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???? Can we learn to live in
peace?

• Conflict resolution

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The aims of the lesson are

1. to discuss the types of conflicts, the reasons of
   conflicts and how to solve them
2. to listen to the conversations
3. to work with the topic of the lesson
4. to mind the use of grammar rule

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Do you know these words?
Try to read and translate !

• A resolution, to quarrel,to approve of,to depend
  on, to shout at,to make a fuss, to happen, to
  make fun, to fight,to support, to put off
• Fair, to expect, to advise, responsibility,sympat
  hy, to remember, ridiculous,to observe the laws
  of co-existence
• to obey, to punish, to rely on, to argue, to
  resolve
• To share, to get on, an editor,
• to prevent, to be upset,peacefully

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What is conflict?

• Why do conflicts happen?
• ?onflicts may lead us to
• Can we prevent all conflicts?
• What kind of conflicts could be?

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What kind of conflict could it be?
BETWEEN
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Family conflicts. The reasons of family
conflicts.

• Parents/children
• - want their children to obey them,
• -shout at each other,
• -dont observe the laws of co-existence,
• -have too many responsibilities at home,
• -have nobody to talk to,
• -have nobody to rely on,
• -make fun of each other,
• -suffer unfair punishments,
• -dont approve of their childrens friends

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Five steps to solve conflicts.
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Suggest ideas for solving these conflicts.

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Fill the missing words into the mothers letter
Use (red)
words below

• 
  14 February, 2006
• Dear Editor,
• My Sons Tom, 7, and Chris, 15,
  often have fights. They don't ....... with each
  other. They often ....about things because they
  refuse to share them. For example, we have only
  one TV set, and they can never...... it. The day
  before yesterday, Tom's favourite film was on TV,
  but Chris wanted to see the World Cup. So they
  had a fight again. My husband and l had an ...
  .about this conflict. I said that Tom had the
  right to watch TV because he was younger than
  Chris. But my husband said it was not ...... .
  Which of us is right? We want our sons to be good
  friends and to ...... their conflicts peacefully.
• Sincerely,
• Ann Smith
• resolve
  fair
• get on argument share
  argue

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Conflict situations.
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Answer the questions.

• Why is mother unhappy?
• What does she have to do around the house?
• What does she want her children to do?
• Why do they think that the mother is not fair?
• Why did the mother buy a new dress?
• Does her daughter like the dress ? Why ?Why not ?
  
• What does the mother think about her clothes
• What is ridiculous in her mothers opinion?
• What did the father put off?
• Why didnt he buy a mobile phone for his son?
• What happened to the boys brother?
• What does he need to get over his illness?

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What caused the conflict in each family?

• -lack of independence
• -lack of free time
• -dependency on parents
• -unfair punishments
• -being shouted at
• -no sense of humour
• -too many responsibilities at home
• -nobody to rely on
• -nobody to talk to
• -money problems
• -no sympathy for the feelings of others
• -being made fun of

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Remember that being out of control will keep from
solving problem.Here are some advise how to cool
off.

• Count down backwards from 10.
• Close your eyes and take deep breaths.
• Think of a peaceful place or something that makes
  you happy.
• Slowly say over and over to yourself, "Take it
  easy,Dont worry
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How to learn to live
without conflicts?
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To sum up.

• To resolve a conflict, it is important to be
  calm, confident and relaxed
• The first thing to do is to talk
• Dont use the words that hurt people
• Ask for help if communication doesnt provide a
  solution
• Take things into your own hands if people dont
  support you
• All people need love and understanding

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All is well that ends well!

• My advice is
• try to avoid conflicts! Be kindhearted fair!
• Your homework 1. learn the words from the lesson
• 2. ex 91, describe
  the conflict situation
• 3. repeat grammar Reported
  Speech p.212
• Your marks. Well done!
• Thank you for the lesson!
• Good luck!!!

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