
63Modern Schooling Wrongly Assumes
- Government schooling is the essential force for
social cohesion. It cannot happen any other way.
A bureaucratized public order is our defense
against chaos and anarchy. (culture) - Socialization of children in groups monitored by
state agents is essential otherwise children
wont learn how to get along with others.
(Sudbury Valley School) - Children from different backgrounds and beliefs
must be mixed together (wise but not necessary) - Teachers, because they are certified, are smarter
and wiser than parents and better educational
experts. The state must protect people from
uncertified teachers. (many great leaders
self-schooled) - Forcing children to assemble in mandated groups
for mandated intervals with mandated texts and
overseers does not interfere with academic
learning.
64- The world is full of crazy parents who will ruin
their children so we must protect children from
bad parenting (home schooling) - Its not right for a family to concern itself
over the education of its own child, but its
okay to worry about the general education of
everyone. - The state has the predominant responsibility for
training morals and beliefs. (historically its
been parents, community, society) - -- John Taylor Gatto
65The Modern School System
- Trains bad habits and attitudes (like
indifference and not caring about anything too
much since theres the immediate turning on/off
like a light switch - when the bell rings then
leave the topic) - Since people drive purchases, trains consumerism
for the economy. Bored people are the best
consumers and childish people are easiest to
convince, so schools are boring, extend childhood
into adulthood, and teach dumbness - Schools were reformed to meet the needs of
business since business wants standardized
(predictable) customers and employees. Since
certain employment requires specialization,
demand that employees specialize their training
and thereby become incomplete - spiritually
dangerous - Competition makes children abandon trust in their
peers and not be responsible - An atmosphere of low-level stress and danger
means that relief only available from appeal to
authority - an arena of meaningless pressure -
teaches how to be frightened - Emotional dependency and conformity - wait for
teacher smiles, checks, prizes - intellectual
dependency - good students wait for the teacher
to tell them what to do - Teaches confusion - nothing is linked together
- Provisional self-esteem - tests/grades/report
cards/SATS, children taught to measure themselves
based on the casual judgement of strangers
66Famous Home Schooled, Self-Taught People in
America
- Inventors Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell,
... - Generals George Patton, MacArthur, Robert Lee,
... - Artists Leonardo da Vinci, Claude Monet,
- Presidents Washington, Jefferson, Adams,Lincoln,
Roosevelt, Wilson, - Scientists Albert Einstein, Curie, Pascal, ...
- Statesmen Churchill, Benjamin Franklin, Konrad
Adenauer, - Composers Mozart, Mendelssohn, Irving Berlin,
... - Writers Mark Twain, Dickens, Hans Christian
Anderson, - Children schooled at home are brighter and more
impressively human than institutionalized kids!
67The 3 Historic Purposes of Education
- 1. Training to be a good person - the religious
purpose - to make good people who acted out of
principle and were fit to live next to - people
with an inner life and values transcending the
material - 2. Training to be a good citizen - the public
purpose - to make a citizen class who love the
country and knew how to argue and work for the
civic/public good and improve it - 3. Training to enable one to live the life one
chooses - the private purpose - to make
self-directing individuals who knew their own
strengths and weaknesses, and help them develop
their personal power, to find some particular
talents to develop to the maximum
68The Fourth Purpose of Public School - Prussia
- Prussia realized what centralized schooling
(Volksschule - 92 of the children) could offer
(not intellectual development but socialization
in obedience and subordination) - obedient soldiers for the army (All Quiet on the
Western Front - a product of good schooling) - obedient workers for the mines
- well subordinated civil servants for the
government - well subordinated clerks to industry
- citizens who thought alike about major issues
- an artificial national consensus on matters
worked out in advance by leading German families
and institutions - Real Schulen (8 of children) taught real
thinking and intellectual development - 4. School exists to serve the corporate economy
and managerial functions of government (as in
Prussia, a servant of corporate and political
management) so isolate the children from the real
world
69Harvard List What Must an Educated Person Know
The Ability to
- Define problems without a guide
- Ask hard questions which challenge prevailing
assumptions - Work in teams without guidance
- Work absolutely alone
- Persuade others that your course is the right one
- Discuss issues and techniques in public with an
eye to reaching decisions about policy - Conceptualize and reorganize information into new
patterns - Pull what you need quickly from masses of
irrelevant data - Think inductively, deductively, and dialectically
- Attack problems heuristically
70Investigate these Models
- Amish system in Lancaster Pennsylvania
- Mondragon cooperative in Basque, Spain
- Harmony School in Bloomington, Indiana
- Rudolf Steiner Waldorf system
- Montessori
- Homeschooling (John Holt)
- Escalante,Collins and Gatto
- Institute for the Achievement of Human Potential
- Ben Franklins Autobiography
- Herbert Spencers Education
71How to Create the Next Generation of Chinese
HeroesBill Bodri
72Review of Last Time
- The Brain, Neurons and Change
- The Trivium (Grammar stage - Recitation)
- Movements
- Teaching Virtue
- The Failings of Public Schooling
73Must Reading for Young Adults
These few books can change someones life because
they teach Success principles, discipline,
self-control, getting along with others, merit
making, life purpose, cultivation,
self-improvement
- Liao Fans Four Lessons
- The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin
- Lao Tzus Treatise on the Response of the Tao
- Think and Grow Rich (Napoleon Hill), As A Man
Thinketh (Allen) - Nan Huai-Chins Book on the Confucian Analects
- How to Win Friends and Influence People (Dale
Carnegie) - The Platform Sutra of Hui-Neng
- Plutarchs Lives of the Noble Romans
74Topics - The Young Adult
- PERSONAL ACCOMPLISHMENT
- Setting Goals
- Creating Plans, To Do Lists, Time Management
and Setting Priorities - How to Create the Future You Want
- PERSONAL EXCELLENCE
- How to Model Superstars for Personal Excellence
and Success - Special Mental States You Can Cultivate
- SPECIFIC SPECIAL SKILLS
- Creativity - Problem Solving
- Academic Study Skills
- Money Skills
- HOW TO CHANGE YOUR FORTUNE AND DESTINY TO CREATE
THE LIFE YOU WANT
75How to Set Goals
76Why Do We Need Goals?
