Title: Developing Advocacy Tools: Survivors of Intimate Partner Sexual Violence
1Developing Advocacy Tools Survivors of
Intimate Partner Sexual Violence
Kathleen Arledge, MSW
2If you cant rape your wife, who can you rape?
- California State Senator Bob Wilson,
- addressing a group of women lobbyists
3Objectives
- Brief Definition of IPSV
- WA State Sexual Assault Laws and IPSV
- How is the Survivor talking (or not talking)
about IPSV? - How is the Advocate talking about IPSV?
- So she/he has disclosed - now what?
4Intimate Partner Sexual Violence is
Definitions
- Any sexual contact or activity with your intimate
partner that makes you feel uncomfortable, with
the purpose of controlling you through fear,
threats, coercion, manipulation or violence. - With or without the presence of physical violence
at the time of the act or within the relationship.
Sexual IPSV Domestic
Violence Violence
5Intimate Partners are
Definitions
- Current or Former
- spouses (legal or common law)
- non-marital partners
- Boyfriends or girlfriends
- Same-sex partners
- Divorced, former, or separated spouses (legal or
common law)
6Type and frequency of IPSVData taken from a
random sample of 2,000 women in California
Definitions
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Frequency of Rape
Types of Rape
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(1) Russel, D. (1990) Rape in Marriage. Page 110.
7Sexual Assault in the Context of Domestic
Violence
Definitions
- At least 60 of battered women are raped at least
once by their batterers. - Co-occurrence is correlated to higher rates of
severe injury and fatality. - Estimated that 25 to 30 of all rapes are
committed by husbands or intimate partners.
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(1 2) Howard, A, et al. Counseling Services for
Battered Women A comparison of outcomes for
physical and sexual assault survivors (2)
Browne, A (1987). When battered women kill.
MacMillan Free Press
8Rape Laws
WA State Law
- Origins of the word rape are found in ancient
Latin - Rapere to steal, seize, or abduct
- 8th Century laws decreed that husbands could
legally rape their wives. - US Courts and sexual entitlement in the 1970s
- Impact of the womens anti-rape movement
9WA State Rape Laws
WA State Law
- RAPE 1
- Forcible Compulsion
- RAPE 2
- Aggressive force, coercion and pressure
- Status of perpetrator / victim relationship
10RCW 9A.44.060Rape in the third degree
WA State Law
- (1) A person is guilty of rape in the third
degree when, under circumstances not
constituting rape in the first or second degrees,
such person engages in sexual intercourse with
another person, not married to the perpetrator - (a) Where the victim did not consent as
defined in RCW 9A.44.010(7), to sexual
intercourse with the perpetrator and such lack
of consent was clearly expressed by the victim's
words or conduct, or - (b) Where there is threat of substantial
unlawful harm to property rights of the victim. - (2) Rape in the third degree is a class C
felony. - 1999 c 143 34 1979 ex.s. c 244 3 1975 1st
ex.s. c 14 6. Formerly RCW 9.79.190.
11Behavior of abused women while being sexually
attacked by the batterer
WA State Law
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- Remain immobile 58.3
- Defend herself 33.3
- Try to escape 25
- Try to reason with him 25
- Counterattack 8.3
- Garcia Linares, et al. Assessing physical,
sexual, and psychological violence perpetrated by
intimate male partners toward women - A Spanish cross-sectional study.
12Rape Shield RCW 9A.4.020
WA State Law
- The survivors past sexual behavior is
inadmissible in regards to credibility and
consent - Unless the defendant and victim has a past sexual
relationship and that relationship is essential
to proving the issue of consent.
13How is the survivor talking (or not talking)
about IPSV?
- Why are they uncomfortable identifying and
talking about the abuse? - Reported forms of IPSV
- What are the immediate and long term effects?
14Experience of the Survivor
- Its not easy to admit that the man you once
loved and trusted could do that to you. Its the
worst sort of violence but the bruises dont
show. - Mrs. Christi, survivor of IPSV
- Quoted from Rape in Marriage, by Diane E.H.
Russell
15How are survivors talking (or not talking) about
IPSV?
Experience of the Survivor
- It cant really be wrong its not rape
- Is it safe to get help?
- Should I go to a rape crisis center or a domestic
violence shelter? - How can I tell someone that Ive been living like
this for the past 10 years? - I dont know how many times Ive been rapedIts
been too many - This is just a part of being married.
- I need to try harder to please him its my
fault Im not in the mood. - But sometimes I enjoy our sexual relationship.
