How To Talk To Women: How to turn “No” into a “Yes”

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How To Talk To Women How to turn No into a
Yes
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• Heres another tip to master how to talk to
  women! Now, Im dancing with this beautiful girl,
  and things start to get heated So I invite her
  to grab a bite to eat with me and she says
• I cant leave my friends
• Has something like this ever happened to you?
• What went wrong?

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• Usually, when it seems like a girl is totally
  into you, yet doesnt commit to that next step,
  its because you didnt successfully handle her
  objections. Well cover this problem today and
  youll soon discover how to talk to women when
  they usually say no.
• Because of the double standard in our society,
  most girls will say no to your advances so that
  they dont look or feel like a slut.

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• They may want to go with you but often, girls
  feel they cant make it too easy for you because
  of that double standard.
• If you think back to when you wanted to bring a
  girl home, 9 times out of 10 you heard some
  objection. I cant leave because of my friends,
  I work early, I dont want to stay out late,
  how far is your place, and the list goes on.
• The mistake most guys make is they take these
  objections at face value when in reality, thats
  when the game begins.

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• Very rarely will you get that perfect pull where
  the girl follows you straight to your place!
• Let me ask you a question. If you know that 9
  times out of 10, the girl will give you
  objections, have you prepared an answer
  beforehand?
• If no, then that might be why youre not getting
  as many phone numbers, dates and beautiful women
  in your bed as you really could.

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How To Talk To Women How to turn No into a
Yes

• The best place to start is by first
  understanding the mindset of a girl youre trying
  to pull. And by pull, I mean leading her to the
  next location. That could be a nearby coffee
  shop, bar or your place.
• Here are the typical concerns girls have when
  going somewhere new with a guy they just met

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• They dont want to travel very far
• They dont want to feel unsafe
• They dont want to feel uncomfortable
• They dont want to be in a situation where
  things are awkward 1 on 1
• They want to make sure that they are going to
  have fun
• They dont want to get stuck at your house

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• Whatever objection a girl gives you, usually the
  root lies in one of these concerns.
• Its like when a friend asks you to go
  somewhere, so you make up a white lie to avoid
  the awkwardness of telling the real reason you
  dont want to go.
• Rather than a girl saying, hey I just met you
  and dont feel comfortable being alone with you
  yet, shell say, oh I cant leave my friends.

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• To successfully overcome her objections, you
  have to answer her root objection, not her
  surface level objection.
• Over time, I figured out how to talk to women
  because I learned that an objection will almost
  always come. I make sure to come prepared. I
  already memorized a few answers to the most
  common complaints.
• Importantly, I also treat objections as not
  yet, opposed to a flat-out no.

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• If you didnt get a firm no, then assume she
  just means not yet. There have been plenty of
  times where a girl declines to grab a coffee, but
  knowing how to talk to her, building more comfort
  and attraction, she says yes after a couple of
  minutes.
• For example, when she says, I cant leave my
  friends, its not that she physically cant
  leave her friends. Its more likely that shes
  not quite comfortable enough to leave with YOU
  just yet.

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• So you need to know how to talk to women in a
  way that builds more comfort and/or assures them
  that youre coming right back and not one of
  those guys thats trying to steal them away the
  entire night.
• This actually happened to me not too long ago,
  where I took her objection as not yet,
  continued to build attraction and comfort and
  then when I asked 5 minutes later, she came with
  me to a quieter part of the bar for us to get to
  know each other. The funny part is, we never saw
  her friends again for the rest of the night.

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• It wasnt that she couldnt leave her friends.
  The truth is, she wasnt yet comfortable enough
  with me to leave her friends.
• Most guys eject out of the interaction over a
  not yet, type response. You may have missed out
  on so many girls because of that.
• If so, thats ok. Because all that is about to
  change.
• Because girls always feel the need to give an
  objection (even if she wants to join you), its
  your job to answer her objections.

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• Most guys eject out of the interaction over a
  not yet, type response. You may have missed out
  on so many girls because of that.
• If so, thats ok. Because all that is about to
  change.
• Because girls always feel the need to give an
  objection (even if she wants to join you), its
  your job to answer her objections.

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One technique I like to use is pre-answering
objections.

