Maximised Manhood by Dr. Edwin Louis Cole

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Maximised ManhoodbyDr. Edwin Louis Cole
Lessons 4 to 6
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Primary Syllabus
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Dr. Edwin Louis ColeBuild Men - Raise Sons
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Maximised Manhood

• Chapter Five Six
• Lesson 4

Theres a hole in the door
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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• I. Theres a Hole in the Door.
• (A) Forgiveness is always a release. (page 53)
• Write out Psalm 10312
• As far as the east is from the west, So far has
  He removed our transgressions from us
• Transgression Sin Iniquity

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• (A) Men need to learn forgiveness. Ephesians
  432
• And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted,
  __________, even as God for Christ's sake hath
  ___________ you. (KJV)

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• (A) Men need to learn forgiveness. Ephesians
  432
• And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted,
  forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's
  sake hath forgiven you. (KJV)

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• (B) Unforgiveness binds you to one who has
  wrong you.
• Unforgiveness towards an abusive parent can
  often birth the same sin as yourself. (page 54)

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• 1 Read John 2023
• Whosesoever sins ye remit, they are remitted
  unto them and whosesoever sins ye retain, they
  are retained. (KJV)

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• 2 Name people in your life whom you have NOT
  forgiven.

3 Review your list carefully. Are you in any
way reaping what they sowed?
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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• C) It is part of maximized manhood, and it is
  ____________ to give and receive forgiveness.
  (page 57).

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• C) It is part of maximized manhood, and it is
  Christlikeness to give and receive forgiveness.
  (page 57)

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• D) Circle one to complete the sentence (page
  58)
• Sins are often passed from generation to
  generation because they are
• a) inherited b) genetically-based c) not
  forgiven

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Theres a Hole in the DoorLesson 4 - Chapter 5

• (D) Circle one to complete the sentence (page
  58)
• Sins are often passed from generation to
  generation because they are
• a) inherited b) genetically-based c)
  not forgiven

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• A) Balance is the key to life, therefore men
  must learn to be both (page 61)
• _________
• and
• _________

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• A) Balance is the key to life, therefore men
  must learn to be both (page 61)
• tender
• and
• tough

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• List three ideas of how balance can be kept
  when dealing with children (page 61)
• 1. _____
• 2. _____
• 3. _____

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6
List three ideas of how balance can be kept
when dealing withchildren. (page 61) 1. Reward
punishment 2. Caress spanking 3. Commendation
correction
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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• B) Think of Bible stories you know and list a few
  examples of Jesus tenderness.
• _____

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• C) The highest good of every individual is
  to be like Jesus ..
• So Manhood and Christlikness
• are synonymous. (page 63)

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• Romans 829
• For whom he did foreknow, he also
• did predestinate to be conformed to the image of
  his Son, that he
• might be the firstborn among many brethren.
  (KJV)

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• D) John 151-2
• "I am the true vine, and my Father is the
  gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that
  bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear
  fruit he prunes so that it will be even more
  fruitful. (NIV)

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• Read Luke 136-9
• Then he told this parable "A man had a fig tree,
  planted in his vineyard, and he went to look for
  fruit on it, but did not find any. So he said to
  the man who took care of the vineyard, For three
  years now I've been coming to look for fruit on
  this fig tree and haven't found any. Cut it down!
  Why should it use up the soil?

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• "Sir,' the man replied, leave it alone for one
  more year, and I'll dig around it and fertilize
  it. If it bears fruit next year, fine! If not,
  then cut it down." (NIV)

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• The fruit God expects from our lives as men
  is
• Circle one (page 64)
• a) angelic character b) manhood c) hard
  work

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• The fruit God expects from our lives as men is
• Circle one (page 64) a) angelic
  character b) manhood c) hard work

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• Fill in the blank (page 65)
• Jesus effectively said in John 152 If it
  doesnt produce ________

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 2. Fill in the blank (page 65)
• Jesus effectively said in John 152 If it
  doesnt produce lop it off

