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Title: 1' Listening is hearing your words, watching your face and body language, hearing your tone and volu


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  • 1. Listening is hearing your words, watching your
    face and body language, hearing your tone and
    volume, and catching your heart.

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  • 2. Listening with care means that I mostly am
    silent, unhurried, and non-anxious.

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  • 3. Listening with care means that I listen with
    my ears (hear with ears), eyes (yes, I care), and
    my heart (whats going on inside beyond the words
    spoken). Listening requires a responsethe
    response may be only attentive silence.

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  • 4. A person who is holding in emotion needs a
    release. Such an individual is unlikely to 1)
    think clearly about the challenge or 2) be
    receptive to outside input from another.

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  • 5. During venting, there is still too much
    pressure for a person to consider other
    perspectives.

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  • 6. The role of the listener is to help empty the
    large reservoirs of emotion, anger, stress,
    frustration and other negative feelings until the
    individual can see more clearly.

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  • 7. Good listeners listen with their faces.

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  • 8. Thoughts move about four times as fast as
    speech.

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  • 9.

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  • 10. Grant that I may not so much seek
  • To be understood as to understand... (Saint
    Francis of Assisi)

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  • 11. A healthy, biblical relationship is
    bilateral. Both give what each other needs the
    most and both take what is needed.

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  • 12. The Givers rule is instinctively followed
  • Do whatever you can to make the other person
    happy and avoid whatever makes the other person
    unhappy, even if it makes you unhappy.

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  • 13. the Takers rule is instinctively followed
  • Do whatever you can to make yourself happy and
    avoid anything that makes yourself unhappy, even
    if it makes the other person unhappy.

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  • 14. In the State of Withdrawal, there is little
    or no expectation to have emotional needs met by
    the other spouse. Hope is lost that feelings and
    interests will be considered. Trust that the
    other person will meet your needs is destroyed.

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  • 15. What you give should make the other person
    happy, but it should also make you happy. What
    you take should make you happy, but it should
    also make the other person happy.

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  • 16. Only about 30 of conflicts are truly
    resolved in marriage.

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  • 17. God grant me the serenity to accept the
    things that I cannot change the courage to
    change the things I can and the wisdom to know
    the difference.

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  • 18 . All of us will risk telling more personal
    information to a person who is understanding and
    accepting. Criticism, sarcasm, disrespectful
    judgments, and apparent disinterest inhibit and
    diminish the development or sustaining of
    intimacy.

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  • 19a.
  • AFFECTION
  • SEXUAL FULFILLMENT
  • CONVERSATION
  • RECREATIONAL COMPANIONSHIP
  • HONESTY AND OPENNESS

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  • 19b.
  • PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
  • FINANCIAL SUPPORT
  • DOMESTIC SUPPORT
  • FAMILY COMMITMENT
  • ADMIRATION.

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  • 20. Through my 25 years as a marriage counselor,
    the couples who are in the most disturbed
    relationships have struggled to find even one
    hour of quality time together in a week.

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  • 21. Women form bonds through conversation and
    men form bonds through activity.

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  • 23a. Mackenzie, Papa was strong and firm. I
    already told you that forgiveness does not create
    a relationship. Unless people speak the truth
    about what they have done and change their mind
    and behavior, a relationship of trust is not
    possible. When you forgive someone you certainly
    release them from judgment, but without true
    change, no real relationship can be established.
    (Wm. Paul Young)

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  • 23b. When you forgive someone you certainly
    release them from judgment, but without true
    change, no real relationship can be established.
    (Wm. Paul Young)

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  • 24a. Sarayu interrupted him. Mack, if anything
    matters then everything matters. Because you are
    important, everything you do is important.

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  • 24b. Every time you forgive, the universe
    changes every time you reach out and touch a
    heart or a life, the world changes with every
    kindness and service, seen or unseen, my purposes
    are accomplished and nothing will ever be the
    same again.

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