It Takes Two To Fight And Two To Make Up

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It Takes Two To Fight And Two To Make It Work
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None of us ever think in the beginning of a
relationship that it will end.
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Its just the opposite. You are certain the love
will last a lifetime.
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Sometimes relationships end because we forget
that
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it takes two to fight and two to make it work.
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What you need to keep in mind is that just
because
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you have disagreements it doesnt mean you dont
love each other.
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Things might be different, but it doesnt mean
that the love is gone.
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In my opinion, fighting can be about many
different things.
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There could be underlying insecurities coming to
the surface,
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or maybe the two of you just dont agree on what
a relationship is supposed to be like.
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You dont have to be velcrod to your partner
24/7 to show that you are a couple.
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Some people seem to think that you should do
everything together.
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Oh, lordy, that would drive me insane!
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If the two of you are together all the time, it
wont take long
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before you have nothing to talk about.
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Wow, thats some kind of a stale and boring
relationship!
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You might find yourselves fighting more just to
have something to do!
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Each of you should have hobbies or interests that
you pursue separately.
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You will feel more fulfilled as a person
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and you will have some new experiences to share
with your partner.
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The flip side of the coin is where one partner is
constantly gone.
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Whether they are working or just hanging out with
friends doesnt really matter,
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the partner left behind feels neglected and
unloved.
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Neglecting your partner is a good way to cause a
breakup.
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Another sore spot in relationships is money.
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Fights often start over how the money is saved or
spent.
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These issues can take a while to resolve,
especially so
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if one of you is a saver and the other a spender.
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This is where a compromise is going to have to be
reached.
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If you are pooling your money, you will have to
make some decisions and stick to them.
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There needs to be some money allocated for
savings and some for spending.
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This way each of you is comfortable.
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Relationships that last over the long haul are
the ones
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where the partners have learned the art of
compromise.
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Compromise isnt about winning or losing,
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its about being mature enough to make things
work for both of you.
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Being in love and learning to live in harmony
with one another is a wonderful thing.
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If it werent, you wouldnt see couples that are
married for 40 years or more.
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Making a relationship work starts with sitting
down
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and discussing things that could cause fights
before it becomes an issue.
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You need to work things out before they become
problems,
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agree on how to handle the situation
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then you wont need to worry too much about
fighting.
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