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Title: Raising Your Children


1
Raising Your Children
  • Whos Wisdom are you following
  • Mans or Gods?
  • 1 Cor 213-14

2
Todays Discussion
  • History of modern parental practices
  • Mans Discipline vs Gods Discipline
  • How to Raising Godly Children
  • Final Considerations

3
How did we get here?
  • In 1946, Dr Benjamin Spock published his infamous
    book Common Sense Book of Baby and Child Care
  • Since 1960 the rate of Violent Crimes has tripled
  • Children are murdering children, their teachers
    and parents
  • Teenage mothers are disposing of their babies in
    trashcans

4
How did we get here?
  • Since the Sexual Revolution of the 60s
  • Its estimated 1 in 4 teenage girls have had a
    STD
  • In the past 5 decades, the number of distinct
    STDs has risen from 5 to more than 50
  • Obsession with sexual violence has brought about
    a 318 increase in sexual assault

5
What You May not Know About Dr Spock?
  • He felt his approach was a ''practical
    application'' to the ideas propounded by two
    early 20th-century sages, Sigmund Freud and John
    Dewey
  • The doctor was arrested at various protest
    demonstrations.
  • Dr. Spock was the Presidential candidate of the
    People's Party, a coalition of left-wing
    organizations
  • He raised his own children strict and to be
    polite and obedient
  • He noticed adverse effects in mothers children
    after authoring his book

6
Cause Effect
  • In the 60s parents watched their children become
    sassy and contentious
  • Crime rates began to clime SAT decline
  • How could Dr Spocks book have such an affect?
  • His website claims it is 2nd in sales only to the
    Bible. 50M sold in 42 languages
  • Among the 100 most influential people

7
Cause Effect
  • Dr Spock was aware of his negative influence upon
    parenting
  • In 1968 he told NY Times his 1st edition
    contributed to permissive parenting
  • He said Parents began to be afraid to impose on
    the child in any way
  • He tried to remedy this by emphasizing the need
    for setting standards and asking for respect
    in his 2nd edition

8
Cause Effect
  • Since Dr Spocks radical ideas, an industry of
    Experts have jumped on the bandwagon
  • These experts have promoted their own version of
    Indulgent Child Rearing
  • Parenting approaches that foster narcissism
    contempt for authority have become widely
    accepted
  • In 1968 he said that he would be proud if the
    idealism and militancy of youth today were caused
    by my book

9
Mans vs Gods Plan for Discipline
10
Mans Plan for Discipline
  • Ignore the Child
  • Give your child some space
  • Create a diversion
  • Discipline w/o spanking
  • Find out what is really frustrating your child
  • Hugs
  • Offer Food or Recommend Some RR
  • Give Your Kid an Incentive to Behave
  • Speak Calmly
  • Laugh It Off
  • Get Out of There

11
Gods Plan for Discipline
  • Ps 10313
  • Pro 18
  • Pro 1129
  • Pro 121
  • Pro 131
  • Pro 1725
  • Pro 1920
  • Pro 226
  • Pro 243-4
  • Pro 2915
  • Mk 325
  • Eph 61, 4
  • Col 320-21
  • Tit 24-5

12
As a father shows compassion to his children, so
the Lord shows compassion to those who fear Him
  • Ps 10313

13
My son, hear the instruction of your father, And
do not forsake the law of your mother
  • Pro 18

14
He who troubles his own house will inherit the
wind, And the fool will be servant to the wise of
heart.
  • Pro 1129

15
Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he
who hates correction is stupid
  • Pro 121

16
A wise son heeds his father's instruction, But a
scoffer does not listen to rebuke
  • Pro 131

17
A foolish son is a grief to his father, And
bitterness to her who bore him
  • Pro 1725

18
Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That
you may be wise in your latter days
  • Pro 1920

19
Train up a child in the way he should go, And
when he is old he will not depart from it
  • Pro 226

20
Through wisdom a house is built, And by
understanding it is established By knowledge the
rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant
riches
  • Pro 243-4

21
The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left
to himself brings shame to his mother
  • Pro 2915

22
And if a house is divided against itself, that
house cannot stand
  • Mrk 325

23
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for
this is right.
  • Eph 61

24
And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to
wrath, but bring them up in the training and
admonition of the Lord
  • Eph 64

25
That they admonish the young women to love their
husbands, to love their children, to be discreet,
chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own
husbands, that the word of God may not be
blasphemed
  • Tit 24-5

26
Gods Thoughts on Spanking
  • Deu 85
  • Deu 2118
  • Pro 1013
  • Pro 1324
  • Pro 1510
  • Pro 1710
  • Pro 1918, 25, 29, 30
  • Pro 226, 15
  • Pro 2313-14
  • Pro 263
  • Pro 2915, 17
  • Heb 125-11