- When impoverished rats are put into cages with
toys and learning experiences, their brain cortex
grows really big - In teenage rats, a boring environment has a
bigger thinning effect on neurons and the brain
than an enriching environment has on growing
the brain and thickening the cortex - Therefore, rats lose mental ground when not
challenged - People need to be challenged with goals as well!
77Why Goals?
- Princeton University Study - only 10 of people
are natural learners, and the rest have to be
pushed - Harvard University Study - the 3 who write down
their goals make more money, have more free time,
and accomplish more than the 97 who do not
78Goals Workshop
Heres what people ordinarily teach ...
- Get a record book and redo this every year
- Write down 5-8 lifetime goals
- Write down 5-8 annual goals for this/next year
- Write down 5-8 things to do each month to improve
your life - Write down 2-3 autosuggestions to program into
your subconscious (Im good at solving
problems, Im patient with other people, etc.)
79Brain Tracy Method for Setting Goals
Your ability to select your most important tasks
at each moment, and then to start on the task and
get it done both quickly and well, will probably
have more of an impact on your success than any
other quality or skill you can develop
- 1. Decide exactly what you want
- 2. Write it down
- 3. Set a deadline
- 4. Make a list of everything you can think of
that you are going to have to do to achieve your
goal - 5. Organize this list into a plan
- 6. Take action on your plan immediately - review
constantly - 7. Resolve to do something every single day that
moves you toward your major goal (like Liao Fan
and Ben Franklin)
80Life Goals Exercise
- Write on a piece of paper Life goals or Things
to do before I die - Make a list of everything you want to do.
Everything. Write books, make money, travel,
learn to dance, write till you are done. - Let it sit for awhile. Then narrow the list to
your top 10 choices. Then rest. Then cut it down
again to your 4 top goals. - Pick the goal that is number one, and put it on
top. - If you havent done these things yet and youre
over 30, theres a 80 chance you wont finish
them unless you do this exercise. - Convert those goals into 5 year objectives.
Create one year lists, then monthly lists and
from that weekly lists and from that daily lists. - These are YOUR PRIORITIES, and you will have to
sacrifice lesser interests to achieve them, but
theyre YOURS. Now youll have a much better
chance to achieve any of them, especially 1.
81Important Points for Creating the Life You Want
(Life Goals)
- Write it down in complete detail - a complete
picture visualized with all five senses for your
subconscious mind to work on - Write it down in the positive because the
subconscious mind cannot distinguish between
negative and positive - Be specific, measurable and realistic - establish
reward milestones - Dont set goals too high or low, vague,
conflicting, miracles - Think it through - work it backwards to see how
to get there - (Model yourself on someone who already achieved
what you want) - Feedback - Measure Yourself - Am I on track, is
it working, if Im not progressing what isnt
working? (if you continue doing the same thing
youll continue getting the same results) - Review your goals daily - judge decisions by
Does this take me closer to my goals that matter
or not?
82A Review - Setting Goals
- What are your dreams in life for
- Career, finances, business, income, home, family,
health, physical, mental, educational,
intellectual life, experiences, possessions,
travel, fun, social, cultural, relationships,
spiritual - Write down WHY you want it, if not move on (if
you cant find a reason for it, why?) - Write down the time frame 1-2-5-10-20 years out
- What obstacles can come between me and my dreams?
What skills, abilities, attitudes, action steps,
objectives do I need to do? Break them down into
steps with deadlines
83Kevin Hogan Method for Setting Goals
- Make a sheet with four squares - 4 DREAMS
- (1) Business/Career
- (2) Health
- (3) Intellectual Life
- (4) Social/Family/Home
- REASONS why you must have it
- The Pain you will feel if you dont achieve it
(future pacing) - The Pleasure you will feel if you do achieve it
(future pacing) - The ACTION STEPS you must do every day to get
there - You need to put this in a book for every year and
review constantly. Yearly goals and monthly
goals.