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• E) Fill in the blank (page 66)
• The Kingdom of God is based on truth, not on
  human ________.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• E) Fill in the blank (page 66)
• The Kingdom of God is based on truth, not on
  human sentiment.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• F) Read Joshua 2415
• And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord,
  choose for yourselves this day whom you will
  serve, whether the gods which your fathers served
  that were on the other side of the River, or the
  gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell.
  But as for me and my house, we will serve the
  Lord.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• (F) Fill in the blank (page 69)
• Women desire their men to make _______.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• F) Fill in the blank (page 69)
• Women desire their men to make decisions.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• G) Fill in the blank (page 71)
• Maturity doesnt come with age, but with
  acceptance of __________.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• G) Fill in the blank (page 71)
• Maturity doesnt come with age, but with
  acceptance of responsibility.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• H) No one can be responsible for success unless
  he is willing to accept the responsibility for
  (page 71)
• a) his wife b) money c) failure

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• (H) No one can be responsible for success unless
  he is willing to accept the responsibility for
  (page 71)
• a) his wife b) money c) failure

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• I) The more Word you have in you, the more
  ________ you become. (page 73)

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• I) The more Word you have in you, the more
  Christ like you become. (page 73)

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• J) Circle all that apply (page 74)
• What challenged the prodigal was
• new clothes
• accepting responsibility for his actions
• repentance
• the fatted calf
• asking for forgiveness
• pigs

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• J) Circle all that apply (page 74)
• What challenged the prodigal was
• new clothes
• accepting responsibility for his actions
• repentance
• the fatted calf
• asking for forgiveness
• pigs

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• Practical
• 1 If we fail to act in truth because of
  sentiment, the consequences can be tragic
• Read See 1 Samuel 212-26 313-14 about Eli
  his sons

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 1 Samuel 212-26 Now the sons of Eli were
  corrupt they did not know the Lord. And the
  priests custom with the people was that when any
  man offered a sacrifice, the priests servant
  would come with a three-pronged fleshhook in his
  hand while the meat was boiling. Then he would
  thrust it into the pan, or kettle, or caldron, or
  pot and the priest would take for himself all
  that the fleshhook brought up.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• So they did in Shiloh to all the Israelites who
  came there. Also, before they burned the fat, the
  priests servant would come and say to the man
  who sacrificed, Give meat for roasting to the
  priest, for he will not take boiled meat from
  you, but raw.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 16 And if the man said to him, They should
  really burn the fat first then you may take as
  much as your heart desires, he would then answer
  him, No, but you must give it now and if not, I
  will take it by force.
• Therefore the sin of the young men was very great
  before the Lord, for men abhorred the offering of
  the Lord.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• Samuels Childhood Ministry
• 18 But Samuel ministered before the Lord, even as
  a child, wearing a linen ephod. Moreover his
  mother used to make him a little robe, and bring
  it to him year by year when she came up with her
  husband to offer the yearly sacrifice. And Eli
  would bless Elkanah and his wife, and say,

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• The Lord give you descendants from this woman
  for the loan that was given to the Lord. Then
  they would go to their own home. And the Lord
  visited Hannah, so that she conceived and bore
  three sons and two daughters. Meanwhile the child
  Samuel grew before the Lord.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 22 Now Eli was very old and he heard everything
  his sons did to all Israel, and how they lay with
  the women who assembled at the door of the
  tabernacle of meeting. So he said to them, Why
  do you do such things? For I hear of your evil
  dealings from all the people. No, my sons!

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• For it is not a good report that I hear. You make
  the Lords people transgress. If one man sins
  against another, God will judge him. But if a man
  sins against the Lord, who will intercede for
  him? Nevertheless they did not heed the voice of
  their father, because the Lord desired to kill
  them.
• And the child Samuel grew in stature, and sin
  favour both with the Lord and men.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 2 Samuel 313-14
• For I have told him that I will judge his house
  forever for the iniquity which he knows, because
  his sons made themselves vile, and he did not
  restrain them. And therefore I have sworn to the
  house of Eli that the iniquity of Elis house
  shall not be atoned for by sacrifice or offering
  forever.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• List times when youve been guilty of acting on
  sentiment rather than truth.
• 1. _____
• 2. _____
• 3. _____
• 4. _____
• 5. _____

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 2 Consider the types of wrong decisions
  mentioned on page 69
• (a) Decisions based on personal preferences
  or selfish gratification rather than what is
  best to the followers.
• (b) No decision (a decision by default).
• (c) Indecisiveness (which creates instability).