• For example, remember that list of common
  concerns above?
• What I like to do is answer those objections
  before she even has a chance to mention it.
• Lets take the, dont want to travel far and
  uncomfortable one-on-one root objections.
• When Im bringing a girl to a coffee shop, a
  place to eat, or my place, I always say something
  like, Lets go grab a coffee. I know a great
  spot a few blocks away.

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• Well grab a quick coffee, and then you can go
  back on your merry way.
• When I say, lets go grab a coffee,
  immediately shes wondering to herself, how far
  away is it and how long?
• Thats why the secret of how to talk to women in
  a way that delivers results is to answer their
  objections before they even have a chance to
  object.
• The best strategy is to answer objections
  before she has them. The next best option is to
  be prepared for common objections.

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Heres a list of common objections and how to
handle them

• Her I cant leave my friends.
• You I cant leave my friends either. A bunch of
  my friends are here, so I have to come back.
• This is good for the first half of the night
  when her concern is being gone long, not coming
  back to see her friends and being stuck 1 on 1
  with a guy she just met.

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• Her I cant leave my friends.
• You My friends are here too. We can text our
  friends my address, and they can meet us there.
• This is good for the second half of the night to
  assure her it wont be just 1 on 1.
• Her I have to be up early
• You What time do you have to be up?.Well, I
  have to be up at (1 hour earlier) so thats no
  excuse (playfully). Just come for a half hour and
  Ill kick you out (playfully)

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• Her concern here is not being up late so you
  let her know, hey Im in the same situation,
  lets just hang out for a little.
• Her What if you kidnap me (or any variation)
• You Damn! You have me all figured out already
  (playfully)
• This is a girls polite way to make sure shes
  safe and comfortable with you.

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• Her How will I get home?
• You I can either send you home in an Uber or
  you can sleep on the couch and Ill drive you
  home in the morning because Ive been drinking
• This reassures her that she will get home safely
  (in case she has to leave her ride). The couch
  part takes off the pressure of any expectations.
  The drinking part pre answers the objection of
  why you cant drive her now

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• Her But we just got here
• You We just got here too. And were mostly
  sober. Lets go drink real quick and come back
• This is for the first half of the night.
• Her I already have plans to do XYZ after
• You Drinking wine with me (or another activity)
  will be a lot more fun. Come with me instead then
  you can go do XYZ.

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• Remember one of her concerns a girl has is are
  we going to do something fun or something that
  she likes. The activity doesnt have to be
  anything fancy. I date classy girls so all of
  them like wine
• Her Any time-related objection
• You Dont worry, well only be a couple
  minutes. Or, well be quick. Or, Its just
  two minutes.
• For any time-related objection just let her know
  it wont be for long. So if its coffee, just say
  theres a cafe one minute away and well be
  quick.

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• Alright, as we discussed, objections arent bad!
  They should be expected. Ive been studying some
  Jordan Belfort recently (Wolf of Wall Street) and
  he emphasizes that a sale doesnt begin until the
  first objection. Anyone can pitch the sale. The
  skill comes in your ability to overcome a
  persons objections.
• Also, remember that objections are really smoke
  screens for their real concerns. Usually, the
  root of a girls objection will be one of the
  real concerns I listed above.

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• Next time you get an objection, try to
  understand what her real objection is and get to
  answer that. If you answer her superficial
  objection but not the real one, shell just keep
  bringing up one objection after another.

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• Your Weekend Mission (If you choose to accept)
• Beginners
• 1. Reflect on your last 3 approaches. What
  objections did you hear? Write down 2 good
  possible responses.
• 2. Do at least 5 approaches with the goal of
  getting an instant date.
• As soon as you can, write down the objection,
  what you think the root objection might be, and 2
  answers you can use next time
• Bonus if you can figure out how to include
  pre-answering her objections for next time

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• Advanced
• Reflect on your last 5 approaches. What
  objections did you hear? Write down 2 good
  possible responses.
• 2. Do at least 10 approaches with the goal of
  getting an instant date. Try to push the
  interaction as far as you can, baby-stepping her
  closer and closer to your place.
• As soon as you can, write down the objection,
  what you think the root objection might be, and 2
  answers you can use next time
• Bonus if you can figure out how to include
  pre-answering her objections for next time

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• Alright, guys, theres the tip of the week!
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