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Negotiation
  • Navigating the Negotiating Highway
  • By Doris Barnett

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Negotiation
  • Why should you study negotiation?
  • A good marketing plan without sales and profits
    is a guaranteed failure.
  • Dont get the cart in front of the horse

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List 5 Areas That You Negotiate?
  • My commission with my broker
  • My commission with my clients
  • Offers to sellers
  • Offers from buyers
  • ????? your area here

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236 Habits of Effective Salespeople
  • If you consistently have to be the cheapest to
    get the order, you are not a professional
    salesperson
  • Under promise and over perform

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Principled Negotiation Are You a Motivated
Negotiator?
  • Can you separate people from negotiation? Y/n
  • Do you clearly understand your motivation? Y/n
  • What is your attitude towards negotiation process
  • Are you comfortable? Y/n
  • Are you skilled? Y/n
  • Are you frightened? Y/n
  • Do you need to work on it? Y/n
  • Can you create the conditions that will influence
    the negotiation favorably? Y/N

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Principled Negotiation Are You a Motivated
Negotiator?
  • Can you list 5 ingredients commonly found in a
    successful negotiation by the Japanese
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  • 3
  • 4
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  • Do you practice negotiation skills at every
    opportunity? Y/n

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Principled Negotiation Are You a Motivated
Negotiator?
  • Do you keep up to date with current
    thinking/writing on negotiation skills?Y/n
  • Do you invest a lot of time in preparation?
    Y/n
  • Count the number of answers Yes? No?

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Negotiation Research results
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Rate your answersCount the number of yes answers
and see below
  • 12 yes world class negotiator!
  • 10-11 highly skilled
  • 8-9 Hmmmm keep reading and
  • Think about taking the class
  • 6-7 need lots of practice
  • 6 or less are you certain that you want to be a
    negotiator?

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Principled NegotiationA Japanese Model5 steps
  • Co-operation
  • Organization/details
  • Excellent internal communication
  • Extensive network of contacts
  • Constant communication between business and
    government

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Principled NegotiationPhases
  • Investigative phase
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  • Presentation phase
  •  
  • Bargaining phase
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  • Agreement phase

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Phase One-investigative
  • Keep it super simple
  • Collect all relevant information
  • Preparation compensates for a lack of talent
  • Fly by the seat of your pants
    (FBTSOYP)
  • What does the other side need?
  • What can they afford?
  • Preparation makes bargaining easy
  • Prepare as you go and prepare to lose
  • The negotiation is 99 in the bag for the other
    side!

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Phase Two-presentation
Tools Maintain a confident positive manner Keep
eye contact No Jerky gestures No Stuttering No
Whispers
  • Presentation
  • Its creative so its fun
  • If you can be innovative
  • Preparation persuasion
  • You create an environment where the other side
    wants to do business

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Phase Three- Bargaining Phase
  • Bargaining phase
  • Fear
  • Stomach in knots? Want to run?
  • Knuckles white? Want to yell scream?
  • Hard to breathe?
  • Tools
  • Discipline and control leave the ego at
    home
  • Concentrate on creativity to seek agreement
  • Expect best options to be negotiated at the end

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Phase Four- Agreement Phase
Tools keep your guard up
  • Agreement phase
  • Final details
  • Its not over yet
  • Both sides need to FEEL
  • That all points are recorded correctly
  • All points are agreed upon within the context of
    the negotiation
  • If above is true, the biggest decision is where
    the agreement will take place

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The Power of Language
  • Words can have positive or negative impact
  • Zig Zigler suggests record your sales
    presentation
  • Play it back
  • Hear the positive and negative patterns
  • Note what you personally use
  • In the secrets of closing the sale,
  • Zigler shares 24 words that sell from Thom
    Norman, sales trainer extraordinaire. Yale
    university adds 5 more. He also shares 24 words
    that Unsell

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Selling Words
Yale Universitys 5 extra words in RED
  • Understand
  • Proven
  • Health
  • Easy
  • Guarantee
  • Money
  • Safety
  • Save
  • New
  • Love
  • Discovery
  • Right
  • Results
  • Truth
  • Comfort
  • Proud
  • Profit
  • Deserve
  • Happy
  • Trust
  • Value
  • Fun
  • Vital
  • You
  • Security
  • Advantage
  • Positive
  • Benefits

