Never Say Goodbye

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Never Say Goodbye
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When will you say goodbye?

• Lovers departure
• Friends leaving
• Familys passing away
• Being away from hometown
• Your past/history

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Ways of saying goodbye

• goodbye/bye see you later/catch you
  later/around ( see again soon, for young) so
  long ( do not meet again for long time) have a
  nice day/good weekend/great time etc have a
  good one( good wish) take care take it easy
  (for friends, family member) nice to meet
  you/nice meeting you (for friends met for the
  first time)

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How do you say goodbye?

• so long ????,????????goodbye
  ???,????????????bye-bye ?????,????,for children
• Catch you later, see you tomorrow (????)

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Farewell ??,??,?????????

• Farewellold-fashioned the action of saying
  goodbyefarewell party /dinner /drink etc a party
  or dinner that you have because someone is
  leaving a job, city
• A Farewell to Arms(1929) a novel by Ernest
  Hemingway about the romantic relationship between
  a US man who is working as an ambulance driver
  and an English nurse in Italy during World War I

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How do you say goodbye?

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Inspiration

• Life is full of turns where we need to say
  goodbye, and goodbye is always a sad word. But do
  you still remember our first hello, and the
  beautiful moments that we shared together?
• Let the fruits of joys grow during the departure,
  my friends, till the next time we meet.

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People in our lives

• Some people come into our lives and quickly go,
• Some people move our souls to dance.
• They awaken us to new understanding with the
  passing whispering of their wisdom.
• Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze
  upon.
• They stay in our lives for a while, leave
  footprints in our hearts, and we are never , ever
  the same.

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• It is not easy to live life sometimes.
• And face the world with a smile when youre
  crying inside.
• It takes a lot of courage to reach down inside
  yourself.
• Hold on to that strength thats still there.

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• And know that tomorrow is a new day---with new
  possibilities.
• But if you can just hold on long enough to see
  this through,
• Youll come out a new person---stronger
• With more understanding and with a new pride in
  yourself.

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Never say goodbye Hayley Westenra

• If I could take this moment foreverTurn the
  pages of my mindTo another place and timeWe
  would never say goodbyeIf I could find the
  words I would speak themThen I wouldn't be
  tongue-tiedWhen I looked into your eyesWe would
  never say goodbye

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• If I could stop the moon ever risingDay would
  not become the nightAnd we'd never say goodbyeI
  wish that our dreams were frozenThen our hearts
  would not be brokenWhen we let each other go...
• If I could steal this moment foreverPaint a
  picture-perfect smileSo our story stayed
  aliveWe would never say goodbye

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Learning objectives

• grasp the authors purpose of writing and make
  clear the structure of the whole passage through
  an intensive reading of Text 1 Never Say Goodbye.
• comprehend the topic sentences in Text 1
  thoroughly and be able to paraphrase them.

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• get a list of new words and structures and use
  them freely in conversation and writing.
• be aware of the cross-cultural differences in the
  social behavior of Giving Gifts.

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Pre-reading question

• Have you family ever moved from one place to
  another? If you have, how did you feel when you
  were going to be away from the old house for
  good?

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• Have you ever attended a funeral of someone you
  knew very well? If you have, what were you
  thinking when you saw him for the last time?

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How do we say goodbye to a terminal patient
family?

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Text Analysis

• Part I (para1-4) The problem the author was
  confronted with.
• Part II (para5-13)Grandpa illustrates the meaning
  of never say goodbye.
• Part III (para14-20)The authors understanding of
  never say goodbye.

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Part One (Paragraphs 1-4)

• Main idea
• bringing up the problem the author was
  confronted with it is hard to overcome the
  sadness as the moment of parting drew near. So he
  turned to his grandpa for help.

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Para one

• It introduces the background and serves as the
  beginning of the story. Through this para. We get
  to know sth. about the author and his problem.
• Why was the author seized with the anguish of
  moving from his home?

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Questions for thought

• Because it was the only home that the author had
  ever known. His whole life, brief as it was, had
  been spent in that old house, gracefully touched
  with the laughter and tears of four generations.
  That was why he was feeling extremely reluctant
  and bitterly sad to move away from his old home.

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• What do you know about the authors home
  mentioned in the beginning?
• The authors home was a large old house, in which
  four generations had lived in harmony and
  experienced both happiness and sadness.

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Language points

• confront be faced with and have to deal with
• confront sb. with sb./sth.
• A soldier often has to confront danger and death.
• confront reality????
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• My house confronts his.

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be confronted with   ??

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• When confronted with the evidence of her guilt,
  she confessed.
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• The new system will be confronted with great
  difficulties at the start.  

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• He has prepared answers to the questions that he
  expects to confront during the interview.

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confront vs. face

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• confront ????????...??, ????, ?
• She confronted the vital question of being
  bankrupt. ????????????
• face ???????????, ????, Let's face the
  facts instead of evading them. ???????, ?????

