Friendship

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Friendship

• Chapter 8

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Friendship

• Loyalty is important
• Gender differences
• men - shared interest
• women - emotional intimacy
• Those who can make friends usually have
  fulfilling marriages, get along well at work
  enjoy their children.

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Administrative Skills
Evaluating Skills
Staffing Skills
Importance
Leading Skills
Organizing Skills
Planning Skills
Good Working Relationships
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Five Steps to Friendship

• Assign top priority to relationships
• who can you call in an emergency
• can you visit someone with warning or apology
• do you have someone with whom to share fun
• will someone loan you money

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Five Steps to Friendship

• Cultivate Transparency
• become acquainted with your shadow side.Jung
• Know thyself (delphic oracle) ..and become known
• dont let it all hangout

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Five Steps to Friendship

• Dare to talk about your affection
• Learn the gesture of love
• rituals
• gift giving
• kindliness

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Five Steps to Friendship

• Create space in your relationships
• be cautious with criticism
• use the language of acceptance
• Encourage your friends to be unique
• allow for solitude
• encourage other relationships