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UN Selling Words
  • Buy
  • Death
  • Bad
  • Sell
  • Sold
  • Price
  • Decision
  • Hard
  • Difficult
  • Obligation
  • Liable
  • Fail
  • Liability
  • Failure
  • Deal
  • Cost
  • Pay
  • Contract
  • Sign
  • Try
  • Worry
  • Loss
  • Lose
  • Hurt


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Communication Chart
Vc Visual Constructed images Vr Visual
remembered Eyes defocused and unmoving
also indicates visual accessing Ac Auditory
constructed Ar Auditory Remembered sounds or
words sounds or words K Kinesthetic
feelings A Auditory sounds or words (also
smell and taste)
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Visual Communication Words
  • I see what you mean
  • That looks good to me
  • Picture that
  • See thru
  • Open
  • Bright
  • See Here

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Handling Objections
  • Step 6 by the way or Just one more thing
    then move to the closing stage.

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Whats Important. The Questions to Ask Yourself?
  • 1. Where are we and where do we want to go?
  • 2. How do we get there?
  • 3. Whats REALLY important here?
  • 4. How can we do a better job of finding areas
    of improvement and implementing appropriate
    change?
  • 5. Where are the major trouble points?
  • 6. Whats the underlying problem as opposed to
    the surface symptoms?

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The Questions to Ask?
  • 7. Whats the vital question? Whats the major
    concern?
  • 8. What are the central components of this
    situation?
  • 9. What hasnt been asked, whats missing, what
    is vital but, unclear so far?
  • 10. What would a trusted, wise friend ask or do?

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What If
  • I had to change this for the better?
  • Where would I start?
  • What would I look for?
  • What are the problems, obstacles, constraints and
    risks?
  • How can we remove, modify or avoid these
    constraints?

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Solving Problems
  • First identify the problem. A problem well
    defined is a problem half solved.
  • Get the facts -----straight-----.
  • Determine whats known, unknown and fuzzy? What
    do you still need to know?
  • Get to a sense of knowing where the situation
    is going.

Fuzzy Known Unknown
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Japanese Thought ProcessDevour the Details With
Formulas The Questions
  • Are they a listing agent
  • A buyers agent
  • A brand new agent
  • What success have they had
  • Are they technically savvy
  • Is their company savvy
  • How well educated are they

Search the MLS by License number, look at their
website, company website, TREC.
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Japanese Thought ProcessDevour the Details With
FormulasThe Questions
Sort by subdivision after you do an agent search
and see if they have more than one listing in any
subdivision consider length of time in the
business. Sort by SAC/BAC Do they offer bonuses?
  • Do they specialize
  • Where, how, how much
  • Do they have reputable help
  • Are they experienced
  • Do they offer fair prices
  • Are they creative
  • Win-win or I win negotiation

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Japanese Thought ProcessDevour the Details With
FormulasHow to Get the Answers
  • Listing agent or buyer agent
  • Search by agent id or name
  • Note number of listings listed? Sold?
  • Competitors price differential
  • Sales price divided by list price, sort the
    result
  • 95 or less is this an I win negotiator
  • 100 or more is this an I win negotiator
  • 96-99 win-win negotiator

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Japanese Thought ProcessDevour the Details With
Formulas
  • Check the opposing agent information
  • Do they have a website?
  • What do they brag about?
  • What about the company website and information?
  • Check the state for licensing information
  • Check state information for education
  • Do they just maintain? www.trec.state.tx.us/

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Japanese Thought ProcessDevour the Details With
Formulas
  • What is the average
  • Days on market for subdivision
  • Days on market for opposing agent
  • 45 days or less - priced right
  • 100 or more-hmmmm
  • Does agent specialize in this subdivision
  • Commission offered-Do they cut their commission
    or yours?

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Japanese Thought ProcessDevour the Details With
Formulas
  • From their listings you can learn
  • Their favorite lender
  • Types of mortgages
  • Their favorite title company
  • If they offer home warranties
  • Their favorite price range
  • Have they worked with HOAs
  • Home owners associations

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Solving Problems and Making Decisions
  • Are your assumptions true, really true
  • Try restating the problem now
  • Develop several options and alternative solutions
  • Look at the options under this microscope
  • Achievability - feasibility (likelihood of
    success)
  • Cost v. benefits - risks v. rewards
  • Pre-conditions of success - your own concerns
    and worries
  • Decide does it work or not?