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2 anguish

• mental or physical suffering caused by extreme
  pain or worry
• the anguish of not knowing what had happened to
  her
• an anguished cry for help
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• in anguish
• 1. The child was badly hurt and was in anguish
  all the evening.
• 2. Nothing can take away the anguish of losing
  a child.
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• mental anguish ????

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3 brief as it was

• brief as it was although it lasted a short time
• as although though
• P 8. Ex III
• Rewrite the following sentences
• Though he was poor,
• Although I was very tired,

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4 gracefully

• 1 moving in a smooth and attractive way, or
  having an attractive shape or form
• Her movements were graceful and elegant.
• 2 behaving in a polite and pleasant way
• Her father was a quiet man with graceful manners.
• gracefully adverb
• She rose gracefully to her feet.
• gracefulness noun uncountable

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Beauty
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• 5 Touched with the laughter and tears of four
  generations
• touched with the happiness and bitterness of four
  generations. The sentence implies that the
  house which had seen and/witnessed the joys and
  sorrows of the four generations of my family.

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• touch have an effect on ones feelings to cause
  one to feel pity, sympathy, etc.
• E.g. His sad story so touched us that we
  nearly cried.
• be touched with have a certain amount of
  quality
• E.g. Her hair is touched with gray.

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Old house
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Paragraph 2-4

• When the author was shuddering and crying on the
  final day on which he had to move from his old
  home, his grandfather came up to comfort him. Not
  to use the word goodbye to friends, for it
  implies sadness.

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Para 2-4

• Q3 Why did the author shudder and shed tears
  when the final day came?
• Q4 Why did his grandfather advise him not to use
  the word goodbye to friends?

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• Because in the eyes of his grandfather the word
  goodbye seemed too final, too cold, for friends
  to use and it implied sadness or unhappiness, and
  also because his grandfather wanted him to think
  of joyful and happy events of life instead of
  feeling sad and miserable.

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haven
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• a place where people or animals can live
  peacefully or go to in order to be safe
• The riverbanks are a haven for wildlife.
• St Ives, a haven for artists and hippies
• a haven of peace/tranquility/calm
• In the middle of the city, this garden is a haven
  of tranquility.

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porch
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shudder

• to shake for a short time because you are afraid
  or cold, or because you think something is very
  unpleasant
• I shudder with embarrassment whenever I think
  about it.
• He shuddered at the thought of the conflict ahead.

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• well ??, ??
• (of liquid) flow or start to flow
• Blood welled (out) form the cut.
• well out
• well up
• well forth
• e.g.
• She was so moved that her tears welled (up,
  forth, out) in her eyes.

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feel a hand rest on my shoulder

• feelobjectinfinitive without to
• Similar words are watch, make, Let, have, see,
  hear, notice
• feel complex object, the infinitive without to
  is adopted.
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• Rest on/upon
• 1) lean on to be supported by
• 2)(esp. of a proof, argument, etc.) be based on
  be grounded on depend on
• E.g. Your argument rests on a statement that
  cannot be proved..

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• Through ones tears
• With tears in ones eyes while shedding tears
• Through among or between the parts or members of
  
• E.g. I searched through my papers for the
  missing documents.

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• Stare
• 1) look steadily for a long time, esp. in great
  surprise or shock
• E.g. He sat staring into space, thinking
  deeply.
• 2) be very plain to see to be obvious
• E.g. The lies in the report stared out at us
  from every paragraph.
• stare off stare away to move ones eyes

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• stare at ??,??
• stare into ??
• stare sb. in the face
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• stare sb. up and down
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• stare sb. into silence
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stare
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Part Two (Paragraphs 5-13)

• By narrating his sad experience of the loss of
  his eldest son during the war, grandpa
  illustrates how one can overcome the sad feeling
  resulting from the loss of someone dear to him by
  recalling not the moment of parting but the happy
  times spent together.

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Questions for thought

• Why did the authors grandfather take him to
  see the rosebush in the front yard?
• What does the rosebush symbolize?

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• Because grandpa wanted to tell him a true story
  related to the rosebush and hoped to enable him
  to feel with his heart how beautiful those roses
  were! Also bcs grandpa wanted to reveal his
  special associations with the roses and with his
  saying goodbye to his son, as well as disclose
  the root cause of his advice not to say goodbye
  to ones relatives and friends.

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• How to appreciate the last sentence of Para 9?
• It is not only the roses that are beautiful,
  Billy. Also, it is that special feeling you
  deeply cherish that makes them beautiful.

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look into (investigate)

• 1. A committee was set up to look into the
  workers grievances.   ?????????????????
• 2. The government has set up a working party to
  look into the problem of drug abuse.  
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• 3. They stopped to look into the window.  
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• Whisper
• 1) speak or say very quietly so that only a
  person close by can hear
• E.g. She whispered a warning to me and then
  disappeared.
• 2) (of the wind, etc) make a soft sound ????
• E.g. The leaves of the trees were whispering
  in the wind.