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• 2 Reflect back, and name times when you were
  guilty of each.
• Write on these three most affects you (not
  necessary to write down).
• What can you do about it?
• What will you do about it this week?

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Chapter 6

• Prayer
• Father, You know my heart and You see what I am
  writing on these pages. I ask you to help me
  accept responsibility and become truly mature in
  ever area of my manhood. I submit to You my
  errors of the past, thank You for Your
  forgiveness, and ask You to help me go forward
  with good balance, good decisions, and a better
  relationship with You and all those around me.
  Amen

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 1. Leadership in the home requires both _____
  and _____.
• 2. Unforgiveness _____ you to the sin of the one
  who has wronged you.
• 3. Sins are inherited.
• ___ True ____ False

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 1. Leadership in the home requires both toughness
  and tenderness.
• 2. Unforgiveness binds you to the sin of the one
  who has wronged you.
• 3. Sins are inherited.
• ___ True __?_ False

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 4. There are times when God requires you to be
  rough in your leadership at home.
• ___ True ___ False
• 5. Our God looks for fruitfulness in our lives.
  The fruit He expects from us is manhood.
• One of the principles of the kingdom is, if it
  isnt producing, _____.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 4. There are times when God requires you to be
  rough in your leadership at home.
• ___ True __?_ False
• 5. Our God looks for fruitfulness in our lives.
  The fruit He expects from us is manhood.
• One of the principles of the kingdom is, if it
  isnt producing, purge it or lop it off.

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 6. The major issue in becoming "mature" in our
  manhood is learning to _____ for our decisions.
• 7. What are some areas in which I need to be
  tougher on myself?
• _____
• _____

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 6. The major issue in becoming "mature" in our
  manhood is learning to accept responsibility for
  our decisions.
• 7. What are some areas in which I need to be
  tougher on myself?
• _____
• _____

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Tender and ToughLesson 4 - Self Test

• 8. What are some areas in which I need to be more
  tender with those I lead?
• _____
• 9. What are some areas in which I need to be more
  decisive?
• _____

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Maximised Manhood

• Chapter Seven
• Lesson 5
• Is there a Priest in the House

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• I) Is there a Priest in the Home
• A) The priest not only ministers to the Lord,
  but to the ones entrusted to his care. (page
  75-76)
• In your own words, what are major areas of your
  life that you are responsible for as a minister?
• ___________________________

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7
A) The priest not only ministers to the Lord,
but to the ones entrusted to his care. (page
75-76) In your own words, what are major
areas of your life that you are responsible for
as a minister? Family, work, sport, church
everywhere
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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• B) As a priest of the home, you must pray with
  and for your wife (page 77)
• 1. You become ______ with the one to whom you
  pray, the one for whom you pray, and the one
  with you pray.
• 2. Prayer produces _________

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• (B) As a priest of the home, you must pray with
  and for your wife (page 77)
• 1 You become intimate with the one to whom you
  pray, the one for whom you pray, and the one with
  you pray.
• 2 Prayer produces
• intimacy.

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7
C) Fill in the blanks 1 Sexual relations are one
thing ___________ is another. If you really
want to be one with your wife, then pray for
her and with her. (page 78). 2 Read Amos 33
Can two walk together, except they ______? (KJV)
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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7
C) Fill in the blanks 1. Sexual relations are
one thing spiritual union is another. If you
really want to be one with your wife, then pray
for her and with her.(page 78) . 2. Read Amos 33
Can two walk together, except they agree to?
(KJV)
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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• D) Some women try to play God.
• Read 2 Samuel 620-23 - David Michal.
• Then David returned to bless his household. And
  Michal the daughter of Saul came out to meet
  David, and said, How glorious was the king of
  Israel today, uncovering himself today in the
  eyes of the maids of his servants, as one of the
  abase fellows shamelessly uncovers himself!

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• So David said to Michal, It was before the Lord,
  who chose me instead of your father and all his
  house, to appoint me ruler over the people of the
  Lord, over Israel. Therefore I will play music
  before the Lord. And I will be even more
  undignified than this, and will be humble in my
  own sight. But as for the maidservants of whom
  you have spoken, by them I will be held in
  honor. Therefore Michal the daughter of Saul
  had no children to the day of her death.

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• Look up John 644 and write it out
• No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent
  Me draws him and I will raise him up at the last
  day.

