Make Divorce Less Harsh On Kids. They’ll Thank You Later

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MAKE DIVORCE LESS HARSH ON KIDS. THEYLL THANK
YOU LATER
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MAKE DIVORCE LESS HARSH ON KIDS

• The first inclination during divorce is making
  life unpleasant for the spouse that made life
  difficult for you and your children. Whether that
  entails keeping children away during the divorce
  proceedings, breaking their favorite personal
  effects, or imposing lofty expectations
  impossible to fulfill.
• Divorce isnt an event we plan. Its preferred
  that such travesties are averted in our lives,
  but should tumultuous relationships finally run
  their course, divorce is imminent.

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LISTEN TO THEIR DESIRES

• Have you considered what your children may want
  in terms of parenting time, housing arrangements
  and monetary contributions? Nothing is more
  damaging to our children than denying them access
  to both parents unless doing so would detriment
  their health.
• Maybe theyd rather have weekends with dad.
  Overnights with mom, days with dad and some
  evenings with grandma. Imposing parental
  sanctions without discussing with children
  involved may seem like youre doing whats right
  in hindsight, but you couldnt be more wrong.

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DONT SHIELD THEM FROM REALITY

• Youre probably wanting to shovel the children
  off to your mothers home until the divorce blows
  over. In doing so, your belief is that your kids
  will be shielded from the emotional rollercoaster
  youre about to ride. Well, its partially
  understandable why youd make this choice, but
  its also unfair in principle.
• The less your children learn about reality, the
  harder adapting to adulthood will become. Making
  children believe that lifes a big rainbow filled
  with pretty roses and easy decisions wont help
  them when theyre faced with adversity. Tell them
  why youre using a Salt Lake City divorce
  attorney.

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REMEMBER KIDS WILL THANK YOU LATER

• How much or little you include children in
  decisions will affect how they treat you when
  theyve left home. And, of course, youll regret
  not considering their needs during your divorce.
• The best way to avoid making divorce harsher on
  children than necessary is to keep communication
  open between them, you and the other parent.
  Listen to what theyre seeing as an innocent
  bystander. And, above all else, dont verbally
  abuse their mom or dad in their presence.
• Need immediate help from an experienced Salt Lake
  City divorce attorney? Contact Emy A. Cordano, a
  woman who survived her own divorce, today.

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EMY A CORDANO, ATTORNEY AT LAW
C O N T A C T

• Need immediate help from an experienced Salt Lake
  City divorce attorney? Contact Emy A. Cordano, a
  woman who survived her own divorce, today.

https//www.cor-law.com/contact-us.html 6465 S
3000 E, Suite 103, Salt Lake City, Utah, 84121

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THANK YOU