Dealing with an Unruly Bridal Party

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Dealing with an Unruly Bridal Party
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Most weddings include drama. It isnt something a
bride plans or wants during her wedding, but it
does happen. The groom shows up late, a guest
gets wine down the front of her gown, the flowers
wilt beneath the burning sun.
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All of these issues can arise on your big way
whether you welcome them or not. Some events
happen and there isnt much you can do to stop
them. Then there are some dramatic events that
require your attention and a quick remedy to keep
from disastrous results.
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One such thing may be your bridal party. As a
bride, picking your bridal party is extremely
important. You want these girls to be with your
through thick and thin. Every now and then one of
your bridesmaids might forget her duty.
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So how do you deal with an unruly bridal party?
Do you yell and stomp your feet? Check out the
tips below for information on how to handle
bridesmaids gone bad.
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Listen to ConcernsIts true what they say. The
wedding day is all about the bride. You have
planned for months and the day is finally here.
Your groom looks amazing, your guests have all
arrived on time, and your bridal party is
perfect.
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In a dream wedding it all goes off without a
hitch. In real life things can happen. Your
bridal party might not be as perfect as you
wanted. Dont forget, your bridesmaids are also
human. They will have opinions on the choices you
make for the wedding.
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If your bridesmaids are also close friends, there
may be a lot of opinions. Instead of bulldozing
the concerns of your bridesmaids it might be
better to sit down and listen to what they have
to say. Let your bridesmaid get their concerns,
or even drama, out of the way before your big
day.
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Things should be smooth sailing from then on out.
It only takes a few minutes and can save you a
huge amount of trouble.Talk it OutGetting
stressed during the planning of your wedding is
natural.
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There are so many things to think about and check
back over that can slowly pile up if you arent
careful. With all that stress floating around it
is easy to let off some steam on people.
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Friendships can be tested during this tense time
and bickering is more than likely to occur if the
stress level gets too high to handle. If your
bridesmaids lash out and you feel the need to do
the same then it might be time for both of you to
sit down and talk out all the anger youve stored
up.
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Depending on how much you have built up, the talk
could involve a little yelling. Getting to the
root of the problem with your bridesmaid is
important to figuring out how to move forward
without any hard feelings. Never let anger ruin
your weddingor a friendship for that matter.
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Be FirmIf you arent the type of person to be
bold and tell people what you want them to do
then this tip is definitely for you. Depending on
the type of bridesmaids you have, you might have
to take on the leadership role.
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Its a role you may find uncomfortable if you
arent use to it. Being firm in what you do and
dont want in or at your wedding is important
especially if you happen to have some opinionated
bridesmaids. It might take courage but telling
your bridesmaids exactly what you want can save
you a lot of trouble.
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If a bridesmaid tries to take control of planning
or starts to boss other people around then its
time to step in and let her know what you want
and that you have it handled. Feelings can get
hurt easily so handle the tension carefully and
remember to stand up for your wedding.http//labe
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