Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• I will try to walk a blameless path, but how I
  need your help, especially in my own home, where
  I long to act as I should. Psalm 1012 TLB

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• Cool Scale - Need Acceptance
• Compliment Starved - Need Affirmation
• Confirmation Seeking - Need Approval
• Constant Strokes - Need Affection
• Consistent Safeguard - Need Authority
• Common Schedule - Need Access

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• Three Principles Behind the Twelve Cries and
  Needs
• 1. They will aggressively seek to meet these
  needs.
• 2. If they dont get their needs met at home
  they will seek someone else to meet them.
• 3. They will tend to embrace the values of those
  who meet their needs.

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• 7. Craving Significance Action
• If a man is lazy , the rafters sag if his hands
  are idle, the house leaks.
• Ecclesiastes. 1018 NIV
• Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord
  enthusiastically. Romans 1211 NLT

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• 8. Character Struggle Attitude
• For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he
  Proverbs 237 KJV

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• What affects this character struggle?
• Your associates.
• Dont befriend angry people or associate with
  hot-tempered people, or you will learn to be like
  them and endanger your soul. Proverbs 2224-25
  NLT

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• 9. Continual Support Accountability
• For I told him that I would judge his family
  forever because of the sin he knew about his
  sons made themselves contemptible, and he failed
  to restrain them. 1 Samuel 313 NIV

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• 10. Childish System Adulthood
• When I was a child, I spoke and thought and
  reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put
  away childish things. 1 Corinthians 1311 NLT

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• 11. Culturally Seduced Arsenal
• Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are the
  sons born in ones youth, blessed is the man
  whose quiver is full of them. They will not be
  put to shame when they contend with their enemies
  in the gate. Psalm 1274-5 NIV

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Twelve Cries Parents Need to Hear

• 12. Counseled Structure Advice
• A pupil is not above his teacher but everyone,
  after he has been fully trained, will be like his
  teacher.
• Luke 640 NASB

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