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conspicuously k?n'spikju?sli  

• conspicuous k?nspikju?s   a. ???,?????very
  easy to notice
• 1. Lincoln is a conspicuous example of a poor boy
  who succeeded.
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• 2.A traffic sign should be conspicuous.
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• 3.If you're walking along a badly-lit road at
  night you should wear conspicuous clothes.
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• make oneself conspicuous
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• He was conspicuous for his bravery.
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It isnt . that ???? stress pattern

• It isnt just the rose that are beautiful It is
  that special place in your heart that makes them
  so.
• That special place in your heart makes them
  beautiful.
• It is that place in your heart that makes them
  beautiful.
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• Para 10-13 The telling of the story related to
  the rosebush. The message of the text is conveyed
  in Para. 13

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• Para 10 is a flashback. It tells us why the
  authors grandpa planted those roses and what the
  roses symbolized.
• Para 11, though short, depicts the old mans
  expression of sad emotion.
• Para 12 is also a flashback. It recounts the
  death of the old mans first son and his response
  to it.
• Para 13 is the most important one, for it conveys
  the message of the text.

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• Why did the grandpa plant those rose?
• He put those roses into the soil the day his
  first son was born. It was his way of saying
  thank-you to God, he felt so happy and gay on the
  day his first son was born that he wanted to
  thank God for his happy fortune by planting those
  roses.

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• What kind of advice did the authors grandfather
  offer in paragraph 13?
• Never to give in to the sadness and the
  loneliness of that word goodbye. He wanted him to
  remember instead the joy and the happiness of
  those times when he first said hello to a friend.

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hoarse

• if you are hoarse, or if your voice is hoarse,
  you speak in a low rough voice, for example
  because your throat is sore He was hoarse from
  laughing.
• hoarse voice/whisper/groan etc
• hoarsely/hoarseness

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evil

• someone who is evil deliberately does very cruel
  things to harm other people
• something that is evil is morally wrong because
  it harms people
• very unpleasant an evil smell
• We must conquer the twin evils of disease and
  poverty.
• The greed for money is the root of all the evils.

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tiny

• extremely small a tiny baby
• She always felt a tiny bit sad.
• speech/piece of writing brief, concise,
  condensed, abridged
• person not very tall, little, tiny, petite
• time/event brief, quick, momentary, fleeting,
  ephemeral, transient, passing, short-lived
• legs/fingers stumpy, stubby
• clothes skimpy

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give in to

• to finally agree to do or accept something that
  you had at first opposed, especially because
  someone has forced or persuaded you to
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• He finally gave in to his daughters repeated
  requests to further her education abroad.

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lock away/up

• fasten it firmly in your mind imprint it on your
  mind, bear it in your mind and never forget
• lock yourself away to keep yourself separate from
  other people by staying in your room, office etc
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• We locked all our valuables away before we went
  on holiday.
• to put something in a safe place and lock the
  door, lid etc
• to put someone in prison lock up
• I hope they lock him away for years.

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• in that place in your heart where there is
  always sunlight and warmth, is always filled with
  joy and happiness.
• Metaphorical, always here adjective
• Maybe this shows the old man was not
  well-educated.

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part

• To cause to separate or be no longer together
• He has parted from his wife.
• be parted (from somebody) to be prevented from
  being with someone
• They were hardly ever parted in thirty years of
  marriage.

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• Although we have parted from each other, I
  hope that we will remain good friends and that we
  will care for and help each other just as we did
  in the past.

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Para 14-20

• These tell us about the illness of grandfather,
  about how the author bid farewell to his
  grandfather and how he responded to grandpas
  death.
• Why did grandfather want his bed to be next to
  the window?

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• Because he wanted to see his beloved rosebush
  through it and bcs the sight of the rosebush
  would remind him of the joy and happiness of his
  life he had experienced and make him feel nice
  and good and happy.
• Why was the family summoned to the old house?

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• What do you think of the parting between the
  author and his grandfather?
• It was so cheerful and pleasant as if they were
  old friends greeting each other, which showed
  that his grandfather adopted an optimistic
  attitudes towards his own death and that the
  author became so strong-willed as not to give in
  to the sadness.

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How did the author respond to his grandfather?

• He remained perfectly calm and composed instead
  of being plunged into bitter sadness. He reached
  deep within him for those special feelings that
  had made up their friendship, Suddenly and truly,
  he realized that his grandfather had meant about
  never say goodbye.

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beloved

• literary or humorous loved very much by someone
• He never recovered from the death of his beloved
  daughter.
• He's always talking about his beloved computer!
• beloved of/by
• a book beloved of children everywhere
• my/her etc beloved literary the person that
  you love most

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summon

• to order someone to come to a place
• Robert summoned the waiter for the bill.
• summon somebody to sth. /do sth.
• if something summons up a memory, thought, or
  image, it makes you remember it or think of it

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