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• Who draws a man to God?
• (page 80)
• _______________

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• Who draws a man to God? (page 80) The Holy
  Spirit

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• 3. Women need to ______ their husbands for his
  sin and love ___
• (page 81).

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• 3. Women need to forgive their husbands for
  his sin and love him. (page 81).

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• E) Men can change ____. Only God can change a
  _____. (page 81).

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• E) Men can change habit. Only God can change a
  nature. (page 81).

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• Read 2 Corinthians 517 and fill in the blanks
• Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a _____
  _____ old things are passed away behold, all
  things are become new. (KJV)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• Read 2 Corinthians 517 and fill in the blanks
• Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new
  creation old things are passed away behold, all
  things are become new. (KJV)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• F) A man ministers to his wife by giving her
  assurance.
• 1. Every woman needs to know she is _____ to
  her man. (page 82)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• F) A man ministers to his wife by giving her
  assurance.
• 1. Every woman needs to know she is unique to
  her man. (page 82)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• 2. Read Proverbs 3128
• Her children rise up and call her blessed Her
  husband also, and he praises her
• In your own words describe how you can minister
  to a wifes uniqueness.
• _____

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• 3. You are ________ to what you confess.
  (page 82)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• 3. You are committed to what you confess. (page
  82)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• G) Everything in life is ______.
• (page 84)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• G) Everything in life is ministry.
• (page 84)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• H) You are only a ______ of your wifes love,
  not a possessor of it.
• (page 85)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• H) You are only a steward of your wifes love,
  not a possessor of it. (page 85)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• I) Look up 1 Timothy 35
• for if a man does not know how to rule his own
  house, how will he take care of the church of
  God?
• What is a mans priority (circle one)?
• 1) church2) earning a living3) ministering
  to his family

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• What is a mans priority (circle one)?
• 1) church 2) earning a living 3)
  ministering to his family

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• J) Read 1 Corinthians 42 and fill in the blank
• Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man
  be found _________. (KJV)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• J) Read 1 Corinthians 42 and fill in the blank
• Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man
  be found faithful. (KJV)

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• Practical
• 1 What are some specific areas where you can
  strengthen your position as the priest of your
  home?
• _____
• _____
• _____

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• 2. Think about your family life, and write some
  thoughts down on paper. THEN go to your wife and
  ask her to join you in prayer for those matters.
  Dont promise to do it regularly. Just DO IT
  regularly.
• (Sometimes she cant hear your words because
  your actions are too loud).

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Chapter 7

• 3. Look your wife in the eyes TODAY, and tell her
  how special she is to you.
• 4) Plan your next honeymoon now, spending at
  lest one night away from home.

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 -
Chapter 7

• PRAYER Father, in Jesus Name, forgive me for
  not being a priest in my home. Help me be
  faithful to come to You, and then to my wife.
• Forgive me for prayerlessness in my home. I make
  the decision today, to be a man of prayer, and a
  tender but firm priest in my home.
• Open my eyes to ways I can minister to my wife
  and help me be faithful to minister to her daily.
  Help me remember this lesson, and make new habits
  in my marriage and home. Thank You Father for
  hearing me. Amen

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 - Self
Test

• 1. As the priest of the home, I minister not only
  to the Lord, but also to
• _____
• 2. Prayer produces _____.

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 - Self
Test

• 1. As the priest of the home, I minister not only
  to the Lord, but also to the ones entrusted to
  his care.
• 2. Prayer produces intimacy.

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 - Self
Test

• 3. Every woman needs to know she is _____.
• 4. Ministry is defined as preaching.
• ___ True ____ False

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 - Self
Test

• 3. Every woman needs to know she is unique.
• 4. Ministry is defined as preaching.
• ___ True __?_ False

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 - Self
Test

• 5. In your own words, in what areas of life is a
  man responsible to minister?
• Pray for her
• _____
• 6. A man never stops ministering.
• ____ True ___ False

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Is There a Priest in the House?Lesson 5 - Self
Test

• 5. In your own words, in what areas of life is a
  man responsible to minister?
• Pray for her
• _____
• 6. A man never stops ministering.
• __?_ True ___ False

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Maximised Manhood

• Chapter Eight
• Lesson 6
• The One Dollar Tip

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• I. The One Dollar Tip
• A) Write out 1 Peter 37
• Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with
  understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to
  the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of
  the grace of life, that your prayers may not be
  hindered.