27
Gods Design in Discipline
  • Bring about change of Behavior (Pro 623, Pro
    1915, 18)
  • To Develop a Conscience (Pro 2313-14, 2 Cor
    78-11)
  • To Demonstrate Love Concern for the Child (Pro
    1324, Heb 128, Rev 319)
  • To Develop an Understanding of Wrong (Jam 516,
    1 Jn 19)

28
Bipolar or Spoiled
  • The symptoms, which are regarded as evidence of
    bipolar disorder, usually are what most people
    recognize as ordinary belligerence. Children who
    have anger outbursts, who refuse to go to bed,
    who are moody and self-centered under the current
    standard of care in child psychiatry are being
    diagnosed with bipolar disorder. To most rational
    human beings, these behaviors describe an
    ill-mannered, immature and poorly disciplined
    child. Nonetheless, the temper tantrums of
    belligerent children are increasingly being
    characterized by doctors as the mood swings of
    bipolar disorder.  
  • Instead of grooming, feeding and educating the
    next generation of Americans to be the fittest,
    brightest, most competent contributors on the
    planet, we have indulged, placated and spoiled
    our children into dysfunctional misfits. We are
    teaching our children to use a psychiatric
    diagnosis to excuse their antisocial behaviors.
    This will inevitably lead to a greater reliance
    on psychiatric medications, which unfortunately
    do not endow an individual with improved
    self-control or maturity.
  • Dr. Elizabeth J. Roberts, Child and Adolescent
    Psychiatrist

29
Raising Godly Children
30
Tips To Raise Godly Children
  • Love them with All Your Heart (Tit 24)
  • Teach them the Bible (Psa 785-7 cf Eph 64 2
    Tim. 314-15)
  • Discipline them Properly (Pro 1324, Eph 64)
  • Take them to Church (Psa 1221)
  • Be a Good Example (Joh 1315)
  • Show them the Right Priorities (Mat 633, Luk
    1426)
  • Lead them to Christ! (Rom 116)

31
Raising Your Children
  • Some Final Considerations

32
Children are more influenced by sermons you act
than by sermons you preach - David McKay
33
Live so that when your children think of fairness
and integrity, they think of you - H. Jackson
Brown, Jr.
34
Your children will become what you are so be
what you want them to be - David Bly
35
It is easier to build strong children than to
repair broken men - Fredrick Douglas
36
It is my view that our society can be no more
stable than the foundation of individual family
units upon which it rests Our government, our
institutions, our schools, our way of life are
dependent on healthy marriages and loyalty to the
vulnerable little children around our feet -
James Dobson
37
Don't worry that children never listen to you
worry that they are always watching you -
Robert Fulghum
38
  • He who loves his son will whip him often, so that
    he may rejoice at the way he turns out. He who
    disciplines his son will profit by him, and will
    boast of him among acquaintances. He who teaches
    his son will make his enemies envious, and will
    glory in him among his friends. When the father
    dies he will not seem to be dead, for he has left
    behind him one like himself, whom in his life he
    looked upon with joy and at death, without grief.
    He has left behind him an avenger against his
    enemies, and one to repay the kindness of his
    friends. Whoever spoils his son will bind up his
    wounds, and will suffer heartache at every cry.
    An unbroken horse turns out stubborn, and an
    unchecked son turns out headstrong. Pamper a
    child, and he will terrorize you play with him,
    and he will grieve you. Do not laugh with him,
    or you will have sorrow with him, and in the end
    you will gnash your teeth. Give him no freedom
    in his youth, and do not ignore his errors. Bow
    down his neck in his youth, and beat his sides
    while he is young, or else he will become
    stubborn and disobey you, and you will have
    sorrow of soul from him. Discipline your son and
    make his yoke heavy, so that you may not be
    offended by his shamelessness. Better off poor,
    healthy, and fit than rich and afflicted in body.
    Health and fitness are better than any gold, and
    a robust body than countless riches. There is no
    wealth better than health of body, and no
    gladness above joy of heart. Death is better
    than a life of misery, and eternal sleep than
    chronic sickness.
  • The Holy Bible New Revised Standard Version.
    (1989).
  • (Sir 30117). Nashville Thomas Nelson
    Publishers

39
Train up a child in the way that he should go,
and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
- King Solomon
40
What We Discussed
  • History of modern parental practices
  • Mans Discipline vs Gods Discipline
  • How to Raising Godly Children
  • Final Considerations

41
Gods Plan for Salvation
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