Sexual Violations

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Sexual Violations

• Journal
• Describe a rapist. Describe a victim.
• Complete State 9 Violence Cycle. This will be
  turned in
• before we go on.

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Answer each question true or false. It is not
considered rape when a man forces a woman to have
intercourse with him if

• She has already agreed to have sex, but then
  changes her mind.
• They have dated for over a year.
• They are living together.
• They are married.
• He has spent over 100.00 on her.
• She is drunk or stoned.
• She has let him go so far that he cannot stop.
• She lets him fondle her.
• They have had intercourse on other occasions.

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Continued

• She is dressed like a slut.
• She has been putting the moves on him.
• She invited him into her apartment.
• She has seduced him.
• He knows other guys that she has had intercourse
  with before.
• She has a reputation of being loose.
• She is out by herself late at night.
• She agrees to go to his home knowing that they
  will be all alone.
• He really loves her.

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Each question is FALSE!
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Profile of Rapist

• Most often sex offenders are in their late teens
  through their thirties.
• Most sex offenders have been beaten or sexually
  abused.
• Rapists usually do not desire sex but rather
  power and dominance over others.
• 39 of all rapist had been drinking before the
  rape.

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Types of Rape

• Stranger Rape
• 30 of all rapes in US.
• Acquaintance Rape
• Not all of these are reported.
• Marital Rape
• Very few of these are reported.
• Gang Rape
• It involves oral sex, rape with foreign object,
  oral intercourse or more than one assaulter.

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Profile of Victim

• Victims can be any race or age, male or female.
• 93 of the victims are the same race as the
  rapists.
• 2/3 of all victims are under 25.
• 80 of teenage victims know their attacker.

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Risk ReductionPrecautions in your home

• Have a door viewer and deadbolt locks.
• Keep doors and windows locked and shades pulled
  down at night.
• Keep all entrances and garages well lit and
  shrubbery trimmed.
• Dont open the door if you do not know who is
  there.
• Never hide a key over the door frame or in a
  flower pot.
• Keep lights on in more than one room in the home.
• Dont allow strangers in your home to use your
  phone.

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Risk ReductionPrecautions on the street

• Dont accept rides with strangers.
• Keep away from darkened doorways, parking lots,
  alleys, parks and open fields or deserted
  Laundromats.
• Avoid deserted bus stops, they are dangerous.
  Try to catch a bus with other people.
• Go places with friends. It is safer than going
  by yourself.
• Dont give rides to strangers.

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Risk ReductionPrecautions in your car

• Always lock your car when you get in or out.
• Look in the back seat and on the floor before
  getting in to see if anyone is hiding there.
• If you have car trouble, raise the hood, lock
  yourself in, keep windows closed and wait for
  police.
• Have keys in your hand so you dont take a long
  time entering your car.
• Dont stop for gas or directions in an area that
  looks dangerous.
• If you think you are being followed, do not go
  home instead drive to the police station.

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Risk ReductionPrecautions on dates

• Know your dates name, address and workplace.
• Meet new people in pubic places.
• Try to date a new person as part of a group.
• Trust your instincts about possible danger.
• Express yourself and expect your statements to be
  honored.
• Be aware of your environment. Alcohol and drugs
  inhibit your decision-making ability.
• Make arrangements with parents or friends to pick
  you up if you should ever need a ride.

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What to do if you are victimized

• Go to the emergency room immediately.
• Take a friend or family member with you for moral
  support and to help you remember details that you
  will be asked.
• Dont shower or douche before talking with a
  police officer.
• Save the clothing or bedding that was involved.
• Remember that if you dont report the incident,
  your attacker will be free to repeat what he did
  to you.

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Helping Someone Who Has Been Raped

• Respect
• Accept
• Listen
• Pay attention
• Care
• Encourage
• Let the victims make their own decisions.
• Offer physical comfort and warmth

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Dating Violence

• Physical
• Actions which cause physical pain or injury, such
  as kicking, pushing or punching.
• Emotional
• Actions which cause loss of self-esteem, such as
  name-calling, swearing or criticizing.
• Psychological
• Actions which create fear, such as isolation or
  threats.
• Sexual
• Acts of sexual nature that are unwelcome or
  uncomfortable.

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Victims need to know

• The abuse is not your fault.
• You do not deserve to be abused.
• You cannot change someone who is abusive.
• Staying in the relationship wont stop the abuse.
• Over time, the abuse will get worse.
• Make a safe plan to follow when the abuse happens
  again.

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Rights you have when dating

• Be treated with respect.
• Your own body, thoughts, opinions and property.
• Have your needs be as important as your
  partners.
• Not take responsibility for your partners
  behavior.
• Keep your friends.
• Grow as an individual.
• Break-up, fall out of love or leave a
  relationship.

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Harassment Awareness QuizTrue or False

• Sexual harassment is a problem in society today.
• True
• Men or boys can be the victims of sexual
  harassment.
• True
• If a woman dresses or behaves in sexy way, she is
  asking to be sexually harassed.
• False

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Harassment Awareness QuizTrue or False

• Sexual harassment can occur between people of the
  same sex.
• True
• Saying NO is usually enough to stop sexual
  harassment.
• False
• If sexual harassment occurs in the school between
  students, it is illegal and the school is
  responsible.
• True

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Harassment Awareness QuizTrue or False

• Women who work in jobs usually held by men are
  more likely to be sexually harassed.
• True
• The only people who can harass others are those
  in positions of authority.
• False
• One of the best ways to deal with sexual
  harassment is to ignore it.
• False

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Harassment Awareness QuizTrue or False

• A recent study reported that four out of five
  students experienced some form of sexual
  harassment in school.
• True

Sometimes it is hard to tell if someone is
flirting with you or if they are sexually
harassing you. The main idea is how it makes you
feel. If you are hurt or want it to stop, it is
harassment.
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In Real Life
Sexual Harassment
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Internet Quiz

• Sexual Violations