84Thinking About Goals
- What are the top 10 places you want to visit
before you die? - What 10 events would you really like to
experience first hand (theyd be so awesome that
youd talk about them for the rest of your life) - What 10 skills would you most want to acquire?
(what do you want to become excellent at?) - What does your dream home look like? (number of
rooms, flooring, square footage, color of the
kitchen, neighborhood, ) - How much money would you like to earn per year?
- What would your family like to experience over
the next 5 years? - What 10 toys would you most like to own?
- What 5 things would give the greatest sense of
accomplishment in your business life? - What 10 things would give you the greatest sense
of accomplishment in your personal life?
85Bodri Method for Setting Goals
- Know your outcome. Fix in your mind exactly what
you want. Write it down. Be specific. - Then take massive intelligent action toward the
goal. Consistent disciplined action. (Model a
winner and do what they did) - Measure and track your results to see if you are
getting them. - If you are not getting the results you want,
change your approach! - Change ... Change Change until you get your
desired outcome. Perseverance and discipline to
stay working at it. Dont dream, work! - Secret Formula GOAL DISCIPLINED ACTION
AWARENESS (meditation) and MEASUREMENT for
correction MERIT and VIRTUE RESULT. - Liao Fan
- Benjamin Franklin
86GOSPA
- GOALS - a place you want to end up at the end of
a certain period (a certain sales level or
profitability level) - OBJECTIVES - sub-goals you must accomplish in
order to achieve your goals (in the areas of
sales, distribution, staff development,
technology installation, cost control,
manufacturing, ) - STRATEGY - the method youll use to accomplish
your objectives on the way to the goal (ex. build
an internal sales force, outsource selling to an
external organization, ) - PRIORITIES - the things youll have to do first
and second, whats more and less important - ACTIVITIES - the specific day functions delegated
to specific individuals with deadlines and
standards of performance
87Creating Plans and To Do Lists to Achieve Your
Goals and Stay on Track
88Daily To Do List
- Start with your WEEKLY to do list
- Takes 5 minutes per day, but requires discipline
all day - Write down 25 things to do (assignments, errands,
appointments), select the top 6 most important
things (you cannot do 15-25 significant things
in a day) - Those 6 things will yield the biggest impact on
your life and results. Dont focus on the urgent
or easy things. Do the 20 that makes the 80
difference. Those 6 things MUST get done. You
will fail to do them unless you make them a
priority. - Compute the time for those 6 tasks, add it up
- Schedule those activities (structure them so none
takes longer than 1 hour) - now your day is
organized according to what you want from
yourself - Keep focusing on the 6 important things
throughout the day (so you get closer to your
long term goals each and every day) - Do the most important thing first that moves you
ahead - Do this the night before or each morning
- Check off items to give yourself a sense of
completion
89To Do Lists
- Hint - do one of the top priority highlighted
tasks that makes you feel good first - Create STOP DOING lists, too
- Success is what happens to you a little when you
do a little more each day over and over - Success can come in a windfall but usually comes
bit by bit - (1) Youll get more done with this method
- (2) Youll have fewer unnecessary crises
- (3) Youll spend a bigger percentage of you time
doing things that move you along to the goals you
desire - Business people use two accordion folders, one
with a pocket for each month (12) and another for
each day (31). Put follow up materials in the
slot thats appropriate.
90The Famous 25,000 To Do List Story
- Human beings will avoid doing what needs to be
done. We put lots of energy into avoiding the
hard, unpleasant, realities of life. Its not
that we dont know what to do. Its that we dont
do it. -
- In one story, steel magnate Charles Schwab told
his management consultant Ivy Lee that What we
need around here is not more knowing, but more
doing. If youll pep us up to do the things we
already know we ought to do, Ill gladly pay you
anything you ask. Lee took him up on the
proposition. In 20 minutes, he told Schwab,
Ill show you how to get your organization doing
at least 50 percent more. He started by having
Schwab write down his six most important tasks to
complete in the next business day, according to
their importance. The consultant encouraged
Schwab to share this approach with his
executives, judge its value, and, send me a
check for whatever you think its worth. - Two weeks later, Lee received a check for
25,000 a kings ransom in those days. In an
accompanying note, Schwab said it was the most
profitable lesson hed ever learned. The lesson,
of course, was the power of focus. The person or
organization that understands and acts upon
its Top 5 and Top 1 of 5 will succeed.
91John Adams, 2nd U.S. President, Master List-Maker
- Wrote first draft of the Declaration of
Independence - Recommended George Washington to lead the war
- Went to France and convinced them to send their
navy - Convinced the Dutch to lend us the money to
fund the war - Our first ambassador to Great Britain after the
war - 1st Vice-President and set-up all the initial
protocols - 2nd President
- His February 1776 list from his diary
- An alliance to be formed with France and
Spain - Government to be assumed by every colony
- Powder mills to be built in every colony and
fresh efforts to make saltpeter (for the making
of gunpowder) - Declaration of Independency
92Other Lists to Make