Title: Guidelines to Prepare for Your Mediation
 1Guidelines to Prepare for Your Mediation 
 2This is a guideline to prepare for Mediation 
Services in Los Angeles, California. While court 
hearings are public, mediation remains strictly 
confidential so it is really a benefit to 
settling your family matters in mediation. A 
mediator may charge a fee comparable to that of 
an attorney but the mediation process generally 
takes much less time than moving a case through 
standard legal channels. Doing it through the 
legal system can take months or years to resolve. 
Mediation usually achieves a resolution in a 
matter of hours and avoids the years of lawyer 
fees. The history of mediation goes back to 
Ancient Greece, where village elders used to 
mediate local disputes between villagers. Then it 
was prevalent in Roman law, which was the basis 
of civil law and eventually common law. Now 
mediation is a form of professional service and 
used in Los Angeles and California by many. It is 
also known as Alternative dispute 
resolution (ADR). This is a collective term for 
the ways that parties can settle disputes, with 
the help of a third party. However, ADR is also 
increasingly being adopted as a tool to help 
settle disputes alongside the court system itself 
or as a substitute. In Los Angeles there is an 
ADR department that works with the Police 
department and the City Attorneys Office.  
 3Preparation To prepare for Mediation Services in 
Los Angeles you should pick a mediator that has 
family law experience. Preparatory steps for 
mediation can vary according to the willingness 
of the parties to participate. In some 
court-connected mediation programs, courts 
require disputants to prepare for mediation by 
making a statement or summary of the subject of 
the dispute and then bringing the summary to the 
mediation. In other cases, determining the 
matter's hand can become part of the mediation 
itself. Hopefully the mediator can ensure that 
all participants are ready to discuss the dispute 
in a reasonably objective fashion. Then provide 
reasonable estimates of loss and/or damage, 
identify other participants and make sure no 
interpreters are needed. Make sure the venue 
fosters the discussion, addresses any special 
needs, protects privacy and allows ample 
discussion time, you dont want to run out of 
time. Ensure you have supporting information such 
as pictures, documents, corporate records, 
pay-stubs, rent-rolls, receipts, medical reports, 
bank-statements, etc, available. 
 4 Make sure that both of the parties sign a 
contract that addresses procedural decisions, 
including confidentiality, mediator payment, 
communication technique, before the mediation. 
Keep an open mind and keep calm. If you are 
unsure and feel uneasy about an issue, take a 
note and come back to it, dont cave into 
pressure. Have an idea of what you can live 
without and what you cannot. Maybe only certain 
issues can be addressed and prepare yourself that 
you might have to use the court for a select few 
of the issues if things cannot be mediated. 
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