The Jaws of Harsh Words

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All RELATIONSHIPS are fueled by C______________.
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All RELATIONSHIPS are fueled by Communication.
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All RELATIONSHIPS are fueled by Communication.
The Problem Its not an exact science, its
more an art.
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All RELATIONSHIPS are fueled by Communication.
The Problem Its not an exact science, its
more an art.
The Expert Its Jesus.
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COMMUNICATION
Guidelines
Jesus
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
The religious system of trust in Jesus day
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
The religious system of trust in Jesus day
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
The religious system of trust in Jesus day
I swear by the earth, as Gods footstool. low
trust
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
The religious system of trust in Jesus day
I swear by the earth, as Gods footstool. low
trust
I swear by heaven, where God lives. high
trust
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
by lying
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
by lying by flattery
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
by lying by flattery by broken promises
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
by lying by flattery by broken promises by silence
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
by lying by flattery by broken promises by silence
HOW TO REBUILD TRUST
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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Must Be Building Trust!
Ways TO Erode Trust TODAY
by lying by flattery by broken promises by silence
HOW TO REBUILD TRUST
ONE WORD AT A TIME.
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Be Using My Ears !
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Be Using My Ears !
The PROBLEM AMERICANS ARENT GOOD LISTENERS.
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Be Using My Ears !
The PROBLEM AMERICANS ARENT GOOD LISTENERS.
Congress is so strange. A man gets up to speak
and says nothing. Nobody listens, and then
everybody disagrees. Will Rogers
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Be Using My Ears !
The PROBLEM AMERICANS ARENT GOOD LISTENERS.
THE SOLUTION LEARN TO LISTEN.
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Be Using My Ears !
The PROBLEM AMERICANS ARENT GOOD LISTENERS.
Listen before you answer. If you dont, you are
being stupid and insulting. Prov. 1813
THE SOLUTION LEARN TO LISTEN.
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
I Must Be Using My Ears !
The PROBLEM AMERICANS ARENT GOOD LISTENERS.
Listen before you answer. If you dont, you are
being stupid and insulting. Prov. 1813
THE SOLUTION LEARN TO LISTEN.
Keep your mouth closed and youll stay out of
trouble. Prov. 2123
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
I Must Be Using My Ears !
The PROBLEM AMERICANS ARENT GOOD LISTENERS.
Listen before you answer. If you dont, you are
being stupid and insulting. Prov. 1813
THE SOLUTION LEARN TO LISTEN.
Keep your mouth closed and youll stay out of
trouble. Prov. 2123
Dont talk so much. You keep putting your foot
in your mouth. Be sensible and turn off the
flow. Prov. 1019
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LISTEN
Look at people
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LISTEN
Look at people
invest in people
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LISTEN
Look at people
Invest in people
stop whatever else youre doing
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LISTEN
Look at people
Invest in people
Stop whatever else youre doing
think about what theyre saying
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LISTEN
Look at people
Invest in people
Stop whatever else youre doing
Think about what theyre saying
emphasize with them
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LISTEN
notice body language
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COMMUNICATION
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I Must Guard My Thoughts !
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Guard My Thoughts !
Your souls arent harmed by what you eat, but by
what you think and say. Mark 715
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
I Must Guard My Thoughts !
think
say
feel
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Guard My Thoughts !
Lasting word changes require lasting heart
changes.
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Where can I get It? from Jesus
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Anyone who belongs to Christ is a new person.
The past is forgotten, and everything is new. God
has done it all. 2 Cor.517
Where can I get It? from Jesus
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How can I get It? by asking him for it in faith
Where can I get It? from Jesus
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How can I get It? by asking him for it in faith
Where can I get It? from Jesus
How DO I KEEP IT RIGHT? by talking to Him in
(prayer)
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I pray to you, Lord! Please listen when I pray
and hurry to help meHelp me guard my words
whenever I say something. Ps. 141 1,3
How can I get It? by asking him for it in faith
Where can I get It? from Jesus
How DO I KEEP IT RIGHT? by talking to Him in
(prayer)
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How can I get It? by asking him for it in faith
Where can I get It? from Jesus
How DO I KEEP IT RIGHT? by talking to Him in
(prayer) by listening to Him (Bible study)
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The mouth of the righteous man utters wisdom,
and his tongue speaks what is just. Ps. 3730
How can I get It? by asking him for it in faith
Where can I get It? from Jesus
How DO I KEEP IT RIGHT? by talking to Him in
(prayer) by listening to Him (Bible study)
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The mouth of the righteous man utters wisdom,
and his tongue speaks what is just. Ps.
3730 The law of His God is in his heart his
feet do not slip Ps. 3731
How can I get It? by asking him for it in faith
Where can I get It? from Jesus
How DO I KEEP IT RIGHT? by talking to Him in
(prayer) by listening to Him (Bible study)
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
The tongue has the power of life and death.
Prov. 1821
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask Questions
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask Questions

• to increase understanding

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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask Questions

• to increase understanding

• to challenge people

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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
Who do you think I am Peter? Youre the
Messiah. Matt. 16 3,16
ask Questions

• to increase understanding

• to challenge people

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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask Questions use Pictures
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask Questions use Pictures be Honest
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COMMUNICATION
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.
Prov. 2426
ask Questions use Pictures be Honest
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask Questions use Pictures be Honestvia a
10(T.E.N.)K run
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask questions use pictures be honestvia a
10(T.E.N.)K run
Is it True?
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask questions use pictures be honestvia a
10(T.E.N.)K run
Is it True? Will it Edify?
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
from
I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask questions use pictures be honestvia a
10(T.E.N.)K run
Is it True? Will it Edify? Is it Necessary?
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COMMUNICATION
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Guidelines
Jesus
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I Must Choose My Words Carefully !
WHAT KIND OF WORDS?
ask questions use pictures be honestvia a
10(T.E.N.)K run
Is it True? Will it Edify? Is it Necessary? Is it
Kind?
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This week
I will seek to

• Build Trust by

• Use My Ears by

• Guard My Thoughts by

• Choose my Words by

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