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Agent Approach
  • How does this agent communicate?
  • Read the property description (remarks)
  • Highlight the adjectives
  • Read the website print the descriptive pages
  • Highlight the adjectives
  • Get a flyer from the property
  • Highlight the adjectives
  • Can you communicate in their language?

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Agent Approach
  • NLP training reveals the process and structure of
    how people communicate and how they experience
    the world.  This process and structure affects
    everything you experience and is completely
    outside the awareness of most people.  Now you
    can make it work to your full advantage by
    becoming aware of it and... By knowing how to use
    it! http//www.nlp.com/
  • Neuro linguistic programming is a recognized
    science
  • Apply the basics to your negotiating APPROACH

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Agent Approach
  • List the adjectives and sort them 3 ways
  • Visual auditory kinesthetic
  • Seeing - hearing -touching
  • Look sounds feels
  • Picture hmmm textures
  • See-soaring
    smooth
  • Delightful

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Lets Do a Little Test
  • We want to know how these people present
    themselves, so I want to ask them some questions
    and have the group decide who is
  • Visual,
  • Auditory,
  • Kinesthetic,

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Lets Test the APPROACH
  • Partner with someone you dont know
  • Ask these questions, consider their response
  • What color are your mothers eyes?
  • What color is the carpet in your car?
  • What is your favorite kind of music?
  • What does your doorbell sound like?
  • Can you create a new sound?
  • Can you hear yourself sing
  • Mary had a little lamb?

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Lets Test the APPROACH
  • How do you feel early in the morning?
  • What does cat fur feel like?
  • Feel what its like to pet a dolphin.
  • Feed a stingray?
  • What does white chocolate taste like?
  • Taste chocolate with pickles!

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Communication Chart
Vc Visual Constructed images Vr Visual
remembered (Eyes defocused and unmoving
also indicates visual accessing) Ac Auditory
constructed Ar Auditory Remembered sounds or
words sounds or words K Kinesthetic
feelings A Auditory sounds or words (also
smell and taste)
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Why This Test?
  • You may identify the best agent approach
  • By how someone writes, speaks and reacts
  • It is important to communicate in the unconscious
    comfort zone to be more successful in your
    negotiations
  • Using this information will also help your
    marketing efforts

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Dont Assume
  • What you see isnt always what you get
  • If you always test with questions
  • You will never be wrong
  • Some people are left handed
  • Some people access information
  • In reverse to most people
  • Dont assume or spell it out to get results
  • Ass u me

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Rapport
  • There are several easy ways to establish rapport
    with someone
  • The unconscious rapport with words
  • I like to call this word weaving
  • Pacing with motions or breathing lets try it
  • This is fabulous for getting children to sleep
  • Always choose the most active person to pace.
  • Use this tool when negotiations are getting out
    of hand

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Please Stand Under the Correct Word
  • Visual auditory kinesthetic

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V A K
  • Watch this Let me tell you Smell
  • see what Im MMMMM touch this
  • doing? WOW! This is plush
  • Look here- GREEEAT! Thats rich
  • Have a bite. Listen here texture
  • High 5 Clap Clap-yes!
  • High-5

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Presenting offers
  • Emphasizing talking points with Power Lifts
  • When doing a presentation where the focus is not
    on your face
  • Draw attention back to you with hand gestures on
    important points.
  • Always sit at an angle for best conversations

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The Rules of Silent Speech
  • Do it right the first time. First impressions are
    easier than fixing impressions
  • Initiate the eyebrow flash and respond unless you
    want to signal hostility
  • Break eye contact downward
  • Hold a gaze for only 3 seconds. (Unless its a
    power play)
  • Use the most appropriate smile for the situation

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The Rules of Silent Speech
  • Do not invade someone elses space
  • If you do, use it as a reward only
  • Approach men from the side to the front.
  • Approach women from the front to the side
  • Never stand when someone else is sitting
  • Dont sit in deep arm-chairs as it limits your
    posture signals
  • When sitting in chairs, follow the above rules
    although closer proximity will be allowed as the
    physical chair protects.