- He didnt really force me
- Will anyone believe me?
16Some forms of IPSV reported by survivors
Experience of the Survivor
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- Rape vaginal, anal, oral
- Sex after giving birth, surgery, illness
- Sex with objects
- Sex in front of other people / in front of
children - Forced prostitution
- Physical abuse during sex
- Sex acts that have been refused in the past
- Sexual threats
- Name calling of a sexual nature
- Constant pressure
(1) Jane Doe Inc. Private Nightmares, Public
Secrets IPSV Training Module
17Experience of the Survivor
Immediate effects
- Sense of betrayal, confusion, self-blame, shame,
embarrassment - Less likely to report
- Physical and gynecological complications
- Likely to have problems talking about the abuse
18Long term effects(when compared to women who
have experienced only 1 form of violence)
Experience of the Survivor
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- Suicidal ideation
- Depression
- Sexual dysfunction
- Phobias
- Altered body image
- Aversion to intimacy
- Withdrawal
- Anxiety
Higher rates of
(1) Howard, A, et al. Counseling Services for
Battered Women A comparison of outcomes for
physical and sexual assault survivors
19How is the Advocate talking about IPSV?
1. Check in with yourself! 2. How do we ask the
question?
20How is the advocate talking about IPSV?
Advocacy
- What if I trigger the survivor?
- There are no resources to refer them to in my
community. - Am I trained to handle what I may hear?
- What if there is a cultural barrier?
- What if they are not yet ready to disclose?
21Asking the questions
Advocacy
- Check in with yourself are you prepared for the
answer? - Your demeanor sets the tone
- Take your cues from the victim
- Be strategic about the questions you ask! Start
with general easy questions before you tackle the
emotionally charged questions
Fribley, C. Trujillo, O. Sexual Violence Within
the Context of DV. Praxis International Audio
Conference Call, September 2006.
22Asking the questions
Advocacy
- Prepare the victim for the questions you are
about to ask - Acknowledge that it is difficult to talk about it
- Explain why you are asking the question
- Let the victim know that they are not alone!
Fribley, C. Trujillo, O. Sexual Violence Within
the Context of DV. Praxis International Audio
Conference Call, September 2006.
23Screening / Assessment questions
Advocacy
24She/he has disclosed So now what?
- What services actually work?
- Goals of Advocacy
- Assessment and treatment
- Other Social systems
25What services work?
Advocacy
- May require more counseling sessions.
- Advocacy and counseling must provide a safe and
supportive environment - Must contend with the impact of multiple traumas
and psychological distress - Benefit from psycho-educational support group
counseling with other survivors of IPSV that
focuses on the intersection of SA and DV - Supportive services must extend to other systems
26Formulate an action Plan!
Advocacy
- Create an advocacy action plan for survivors that
provides parameters around - Advocacy
- Working with other systems
- Utilizing and assessing community resources
27Action Advocacy
Advocacy
- The goal of advocate is to help the survivor
- Decrease self-blame
- Increase ability to talk about the abuse
- Increase ability to build and access social
support systems - Increase sense of control and enhance
problem-solving skills, self-esteem, and
self-efficacy - Identify coping skills and increase use of
healthy coping mechanisms
28Action Working with other systems
Advocacy
- The goal of the advocate is to work with other
systems to encourage arrest of perpetrators and
promote services and treatment for survivors. - Law enforcement
- Mental health practitioners
- Nurses and Doctors
- Religious leaders
- Educate systems about IPSV
- Teach systems how to sensitively ask the survivor
about the SA. - Systems should utilize resource and referral
lists - Hold systems accountable for non-responsiveness
- Develop policies for response to survivors of
IPSV
29Action Community Resources
Advocacy
- The Goal of the Advocate is to connect the
survivor with community resources - Assess current resources available
- Assess resources needed
30Resources
- Browne, A (1987). When battered women kill.
MacMillan Free Press - Fribley, C. Trujillo, O. Sexual Violence Within
the Context of DV. Praxis International Audio
Conference Call, September 2006. - Garcia Linares, et al. Assessing physical,
sexual, and psychological violence perpetrated by
intimate male partners toward women A Spanish
cross-sectional study. - Howard, A, et al. Counseling Services for
Battered Women A comparison of outcomes for
physical and sexual assault survivors - Jane Doe Inc. Private Nightmares, Public Secrets
IPSV Training Module - Russel, D. (1990) Rape in Marriage. Page 110
For additional information on IPSV, contact
Kathleen Arledge, kathleen_at_wcsap.org