Effective Tips In Dealing With Critical People At Work

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EFFECTIVE TIPS IN DEALING WITH CRITICAL PEOPLE AT
WORK
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• No matter where people go, they will always come
  across at least one critical person in their
  lives.

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• And, whether they are right or wrong in doing so,
  these critical people will always be quick to
  point out perceived flaws and shortcomings in
  others.

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• There will be people who criticize your
  relationships and people who criticize your
  school endeavors.

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• Workplace critics are some of the most
  challenging to deal with because the worker is
  forced to find solutions.

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• The following are some effective ways that a
  person can deal with critical people at work

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EXTRACT THE POSITIVE ELEMENTS FROM THE CRITICISM
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Cutting down other people gives the critical
person feelings of superiority in the situation.
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Oftentimes, they are quick to criticize others
because of their own inner issues.
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Still, a criticism may have something golden in
it if you hear it the right way.
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A criticism may be able to tell you something
about your work strategy or your work tactics
that you werent aware of previously.
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Choosing to take criticism as a heads up to some
areas of improvement that you need to consider is
a sound choice.
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SEPARATE OR DISENGAGE FROM THE CRITICISM
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Another way you can deal with criticism from
another person is by disengaging.
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Disengaging from repetitive criticism is refusing
to let such criticism get into your head.
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You can simply tell yourself that you will not
allow anyone elses negativity to touch you.
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Learning to disengage from criticism may take a
while, but you will feel wonderful once you
master the process.
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KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS
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Kill them with kindness is a very old but still
relevant and often used saying.
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The statement, of course, does not mean that your
kindness will kill them in a literal sense
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but it does mean that your kindness will kill
any destructive motives that they may have.
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A person will have a difficult time continually
tearing you down if you continually respond with
kindness.
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The browbeater personality usually grows tired
and moves on to an easier target.
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Eventually, the perfectionist will start looking
at himself or herself for faults and will,
hopefully, begin to work on themselves.
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BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF
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Finally, feeling confident about yourself and
your abilities is very important.
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One reason criticism may hurt you and cause you
to feel a sense of inadequacy or unimportance is
because of past experiences that insist on living
inside your head.
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You may feel that your work just isnt good
enough for your employer.
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Some of the same reasons that may be behind the
critical persons attacks.
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The best way to handle it is to keep in mind that
you are qualified to do the job that you have
been hired to do.
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You are as good as anyone else on the job and you
should never feel bad because someone tells you
that you need to improve on something.
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Recognize that it is an opportunity for growth
which is important in all aspects of life.
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Positive self-talk is one of the best ways to
combat criticism besides turning it around and
into something positive.
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