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The Rules of Silent Speech
  • Shaking hands use a dry hand and a moderate
    pressure
  • Hold for 6 seconds, about 6 pumps
  • To display dominance hold with the back of your
    hand up and hold with a stronger grip
  • To enhance friendship, hold moderately, longer,
    lean in, smile, keep eye contact throughout the
    process
  • To submit hold same pressure, less time, less eye
    contact, release downward
  • To convey warmth, try wearing contacts or lifting
    your glasses for a more direct eye contact

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The Rules of Silent Speech
  • To encourage co-operation, use head tilt, warm
    smile, eye contact
  • When negotiating with a group be certain to
    include all of them with eye contact

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Power Plays
  • Success is your ability to control time and space
    of other person
  • Walk tall and dont be hurried by anyone
  • Pro-longed gaze will disconcert break eye
    contact to the right or left
  • Choose your own seat and dont sit lower than
    anyone else
  • Deliberately invade someone elses space
  • The longer you compel someone to wait, the less
    their dominance appears. 10 minutes might be
    acceptable 15-20 minutes undermines status,
    theirs(its disrespectful).

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Power Plays
  • Unless there is a valid and genuine reason for a
    delay, after 15 minutes, cancel the meeting
  • READING OTHERS
  • Start with an open mind
  • Dont pay too much attention to faces, they are
    the easiest to control.
  • Watch feet and hands too
  • Watch for Buying signs see next slide
  • Liars betray with touches to ears, nose or cheeks
  • Hostility is demonstrated through aggressive
    movements of feet, hands, or mouth.

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Silent Speech test 10Neither agree or disagree
1Agree slightly 2Agree to some extent 3Agree
strongly 4 Agree very stongly
  • I make a real effort to be liked when introduced
    to somebody new
  • It makes me sad to see somebody alone at a party
  • I like talking things over with a friend
  • I get angry when I see someone being badly
    treated
  • I believe in showing my feelings openly
  • I become very involved when watching a film
  • I enjoy meeting new people

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Silent Speech Test 2 0Neither agree or disagree
1Agree slightly 2Agree to some extent
3Agree strongly 4 Agree very stongly
  • I cannot feel happy in the company of miserable
    people
  • I like making friends
  • If someone is upset I usually know right away
  • I would sooner work with others than on my own
  • The words of a love song often move me deeply
  • I would sooner go to a party than a film
  • I do not mind going on holiday alone
  • I get upset at seeing people cry
  • Lets run a total on that and see how well you
    read Silently.

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Answers to Test on Silent Speech
  • 0-25 you seem to be rather self-sufficient person
    who dislikes emotional scenes and prefers to keep
    your feelings under tight control. This will make
    it harder for you to read other peoples silent
    speech signals accurately. During encounters you
    are probably more concerned about the sort of
    impression that you are making than the effect
    another person is having on you.
  • 26-45 you are moderately high on the desire and
    ability to get along with others-and show a fair
    degree of empathy. You show little effort at
    present to exploit your skills at reading silent
    speech. You give greater attention to verbal
    messages rather than non-verbal messages.
  • 46-60 you either are or could become highly
    skilled at reading body language. You have a
    great empathy towards others, essential
    qualifications for reading this silent speech
    effectively.
  • No matter the score you have the ability to
    become proficient in understanding body language
    and non-verbal speech if you take the time and
    trouble to do so

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Reading Buying Signs
  • Look for a sudden relaxation, absence of
    agitation
  • A chin touch deserves a trial close
  • When they move-in closer CLOSE!
  • When Eye contact extends into gazes Close like
    blazes!
  • Watch for them mirroring you
  • A slight head tilt empathy

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Credits
  • The secret language of success-David Lewis
  • The Book of Excellence- Byrd Baggett
  • Transformations- Bandler/grinder
  • Getting to yes, Roger Fisher, William Ury and
    Bruce Patton
  • How to master the art of listing and selling real
    estate-Tom Hopkins
  • Secrets of closing the sale- Zig Zigler
  • The small business bible- Paul Resnik

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