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• 1 If you do not treat your wife right, your
  ______ will not get ready answers (page 89).

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• 1. If you do not treat your wife right, your
  prayers will not get ready answers (page 89).

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• 2 If your own words, name some effects in life
  that come from God not answering you
• _____
• _____
• _____

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8
2. If your own words, name some effects in life
that come from God not answering you Spiritual
emotional death and at the extreme physical
death
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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• B) Assumption is lifes _____ level of knowledge
  (page 91).

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• B) Assumption is lifes lowest level of
  knowledge (page 91).

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• C) Self-justification makes you right in _______
  eyes by placing _____ on someone else.
• (pages 91-92)

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• C) Self-justification makes you right in your own
  eyes by placing blame on someone else. (pages
  91-92)

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• D) When the man treats his wife like a chattel
  instead of a joint heir, the ______ observe it
  and reflect the same attitude. (page 93)

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• D) When the man treats his wife like a chattel
  instead of a joint heir, the children observe it
  and reflect the same attitude. (page 93)

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• E) When something _________, it gains in value
  (page 93).
• When something _________, it loses in value
  (page 93).

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• E) When something appreciates,it gains in value
  (page 93).
• When something depreciates, it loses in value
  (page 93).

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• F) When a woman is appreciated, she gains value
  in (circle as many as apply)
• a) your eyesb) her eyesc) her childrens
  eyes
• (page 93)

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The One Dollar TipLesson 6 - Chapter 8

• F) When a woman is appreciated, she gains value
  in (circle as many as apply)
• a) your eyes b) her eyes c) her childrens
  eyes
• (page 93)

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G) What positive attributes can you say your wife
has, even if only partially (circle as many as
apply)?

• A) good spirit
• B) hospitality
• C) steady worker
• D) devotion
• E) loyalty
• F) good mother

• G) desire for goodness
• H) humour
• H) responds to love
• J) attention to detail
• K) retains friendships
• L) future-minded

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G) How can we bring out her strengths?
1. _____2. _____3. _____ 4. _____
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G) How can we bring out her strengths? 1. Enc
ouragement, 2. Prayer, 3. Support, 4. Love,
etc
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• Practical
• 1 Have you allowed yourself to make jokes about
  your wife (not necessary to write down)?
• Are there areas of her life that you habitually
  murmur about, even though joking?

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• What can you say in place of such jokes?
• Write out appropriate phrases to say to your
  wife regularly.
• Commit them to memory commit to the Lord to
  use them.

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• 2 A one dollar tip may offend women whose
  husbands have more than a dollar to share. Others
  might not have as such as a dollar to give. What
  can you give to your wife that would be
  meaningful to her now.

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• PRAYER Father, in Jesus Name, I desire for my
  wife to be completely comfortable around me. I
  want her to know that she is safe when I am
  around, especially when were with others. Please
  forgive me for knowingly or unknowingly hurting
  my wife by my choice of words and jokes. Help me
  to listen to her and to value what she says, even
  when I dont agree. I determine right now to
  build my wife up, not only when in public, but
  also when were all alone. I ask You to help me
  achieve these goals so that our marriage brings
  glory to You. Thank You, Father. Amen

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• 1. 1 Peter 37 (KJV). Fill in the blank from
  memory.
• "Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them
  according to knowledge, giving honour unto the
  wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being
  heirs together of the grace of life _____ be not
  hindered."

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• 1. 1 Peter 37 (KJV). Fill in the blank from
  memory.
• "Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them
  according to knowledge, giving honour unto the
  wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being
  heirs together of the grace of life that your
  prayers be not hindered."

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• 2. One of the lowest levels of knowledge is
  _____.
• 3. Children will pick up from _____ their
  attitude toward their mother.

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• 2. One of the lowest levels of knowledge is
  assumption.
• 3. Children will pick up from the man their
  attitude toward their mother.

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• 4. Murmuring against your wife will keep you from
  having a maximised marriage.
• ___ True ___ False
• 5. When something "appreciates," it _____ in
  value.

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• 4. Murmuring against your wife will keep you from
  having a maximised marriage.
• __?_ True ___ False
• 5. When something "appreciates," it gains in
  value.

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End of Part Two