9 Pre-marriage Questions You Must Ask To Avoid Divorce

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1. What Are Your Expectations From Our Marriage?
When people are in love they feel that nothing
can go wrong. However, after just a few days as a
married couple, they are hit by the reality of
different expectations of the other partner.
People planning to say I do must inquire about
their expectation from the relationship. Lets
say you are planning to take a world tour to
update your travel blog. Is your partner ready to
leave her secure desk job and go around the world
with you? Similarly, are you prepared to postpone
your travel plans to accommodate her career?
These are important points which all couples must
sort out beforehand.
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2. How Do You Plan To Achieve Your Life Goals?
Every person has a vision of how he/she wants
his/her life to progress. People want to reach a
certain position in their careers, start a
family, buy a house or make some other
achievements by the time they reach a certain
age. Find out whether your vision of your life
goals are broadly in synchronization with those
of your potential spouse or not. Even if they do
not match up, both of you can discuss and chart a
middle path.
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3. How Will We Manage Our Finances?
Ask any top divorce attorneys in Florida or any
other state and they will tell you that financial
issues are one of the biggest causes of
separation. When both partners are earning, then
it makes sense to ask each other how they will
manage their finances after the wedding. Couples
must make a plan to settle monthly bills, plan
investments, and save money for their retirement.
Having a conversation about finances will let you
know how your loved one views and manages money.
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4. Will You Be Open To Sharing All Your Problems
With Me?
This is a crucial question that all couples must
ask each other. Not all people are vocal about
their feelings which can make their spouses think
that they are not sharing their problems with
them. Talk to your partner about how he/she will
communicate his/her problem to you. This can be a
challenging task for introverts and you need to
be caring and understanding if your dear one
falls into this category.
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5. When Do You Think We Should Have Children?
Another question which you must ask to avoid
divorce is when does your partner want to have
children. Starting a family is a momentous
decision and while some people eagerly look
forward to it, others may be intimidated by it.
Talking to your better half about this crucial
life decision will help both of you get on the
same page. It will also be pertinent to discuss
how you will handle the situation as a team if
you struggle to get pregnant.
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6. What Should Be The Privacy Limits Between Us?
It is vital to respect each others personal
space. This helps your spouse in feeling
comfortable living and sharing his/her life with
you. It will be sensible to know what are your
partners preferred privacy limits. For instance,
a person might be touch if her spouse reads her
texts with her girl pals. Try to understand each
others comfort levels and define some rules
which will help build trust among both of you.
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7. How Will We Divide Household Responsibilities?
A woman approached a divorce lawyer in Fort
Pierce simply because her husband did not take
out the trash every night. The attorney was kind
enough to call her husband and make him see how
this was a huge problem for his wife. Not
everyone is so lucky and arguments over household
responsibilities can easily snowball into
something serious. It will be sensible to divide
household chores like cleaning, doing the dishes,
mowing the lawn or walking the dog right at the
outset.
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8. Do You Have Any Health Issues Which I Must
Know?
Not confiding in your would-to-be spouse about a
medical condition can make him/her lose trust in
you. You must inform your partner about any
health issues that you are suffering from and
also ask if they have any condition you must know
about. This will also help you be prepared for
any emergency if and when it happens.
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9. How Did Your Parents Argue?
Arguments are an integral part of every married
couples life. Asking your prospective spouse
about how their parents argued will give an
insight into their reactions during one. This
will first of all help in resolving things after
a heated debate. At the same time, it will
prevent resentment from building up and letting
matters take a serious turn.
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