Ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. In fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems

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Love
Ever since the dawning of the history of mankind,
there have been myriads of inventions,
discoveries, and even explorations of the
mysteries of the universe. In fact, the human
beings are so intelligent that we have solved
almost all kinds of problems we have confronted
with . However, nobody has ever made out what the
word love really connotes. Love is varied and
changeable, but roughly it can be divided into
three categories family love, fraternal love and
amatory love.
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Love
Family Love Fraternal Love Amatory Love
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Family Love
Family love is what everyone longs for, but the
warmth and support from our beloved ones are what
everyone yearns for the most. Young children are
naturally attached to their parents, but when
they grow up, specially when they have made their
own friends, and got married, what they need most
is independence and freedom, and parents
sometimes might become their burden. Once there
is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to
communicate and this keeps them away from their
parents.
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However, parents always expect their children to
show their filial obedience, or at least pay them
frequent visits after they have got married. If
the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and
upset, and they'll even complain about their
children, just because they love their children
so much. As you know, your parents are becoming
older and older . So ,take advantage of the time
you get together to show your love to them.
Always remember that they are the most important
people in the world, who nobody can replace.
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Fraternal Love
We are not living in vacuum, and the society is
formed of various kinds of people. As long as we
want to live, study, or work, we have to contact,
communicate and cooperate with others. Those who
enjoy common interests, mutual understanding,
common undertakings and common benefits become
friends. Fraternal love or friendship is
wide-ranged and flexible. Friendship is formed
during the course of studying, working and
fighting.
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However, fraternal love is not stable. Being away
for too a long time, losing all common benefits,
friends will become estranged. Once their
interest has changed, they no longer understand
each other, and even this would harm friendship.
What else we need to pay attention to is that
some friends, after being away from each other
for too long a time, have lost so much of their
original characters that when meeting again, you
will feel that you are still the same as you
were, while they are no longer themselves. As the
Chinese proverb goes friendship can not last for
three years and flowers can not stay in blossom
for three months. It's not so easy to maintain
real friendship which needs mutual understanding,
tolerance and sacrifice. Any kinds of harsh
treatment will damage friendship. So, cherish
your best friends just around you .
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Amatory Love
Amatory love has been a mystery for ages . True
love is like getting an electric shock, shaking
our soul. It is a sweet dream, a kind of
intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.
True love doesn't need a long time to grow up.
Instead , love is often an wink of the eye, or a
smile that hints mutual understanding. In spite
of the great distance between them, people may
fall in love incidentally. Love has magical
power that can exploit people's potential
abilities, bring people's positive factors into
full play, and provide people with the courage to
face trials and hardships, to go through life and
death, and even to risk universal condemnation.
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At the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist
either between fraternal love and amatory love.
Some friendship may develop into amatory love.
The same is true with amatory love which may
change into family love after a long time of
mutual grinding and polishing. Love should be
selfless, and feelings should be sincere. We
shouldn't judge our feelings according to the
distance of the relationship. Everyone treasures
love and nobody can fool himself or the others
. So, if you fall in love with somebody at a
certain time, cherish her and never make her
cry, for the love in the university is the purest
,which will never have again.
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Conclusion
Make out the differences between the three loves
, and learn to love others in our daily life.
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